Advice and a question

[gallahadesquire]

I've met a fellow from SeekingArrangement.com. Muscled, blond, just my type, "pretty straight" when I asked.

He's had an emergency and I helped him out.

 

We've met three times, just to talk. He says he's very nervous. When I touched him, he didn't withdraw, but was a little shaken (it was a clasp behind the neck).

 

I think he's genuine, gay-for-pay, but needs to settle in.

 

HOWEVER, he has this odd effect on me. During our second meeting, I realized I was mildly aroused, a familiar but ancient tingle in the nether bits. Well, okay. But then it lasted ... and lasted ...

 

It went on until the next day, when I had to give him some papers, and it was a short meeting. And the same, ancient tingle was amplified a bit ...

 

Is it a pheromone thing? I couldn't smell anything. I just found myself aroused, and in a good way, and I'm worried that if I stay around him in a closed space for more than an hour I'm going to rip his cloths off.

 

Ever have this happen to you?

 

Oh, the advice: Should I run away now?

[+ José Soplanucas]

Have you just checked my blog? @gallahadesquire

[Good Grief]

Have you just checked my blog? [/uSER]

 

Pardon my interjection (probably not the best wording selection,) but I did check your blog.

 

Hope you're not using your real name???

[bigvalboy]

Have you just checked my blog? @gallahadesquire

 

I have a couple of friends on seeking arrangements, well one is on the fence, though a connection turned out to be fairly satisfactory. Your analysis in your blog is spot on....

[+ José Soplanucas]

Pardon my interjection (probably not the best wording selection,) but I did check your blog.

 

Hope you're not using your real name???

LOL. I am stupid but not THAT stupid.

[Good Grief]

LOL. I am stupid but not THAT stupid.

 

Didn't really think so.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Variations of latbear4blk are my nickname in hooking up websites in the USA. Back in Argentina I used to be Soplanucas.

Didn't really think so.

[MikeyGMin]

Ever have this happen to you?

Yes.

Oh, the advice: Should I run away now?

And yes.

 

It was like that with the love of my life. Just a glimpse. Just getting near him (pheromones?) let alone close enough to actually smell him. But he was an available gay man, not gay for pay.

 

Run Forrest run!

[gallahadesquire]

Yes.

 

And yes.

 

It was like that with the love of my life. Just a glimpse. Just getting near him (pheromones?) let alone close enough to actually smell him. But he was an available gay man, not gay for pay.

 

Run Forrest run!

 

IF he was the love of your life, and available ... I hope you two got it together?!??!

[MikeyGMin]

IF he was the love of your life, and available ... I hope you two got it together?!??!

Alas, he was the love of my life but I was not his. We had many rocky years (that I would not trade for the world) of an on-again off-again relationship that ended when a man (who I try not to hate) ran a red light and took him from everyone who loved him.

[gallahadesquire]

Alas, he was the love of my life but I was not his. We had many rocky years (that I would not trade for the world) of an on-again off-again relationship that ended when a man (who I try not to hate) ran a red light and took him from everyone who loved him.

 

That is so sad. I'm sorry for your loss.