Bondage escorts

[escortrod]

Hi all,

 

I'm looking for another escort in NYC who's into bondage, preferably with some rope skills. Any recommendations?

 

Rod

[+ Travis69]

I would check with Kevin Slater. Not sure if he is into it but he knows the NYC scene quite well.

[whipped guy]

I'm guessing that Tom Isern will fit the bill. I have never hired him, but I did correspond with him a number of years ago and if my memory serves me he used to attend the New York Bondage Club. I am a member and those that attend at least have a rudimentary interest in Bondage. I also recall reading reviews where various bondsge accoutrements were mentioned. Consequently I would give him a shout.

[Kevin Slater]

I would check with Kevin Slater. Not sure if he is into it but he knows the NYC scene quite well.

 

I love bondage (especially when combined with e-stim!), but if you're looking for a true pro, perhaps Tom Isern or Sir Tony Bishop would be the way to go. Or one of the various Masters. (Is Master Avery out of the biz? I seem to recall.)

 

Kevin Slater

[whipped guy]

(Is Master Avery out of the biz? I seem to recall.)

Last I knew yes, but his website is still up and says the following for what it's worth:

 

I am currently working on acting, directing and script writing for my next feature film. I am also available as a BDSM consultant and educator by request.

 

http://www.masteravery.com/

[JackSpar]

Does anyone know where can I find a good one in Seattle??

[BeHappy]

I have been with Tom and loved every second of time I was with him. Cannot wait to see him again!

 

Now Mr. Slater now that you mentioned Estim you have "sparked" my interest

[marylander1940]

I would check with Kevin Slater. Not sure if he is into it but he knows the NYC scene quite well.

 

and he has a huge cock!

[NYCguy17]

You might also try Mike Masters

[Jose Anmo]

looks like master Avery is back on RM. https://rentmen.eu/TravelingTravis

 

any experience?

[pubic_assistance]

My go-to for Bondage play would be Sir Kirk - https://rentmen.eu/WhosNext

Lives in Florida and NYC

[nycl4escort]

I have not been with this escort, but their profile mentions rope bondage. #cuteguy

 

https://rentmen.eu/Damien_Wood

[pubic_assistance]

More and more people are checking bondage in their list of offerings yet have little to no experience.

[Eggman]

More and more people are checking bondage in their list of offerings yet have little to no experience.

 

That has, unfortunately, been my experience. I need a trained, EXPERIENCED, master.

 

Does anyone have a solid DC recommendation?

[twb6yz]

https://rentmen.eu/BondageDaddy is excellent at bondage

[Jose Anmo]

master Avery comes to NYC from time to time. saw him once. fun but haven't repeated.

[Jose Anmo]

https://rentmasseur.com/TrekNYC offers bdsm sessions.

[Keenan]

That has, unfortunately, been my experience. I need a trained, EXPERIENCED, master.

 

Does anyone have a solid DC recommendation?

I love doing rope bondage, in fact to make things even more fun I have conductive rope which I can use with my violet wand. I'm based in the Baltimore/DC area.

 

Keenan

[Timbo]

Cristiano Jose has excellent rope skills and is very good at any king of bondage.

[borgerback]

More and more people are checking bondage in their list of offerings yet have little to no experience.

 

This is quite irritating - and I find it happens quite often. Having said that, it's cool that guys I'm attracted to are interested/willing, but I'm usually on the hunt for someone with skills, safety, and trustworthiness. Also equipment (meaning bondage gear).

[Todd Jenkins]

This is quite irritating - and I find it happens quite often. Having said that, it's cool that guys I'm attracted to are interested/willing, but I'm usually on the hunt for someone with skills, safety, and trustworthiness. Also equipment (meaning bondage gear).

VERY FRUSTRATING as a DOM TOP, too. BECAUSE, you get a bottom escort that says he is into it and so you call to tell them you are a DOM TOP and are they experienced as a sub, and they say yes. You get to the appt, start Dominating them slowly, and they freak out in the first few minutes...

 

OR, after the session, they email or text you and say 'I am not comfortable with what you did the other night. I let it go on because I know you were paying for the hour with me but you really need to tell someone EVERYTHING you are going to do to them."

 

As a DOM, I never tell a boy / sub fully what I am going to do them. VERY frustrating when you have PAID for the service!

