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[Mydavid]

Since summer break is coming up, do you need to be in school? Like are you planning on taking summer classes?

 

If you're both serious about it, why not try living out there for a month. Tell your family it's an internship or something. And see if the magic lasts longer than a weekend. Because like some other people have said, you've only been together during "the fun times" where it's all magical and exciting and you're essentially on vacation.

 

If you don't feel confident about it after a month, then I think you have some more thinking to do. And I also agree that you should finish your degree. You can use that visit to check out schools as well!

Good suggestion!

[+ José Soplanucas]

@Jock123 , it is hard giving you good advice as you have been super discrete and did not share much about you before. The way you showed yourself gave me the impression of someone very mature and with his life under control. Now I am realizing you are much younger and inexperienced that I was thinking when I posted above. Be careful. If you understand how weather forecast works, let's say there is a 95% probabilities that it is not Love.

[caliguy]

"he's even gone as far as supporting my life. Basically sending me money whenever I need (He has a high paying job)."

 

My dream man. If you change your mind let me know.

[adventurous old guy]

Jock, just because you met in a client/escort context doesn't mean this can't work. But I'm with the camp whose hair stands on end at the tradeoff between your own school and career and moving in for love now. If I were in your shoes I'd give some thought to your own power in the relationship. Are you putting yourself in a situation where they guy you love has all the the power when it comes to working out problems? Because problems almost always do surface when people move in together and have to be negotiated.

[cany10011]

Interesting situation. It's awesome you've met someone you like and are contemplating moving in together....However, i would ask the following: Have you received a committment of how much financing he will be able to provide you when you move in together? Are you expected to work or just stay at home? Has he helped you make a plan in continuing your studies? What happens if he meets someone else? How will you protect yourself?

[Mydavid]

People say love conquers all, but a lot we thought were love were actually passing crushes.

I had this kind of experience when I'd like to give up all for the love, but it never worked out.

Love should be smooth, if you sacrificed too much for it, it would usually turn into trouble in the future.

[Mydavid]

[Good Grief]

Let's link this thread to this thread: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/i-have-become-attached-to-my-escort.123646/

[Scott Virginian]

Bayman4Fun has a good catch there. Are you sure you're not hearing "move in" when all he said was "exclusive"?

 

I like MileHigh's suggestion to spend the summer together. If you can spend two months of daily life together and feelings deepen, not wane, that's useful info. And if it's not destined to work, two months of having to deal with each other every single day may blow it up pretty effectively. :-)