Karma doesn't want me to move on.

[LaffingBear]

Back in July, I wrote a thread about a bad escort experience

 

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/unbridled-stupidity.126404/

 

It really got under my skin, and I did a little obsessing about it... and mostly moved on.

 

I eventually submitted a negative review to Daddy... its in process

 

Cant recall, but I think I posted 2-3 weeks ago that, while mostly over it, I get an unpleasant reminder every time I cruise ads in a city I visit regularly for business. His is one of only 5-6 ads in that city, so its unavoidable; his fake photos are right there on page 1 of that city's ads.

 

Today I got an email from the a-hole. Hes so emotionally detatched from his cheating ways, he's forgotten who I am. He emailed to announce he'll be in my area tomorrow, would I like to see him?

 

Somehow, fate just doesnt want me to disconnect from and forget this bad experience.

 

[rvwnsd]

Sorry to hear the universe appears to be aligned against you on this. Mind if I make a suggestion? Reply and say "hey thanks for the heads-up on your travels. I'd appreciate your removing my contact information from your records." Then, block his phone number and flag his email as spam.

[+ Keith30309]

I've a similar situation with a guy who stealthed me... he still passes thru town occasionally and I see his profile and try to ignore it but am still a little torqued about it.

 

I try to remember the notion that forgiveness is a gift you give yourself. It's the way to dump the burden you carry around constantly. That usually works for me.

[jjkrkwood]

I hate being "cold-called". I always say "if I want you, I'll come for you".. You must understand, escorting is a business, and your guy probably sees tons of people. sometimes its hard to remember, and your name is probably on some contact list, so you are not being singled out as an individual. As others have said, request he remove you from his list.

[LaffingBear]

All rationale recommendations.