[muscmtl]

Being a dom top client is frustrating, point

[+ poolboy48220]

I'm only mildly experienced in bondage, but isn't there always supposed to be a safe word?

[LivingnLA]

VERY FRUSTRATING as a DOM TOP, too. BECAUSE, you get a bottom escort that says he is into it and so you call to tell them you are a DOM TOP and are they experienced as a sub, and they say yes. You get to the appt, start Dominating them slowly, and they freak out in the first few minutes...

 

OR, after the session, they email or text you and say 'I am not comfortable with what you did the other night. I let it go on because I know you were paying for the hour with me but you really need to tell someone EVERYTHING you are going to do to them."

 

As a DOM, I never tell a boy / sub fully what I am going to do them. VERY frustrating when you have PAID for the service!

 

That's surprising to me. Are you a Sadist Dom? I can do and enjoy sadism, but I'm always coming from the tough love side of the spectrum. BDSM is where I learned how critically important informed enthusiastic consent was for a great scene. As a Dominant, the way I learned and practice to this day, is informed consent to insure that no one is abused or assaulted. It's one thing with a sub that you know and who knows you, but with a brand new sub that you've never played with before, I would think a clear conversation about the themes and no-fly-zones along with how communication should go would be important to a great time for everyone. Pushing boundaries can be alot of fun, but part of the responsibility I've learned as a Dominant, is taking care of the emotional, mental, and physical well-being of my sub during a scene. For those subs who want to explore boundary pushing, non-con play, or other challenging scenes, I make sure there's clear agreement and I also plan for the necessary after care.

 

Recently, a curious guy was referred by a buddy. I'd love to know how that conversation went. He wanted to be spanked hard repeatedly until he was bruised for days without bleeding or broken skin, to use his own words. We discussed communication, the scene, his health, meds, and the like to understand how it would all go. During the after care, he thanked me for knowing what he needed even when he thought he wanted more. A few days later, he again thanked me for everything and asked if he could suck me off next time. I haven't decided yet if he'll be good enough to see my cock, let alone touch or suck it.

[Todd Jenkins]

That's surprising to me. Are you a Sadist Dom? I can do and enjoy sadism, but I'm always coming from the tough love side of the spectrum. BDSM is where I learned how critically important informed enthusiastic consent was for a great scene. As a Dominant, the way I learned and practice to this day, is informed consent to insure that no one is abused or assaulted. It's one thing with a sub that you know and who knows you, but with a brand new sub that you've never played with before, I would think a clear conversation about the themes and no-fly-zones along with how communication should go would be important to a great time for everyone. Pushing boundaries can be alot of fun, but part of the responsibility I've learned as a Dominant, is taking care of the emotional, mental, and physical well-being of my sub during a scene. For those subs who want to explore boundary pushing, non-con play, or other challenging scenes, I make sure there's clear agreement and I also plan for the necessary after care.

 

Recently, a curious guy was referred by a buddy. I'd love to know how that conversation went. He wanted to be spanked hard repeatedly until he was bruised for days without bleeding or broken skin, to use his own words. We discussed communication, the scene, his health, meds, and the like to understand how it would all go. During the after care, he thanked me for knowing what he needed even when he thought he wanted more. A few days later, he again thanked me for everything and asked if he could suck me off next time. I haven't decided yet if he'll be good enough to see my cock, let alone touch or suck it.

 

I am actually referring to ONE particular case. I talked to the hired escort several times to go over the kinds of things I wanted to do and how far his limits were. But I always got the feeling he was 'half paying attention' to our conversations and when I met him in another city – that I traveled to just to see him for a WEEKEND!!!!!!!! – it became clearly evident that he had paid small attention to what I had said in the phone conversations.

 

He skipped out on the weekend, and only charged me a few hundred. He told me 'you never told me about all of this stuff' and I said 'yes, MOST CERTAINLY DID, you must not have been paying attention because this all is EXACTLY what I am into and I have ALWAYS been VERY upfront.'

 

This is the only time I have really had a bad experience with such a detailed scene. I think it's easy for these tough muscle men to say 'whatever you wanna do, you are paying for it and I can take it' and then when it happens, they aren't as mentally or physically strong as they THOUGHT they were.