Live Tweet Captures Wives’ Plan To Expose Fucking Husbands

[+ TylerandAce]

http://qklnk.co/ee4fwV

A woman in an airport live tweets an eavesdropping experience where she follows the plan of two wives meeting for the first time in a coordinated effort to expose husbands who are fucking each other. They had never met, but there is no information on how this was exposed or what happened after. It would be nice to know the story, but I think we can fill in the gaps. I cheated briefly on my wife but was a terrible liar and it started to affect my life beyond just sex. Many of our clients are married to women and work hard to compartmentalize. Some are great at it. Others struggle. We think that’s where pros come in handy. Not nearly the complication.

[+ Avalon]

What excuses do married men tell their wives they are meeting you? Are the appointments usually just an or two or do they make extended meetings?

[jjkrkwood]

"Our Men are Cheating GAY Scumbags"....

 

[+ Avalon]

Times are changing. Hopefully someday gay men can live free and open and not have to hide in a hetero marriage.

[jjkrkwood]

Times are changing. Hopefully someday gay men can live free and open and not have to hide in a hetero marriage.

 

Some dont hide....it's an "arrangement".....

[+ TylerandAce]

What excuses do married men tell their wives they are meeting you? Are the appointments usually just an or two or do they make extended meetings?

We have all kinds. Some have never had experience with men before and want to be taught and have a sure thing. They might start out with a short appointment and progress to longer ones. Others are very experienced and want to experiment with fantasies they can’t fulfill with their wives. Some want to be part of a couple, experience love between men, and have days worth of an experience. All, however, are looking for professional execution of an agreed meeting that requires absolute discretion.

 

We don’t ask about excuses and feel it’s none of our business. Most use work travel as a reason to be away from home, though.

[+ Avalon]

We have all kinds. Some have never had experience with men before and want to be taught and have a sure thing. They might start out with a short appointment and progress to longer ones. Others are very experienced and want to experiment with fantasies they can’t fulfill with their wives. Some want to be part of a couple, experience love between men, and have days worth of an experience. All, however, are looking for professional execution of an agreed meeting that requires absolute discretion.

 

Thank-you!

[rvwnsd]

Times are changing. Hopefully someday gay men can live free and open and not have to hide in a hetero marriage.

Umm...a lot of gay men do live freely and openly.

[+ TylerandAce]

Umm...a lot of gay men do live freely and openly.

Thankfully! Tyler and I found our way though heterohell!

[rvwnsd]

Thankfully! Tyler and I found our way though heterohell!

I know two men who, believe it or not (I believe it) did not discover their attraction to men until late in life. One was in his late 60's/early 70's when his wife passed away, he moved to San Diego, and suddenly found he was attracted to men. The other divorced his wife after she hit rock bottom with mental illness and drugs and started neglecting their kids.

[+ TylerandAce]

I know two men who, believe it or not (I believe it) did not discover their attraction to men until late in life. One was in his late 60's/early 70's when his wife passed away, he moved to San Diego, and suddenly found he was attracted to men. The other divorced his wife after she hit rock bottom with mental illness and drugs and started neglecting their kids.

Sexuality is a curious thing. It’s certainly not predictable and affects each of us in such powerfully unique ways. I never question a person’s path or their truth.

[rvwnsd]

Sexuality is a curious thing. It’s certainly not predictable and affects each of us in such powerfully unique ways. I never question a person’s path or their truth.

So true. I learned that by facilitating a men's coming out group. It was a very enlightening opportunity for me.

[+ TylerandAce]

So true. I learned that by facilitating a men's coming out group. It was a very enlightening opportunity for me.

Very cool. Would be nice to live in a place where that kind of group exists.

[rvwnsd]

Very cool. Would be nice to live in a place where that kind of group exists.

Me too! I volunteered at the San Diego LGBT center. Here in Phoenix the center closed. Get this - Chicago's center discontinued theirs due to lack of interest. In 1996 when I went through the Chicago group there was a 6-month waiting list.

