Finding an old friend/acquaintance on rentmen

[+ MostlyLurking]

Ok, so I'm lying in bed with this escort who had just topped me. Suddenly he says, "Are you a lawyer?"

 

"Guilty as charged," sez I.

 

Turned out that we'd had a role reversal. That night I was the client. Twenty years earlier it had been him. I worked pro bono. He didn't.

[+ honcho]

Turned out that we'd had a role reversal. That night I was the client. Twenty years earlier it had been him. I worked pro bono. He didn't.

 

Jeez, you worked *pro bono* and he wouldn't even offer a discount in honor of kindnesses past?

 

Well, I suppose that work done in the public good is supposed to be its own reward . . .

[+ MostlyLurking]

No complaints. The evening was worth every penny.

[+ pitman]

Ok, so I'm lying in bed with this escort who had just topped me. Suddenly he says, "Are you a lawyer?"

 

"Guilty as charged," sez I.

 

Turned out that we'd had a role reversal. That night I was the client. Twenty years earlier it had been him. I worked pro bono. He didn't.

I would think a pro boner in exchange for pro bono would be a fair trade.

[GasparJohnson]

I think that this may have happened to me recently...

 

 

I was in the processing of setting up a session. The client seemed very excited about it. I sent a physique selfie while holding a piece of paper with his name and a short message to confirm that it was indeed me. He seemed even more eager to meet.

 

However, after I sent over a face picture, he stopped all communication. I tried to contact him through both email and texting, but there was no response. Perhaps he just did not like my face (lol), but I think that we actually know each other because his description fits someone I know who lives in the neighborhood where the potential client lives:

 

A few months ago, I was at a bar for a friend's birthday party. At 2 A.M. a friend of a friend came up to me. He was drunk, and he started rubbing his hands all over my body and complimenting me on my physique. It was flattering, but a little odd at the same time, lol.

 

My friend told me that this guy works in software development, so I am assuming that he makes a good income. Thus, I am thinking that the potential client and the guy at the bar are the same person because:

 

 

1. Same age (27)--it seems that most clients are older, so the fact that he is a gay 27-year-old who is hiring means that he probably makes a good income

2. Same ethnicity (he is from an ethnic group that makes up only a small percentage of the neighborhood's population)

3. He really liked certain parts of my body, and the person I know in real life commented on those same body parts.

4. He was very excited to meet up UNTIL he saw the face picture.

 

 

No way to know for sure, but I think that we know each other, and that he was embarrassed about people potentially finding out that he hires.

[LADoug1]

I would think a pro boner in exchange for pro bono would be a fair trade.

 

Hysterical!

[LADoug1]

Last year I posted about recognizing a teacher at my sons' school on RM. No way would I have hired him (not complementary interests, anyway), but I have seen him occasionally at events and games. I definitely feel a bit strange knowing that about him-- and about having seen pics of him naked.

 

I think I would feel the same way but it may indicate a slight negative opinion of the escort profession. Plus that teacher is taking quite a chance. A few years ago there was a teacher who was also a porn star. When it was discovered it wasn't pretty for the guy.

[BabyBoomer]

A few years ago there was a teacher who was also a porn star. When it was discovered it wasn't pretty for the guy.

 

Collin O'Neal. I think he's back doing porn.

 

~Boomer ~

[LADoug1]

Collin O'Neal. I think he's back doing porn.

 

~Boomer ~

 

Porn vs teaching. Which would one choose?

[Chuckball]

I can appreciate the desire to ensure both the client and the escort are strangers. It seems ironic that seeking to get together to engage in intimate behavior requires anonymity. However as a lawyer practicing criminal law I would be more than uncomfortable if my sexual partner was a previous client. I have turned down work from a man who got into trouble and then contacted me for representation. So even though a refusal to meet may be interpreted as a rejection on personal basis it may well be there are ethical considerations that must be considered.

[big-n-tall]

Collin O'Neal. I think he's back doing porn.

 

~Boomer ~

 

Collin was not the only one. I cant remember the year, but porn actor Ty Fox was forced to leave his job as a gym teacher and football & wrestling coach. Someone outed him for doing gay porn. I don't think he was doing it the same time he was teaching though. He was forced to resign and give up his teaching credentials.

 

I think when he was discovered he had not done any porn in some time. After the incident he went back briefly.

[realeasymoney]

I met someone who grew up in the same town I did, but we didn't know each other. Big city suburb.

[instudiocity]

Porn vs teaching. Which would one choose?

Aren't both professions teaching?