Does having a regular job(s) make an escort more desirable?

[LADoug1]

I’m always intrigued when an escort also has a “regular” job. How cool to be able to have two personas. How would coworkers react if they knew?

 

Also saving for retirement is an absolute must.

[ChristianCronin]

I don't have the energy OR the clientele to be a "full time" escort anyway

[+ Tarte Gogo]

I’m always intrigued when an escort also has a “regular” job. How cool to be able to have two personas. How would coworkers react if they knew?

I have asked Abel Rey about this, he has a couple of interesting stories.

[Guest]

I think clients will subconsciously respect you more simply because of the sex worker stigma.

 

Yea some clients prefer amateur, escorts who haven't been long in the business/escorts who do this part time or going to school because of that reason. It's kind of a double standard, escorts get judged if they see all these clients yet no escort judges a client when they hire all these escorts lol

 

I remember I had this client I saw regularly for a moment and everytime we met he would question me about everything, kind of berate me for this being my only job. I guess he was afraid of diseases, when in fact I've never caught anything from a client. Im more afraid of having "free" sex on those random hookups app which i never do. I do notice these things mostly happen when a client is only seeing you, which i get bc it must sting a little that you have a connection with 1 person but he's seeing other people than you. I've never felt that way towards clients who hire multiple guys on a regular basis bc they know what its like lol.

[Mocha]

I don't have the energy OR the clientele to be a "full time" escort anyway

 

Lol, it's not as demanding as people think. It doesn't require 2-3 clients a day to stay afloat. I lived comfortably seeing only 3-4 clients a week (but I wasn't paying half of what I make a month like some these greedy property management companies be wanting nowadays) Sometimes I'd push to see more, other times I'd take non. It takes time.

 

But I also know everyone's living expenses vary....When I started, I had initially started while I was on my own (oh the days of amateur gay.com Xcorting lol), but then transitioned to living with a friend and then my relatives...until I got my bearings, and learned the business enough to move out and then start traveling.

 

I essentially went from having never been outside of Florida and Georgia for 19 years, to seeing most all the lower 48 in a matter of 5 years.

[Bearofdistinction]

That's what I'm wondering. I guess succesful in maybe...he is making enough money doing "that" work, so he doesn't have to rely on "this" work as much. Therefore, maybe he's willing to offer more time/discounts/freebies, etc.

 

Hell YES! Go Back to Being a Mary-Kay Lady and get out of escorting for you drag the BIZ down

[Bearofdistinction]

"Succesful", like how, in what?

 

I have seen gentleman on both sides of the spectrum --- and I have luck with both it takes careful planning and good communication.

 

Sometimes the surprise I is nice - and the fun begins --- Other times it is great to

find your Slave Intruder who needs to be instantly controlled bound and punished

until the master decides the fate of the teeTroom PIG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[+ sniper]

I wouldn't say "more attracted" but it increases the odds they are doing the job more willingly than simply because there's nothing else they can do.

[+ sniper]

Yea some clients prefer amateur, escorts who haven't been long in the business/escorts who do this part time or going to school because of that reason. It's kind of a double standard, escorts get judged if they see all these clients yet no escort judges a client when they hire all these escorts lol

 

I remember I had this client I saw regularly for a moment and everytime we met he would question me about everything, kind of berate me for this being my only job. I guess he was afraid of diseases, when in fact I've never caught anything from a client. Im more afraid of having "free" sex on those random hookups app which i never do. I do notice these things mostly happen when a client is only seeing you, which i get bc it must sting a little that you have a connection with 1 person but he's seeing other people than you. I've never felt that way towards clients who hire multiple guys on a regular basis bc they know what its like lol.

 

While it could be that, it could also simply being he sees you're young and wants you to set yourself up for long-term success/happiness. Lots of people your age do not think of the long term and it's a big mistake when you aren't rolling in money.

[+ BlueSky]

The guys I hire all have regular jobs, escorting is just a side line. It just seems to be how it works out with the guys I'm attracted to.