[+ TylerandAce]

Me too! I volunteered at the San Diego LGBT center. Here in Phoenix the center closed. Get this - Chicago's center discontinued theirs due to lack of interest. In 1996 when I went through the Chicago group there was a 6-month waiting list.

I know lots of guys around us here in the South that could use something like that. Maybe it’s an easier process in more urban, liberal areas. In Trumpland, it’s a little different.

[mike carey]

I know lots of guys around us here in the South that could use something like that. Maybe it’s an easier process in more urban, liberal areas. In Trumpland, it’s a little different.

The problem is that even if you are terrified of coming out yourself, in liberal urban areas there is a known level of people who will accept you. So you can safely come out to the small number of people in a support group regardless of whether you are prepared to come out more widely. In more closeted and hostile areas, you are unlikely even to trust a support group that claims to be there to help. Even if you trust them, but you may not trust that you can even talk to them without someone 'noticing'. For example, I'm sure you two could help other guys in your area, but how many closeted guys would risk even talking to you. None of us in more enlightened areas should underestimate the difficulty people in, for example, the south, face.

[+ TylerandAce]

The problem is that even if you are terrified of coming out yourself, in liberal urban areas there is a known level of people who will accept you. So you can safely come out to the small number of people in a support group regardless of whether you are prepared to come out more widely. In more closeted and hostile areas, you are unlikely even to trust a support group that claims to be there to help. Even if you trust them, but you may not trust that you can even talk to them without someone 'noticing'. For example, I'm sure you two could help other guys in your area, but how many closeted guys would risk even talking to you. None of us in more enlightened areas should underestimate the difficulty people in, for example, the south, face.

Oh yeah...it’s amazing how many we counsel...online. Not one will be seen with us from fear of “faggot by association”. Guys in my Sunday School class. Guys I went to high school with. Guys in my college fraternity (although most have come out now). Even my lawyer! For a while, I talked to my lawyer more on hookup apps than I did in person. Good way to save $250/hour.!! Scruff and Grindr become the safe spaces for it. They start by commenting on my Facebook page, then they’ll hit us up on A4A with a “I know you”. Well, no shit Sherlock. I have a bunch of face pics showing and all you show is your fat ass. Then they say “we probably have some things in common”. Well, ya don’t say!!

 

When we got married and Tyler moved to Mississippi, he didn’t know a single gay man with biological children and an ex wife (except me). Now, knowing a gay man who’s been out for a time is the unusual thing. Thank God for the Internet. Otherwise, I could still be one of them.

[rvwnsd]

While I agree that a greater proportion of the population in a liberal urban center will be accepting than in a conservative urban center, there are still resources available, albeit farther away or virtual. I'd also say that not all liberals are as accepting in practice as they would like us to believe and not all conservatives are as non-accepting as liberals would like us to believe.

[+ TylerandAce]

While I agree that a greater proportion of the population in a liberal urban center will be accepting than in a conservative urban center, there are still resources available, albeit farther away or virtual. I'd also say that not all liberals are as accepting in practice as they would like us to believe and not all conservatives are as non-accepting as liberals would like us to believe.

Right. All I can do is talk about the experiences i/we have. I’m fortunate to travel extensively for work each week and the husband has lived in major cities most of his life. We know the differences first-hand. That being said, we live around a loving family with wonderful support from friends, both gay and straight. Living in Mississippi isn’t a death sentence any more than WeHo is the gay paradise.

[mike carey]

Living in Mississippi isn’t a death sentence any more than WeHo is the gay paradise.

The inherent nature of societies can often transcend gay or straight. Big city 'attitude' can be as isolating as homophobic attitude, and country communitarianism can be welcoming despite attitudes to sexuality. A blinding glimpse of the obvious, perhaps!

[+ TylerandAce]

The inherent nature of societies can often transcend gay or straight. Big city 'attitude' can be as isolating as homophobic attitude, and country communitarianism can be welcoming despite attitudes to sexuality. A blinding glimpse of the obvious, perhaps!

Very true, but it’s good to be reminded of that.

 

I do love the meandering way these posts cross into subject matter that is different than the initial intent!