I Text I Call I Email....NADA

[Kregger1]

Recently I've reached out to several masseurs via text...and after a day or so ill follow up with a call or email.

 

A fair number of guys simply never respond....to multiple texts/calls.

 

I'm not a stalker, ill try a couple texts and maybe a call but a good number never reply.

 

I'm curious if they each get such a large volume of texts that they can't reply to them all? In each text I'm always specific about suggested day & time for appointment too. Not even a reply that they are busy.

 

Frustrating.

[+ poolboy48220]

I've experienced that. I find it more frustrating, though, when an ongoing communication just cuts off with no further word. Which is happening to me right now with a traveller :-(

[MassageDrew]

I’ve experienced that as well. You know, it would be polite to respond with “I’m busy” or “I’m already booked” but that is their decision to do so. None response is a no-no for me. I don’t give second chances. They don’t respond and I will not contact them again. One good thing about living in a bigger city is that I have a lot to choose from.

[seattlebottom]

It's the same with escorts. My birthday is coming up and I want to have a celebration but no response to the 3 inquiries that I have sent out.

[Bearofdistinction]

Recently I've reached out to several masseurs via text...and after a day or so ill follow up with a call or email.

 

A fair number of guys simply never respond....to multiple texts/calls.

 

I'm not a stalker, ill try a couple texts and maybe a call but a good number never reply.

 

I'm curious if they each get such a large volume of texts that they can't reply to them all? In each text I'm always specific about suggested day & time for appointment too. Not even a reply that they are busy. Frustrating.

 

MOVE ON-- You are the consumer and CASH is KING!

[LaffingBear]

Thats just the way the world works nowadays.

 

Happens to me too. And not just with rentguys. Service providers, contractors, etc.

[LADoug1]

Courtesy and graciousness is on the wane.

[BearBill]

My goto massage guy wasn't responding to my texts, it drove me nuts thinking what did i do or say that made him block or ignore me. I tried email and calling no response. A year later he texted me asking how i was doing, turned out he changed his number, he updated masseurfinder but i was using his old phone contact number. We've since made up "big time".

[Pepper Young]

I think we've all experienced that. I send a text once and if no response, I move on. These guys are running a business and if they can't take a second to respond, well, it's their loss.

[+ BlueSky]

No answer to a first contact with an escort is puzzling. You never really know if it's just a bad time, he isn't interested, or whatever. Usually I don't try again right away. I have waited a few weeks or even months and tried again (usually because I see their ad again). And in one or two cases I've gotten a response and a meeting has resulted. Having read posts from escorts on the site I can understand how a text or email can be overlooked. They can get lots of replies with no way of knowing which are legit clients and which are time wasters.

 

I have one or two regulars who sometimes don't text me back right away. With them I've learned it's just their style. No answer means they're busy. If I try again the next week or whatever we can usually find a time to connect. Yes, I'd much prefer they just text "can't meet now" but whatever. All is forgiven next time I see them naked.

[ncc1701d]

Seems to be happening more often based on my experience. Not sure why or whether it's a millennial thing. My favorite is when he states clearly on his RM ad "prefer text and will always answer that", only to not answer twice........Hey kudos to him for still getting business, just not mine!

[+ friendofsheila]

My first in-person conversation with an escort at our appointment started with him asking, "So have you had a busy day?"

 

When I asked if HIS day has been busy, he said "YES!" and went on about receiving so many messages.

 

So I can understand during a certain time of the week (or maybe "of the year" since it is now the holidays and people have free time), the popular escorts can get swamped with communication.