How not to meet men online

[LaffingBear]

A profile seen this morning on Adam4Adam:

 

I tried so many times this A4A and never worked out.

 

I'd like to meet a FRIEND to have fun with, and share some nice things in life other then sex

IF YOU CHARGE FOR SEX YOU ARE A WHORE , PROSTITUTE.

DONT CALL YOURSELF MASSGE THERAPIST.

 

I was actually tempted to message the guy and suggest that his judgmental profile is probably not the best way to meet guys. I got over the temptation in about 3 seconds.

 

But, it got me thinking about all of the craigs, Grindr, and A4A, etc... profiles Ive seen that not only seem ill-advised for meeting others, but seem to proclaim "hey, I have issues!"

[LaffingBear]

A profile seen this morning on Adam4Adam:

 

I tried so many times this A4A and never worked out.

 

I'd like to meet a FRIEND to have fun with, and share some nice things in life other then sex

IF YOU CHARGE FOR SEX YOU ARE A WHORE , PROSTITUTE.

DONT CALL YOURSELF MASSGE THERAPIST.

 

I was actually tempted to message the guy and suggest that his judgmental profile is probably not the best way to meet guys. I got over the temptation in about 3 seconds.

 

But, it got me thinking about all of the craigs, Grindr, and A4A, etc... profiles Ive seen that not only seem ill-advised for meeting others, but seem to proclaim "hey, I have issues!"

[LaffingBear]

And these are the ones that never get any hires, and just get more worked up about nobody seeing them. They need to open their eyes and take cues from those that use an approach that isn't so antagonistic.

Hes not a rentguy.... hes just a guy online trying to meet friends.

[LaffingBear]

And these are the ones that never get any hires, and just get more worked up about nobody seeing them. They need to open their eyes and take cues from those that use an approach that isn't so antagonistic.

Hes not a rentguy.... hes just a guy online trying to meet friends.

[+ Lance_Navarro]

The guy's just an ass and an idiot, but I would also like to point out that on A4A you can no longer advertise as an escort, so it's either massage therapist or model. So, us "whores" have been stripped of the opportunity to be honest.

[+ Lance_Navarro]

The guy's just an ass and an idiot, but I would also like to point out that on A4A you can no longer advertise as an escort, so it's either massage therapist or model. So, us "whores" have been stripped of the opportunity to be honest.

[BasketBaller]

I gave up on craigslist after a few unsatisfying encounters, but I recognize the attitude I saw there from guys who posted things like this. I can't imagine this gets a response they would like.

 

But while I'm quite comfortable with my decision to hire escorts, I was frustrated by the number of times I'd have responded to an ad on craigslist where the guy would eventually say some variation of "can you be generous?" I'd rather hire a pro than a dabbler, so that is why I gave up on the personals.

[BasketBaller]

I gave up on craigslist after a few unsatisfying encounters, but I recognize the attitude I saw there from guys who posted things like this. I can't imagine this gets a response they would like.

 

But while I'm quite comfortable with my decision to hire escorts, I was frustrated by the number of times I'd have responded to an ad on craigslist where the guy would eventually say some variation of "can you be generous?" I'd rather hire a pro than a dabbler, so that is why I gave up on the personals.

[amigomonty]

@Lance_Navarro, most of us would like to strip you of more than opportunity, like whatever the white garment is in your avatar. Yes, I derailed a thread.

[amigomonty]

@Lance_Navarro, most of us would like to strip you of more than opportunity, like whatever the white garment is in your avatar. Yes, I derailed a thread.

[rvwnsd]

I can't even begin to imagine why he hasn't met anyone. Sounds like a real catch.