Chicago escorts and overweight clients

[manderville]

Hello gents.

 

I am in my mid 50s and presently 20-25 pounds over my ideal weight (and primarily in my gut). I am VERY self conscious about it (but I guess not enough to do something about it). I've held off hiring for a couple of months now but feeling the need for some play time. Wondering if anyone has advice on Chicago escorts who work well with overweight older guys.

 

Thanks

[MassageDrew]

I have a friend who is probably 25 lbs overweight (times 2) and he's never shy about hiring hot masseurs. You're probably concerning yourself with something that doesn't even bother the masseur. Let it go.

[manderville]

Thanks. I've always wondered if when I have a bad experience with an escort whether it is something physical about me, or perhaps my low self-image (which must project through) that affects the escort.

[down_to_business]

If you are overly sensitive about things, search escort ads for keywords and phrases that include things like the very sexy Oliver Saks puts in his ad "Big men, bear men, bald men, older men - don't be shy! No hangups!" In cases like this, you know for a fact you will be welcome.

[+ OliverSaks]

I'll be there, in Chicago, this weekend - I prefer bigger and older guys... and if you happen to be hairy or bearded, I'll consider myself to have hit the jackpot.

 

A few forum members can attest to my attraction to men with some extra weight - if you have any interest, shoot me a PM

[+ OliverSaks]

If you are overly sensitive about things, search escort ads for keywords and phrases that include things like the very sexy Oliver Saks puts in his ad "Big men, bear men, bald men, older men - don't be shy! No hangups!" In cases like this, you know for a fact you will be welcome.

Spooky timing... see my post above lol

[tyro]

Raul in Chicago has NO trouble with guys with more to love.

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[stop]

Hello gents.

 

I am in my mid 50s and presently 20-25 pounds over my ideal weight (and primarily in my gut). I am VERY self conscious about it (but I guess not enough to do something about it). I've held off hiring for a couple of months now but feeling the need for some play time. Wondering if anyone has advice on Chicago escorts who work well with overweight older guys.

 

Thanks

https://rentmen.com/AxxelWoods/

 

Super hot. Really great guy. Awesome cock

[Epigonos]

Keep in mind that most escorts who have been in the business for a period of time have invariably seen it ALL. If the client is clean, doesn't have bad breath, is polite, is upbeat and is respectful the escort will handle him with ease and appreciation. Great escorts don't react negatively to ethnicity, weight or age.

[Guy Fawkes]

20-25lb? Them's just love handles. Most escorts won't even notice.

Lose the weight, don't lose the weight; just stop obsessing about it.

Don't let a piddly 25lbs stop you from finding joy in your life.

 

http://68.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mbl07t1c5P1qhansmo5_1280.jpg

Hello gents.

 

I am in my mid 50s and presently 20-25 pounds over my ideal weight (and primarily in my gut). I am VERY self conscious about it (but I guess not enough to do something about it). I've held off hiring for a couple of months now but feeling the need for some play time. Wondering if anyone has advice on Chicago escorts who work well with overweight older guys.

 

Thanks

[Good Grief]

I'll be there, in Chicago, this weekend - I prefer bigger and older guys... and if you happen to be hairy or bearded, I'll consider myself to have hit the jackpot.

 

A few forum members can attest to my attraction to men with some extra weight - if you have any interest, shoot me a PM

 

@OliverSaks Please let me be the first to thank you for your posts on this thread!

[+ azdr0710]

If the client is clean, doesn't have bad breath, is polite, is upbeat and is respectful the escort will handle the client with ease and appreciation.

 

very good advice.....be positive, smile, make a joke, ask him questions, laugh, be respectful......

[excelntsvc]

ive met Chicago Topper ... on Adam 4 Adam among other site ... he truly likes big guys

[MikeyGMin]

If you are overly sensitive about things, search escort ads for keywords and phrases that include things like the very sexy Oliver Saks puts in his ad "Big men, bear men, bald men, older men - don't be shy! No hangups!" In cases like this, you know for a fact you will be welcome.

Another good one that I've seen is "welcome all body types." I always think that's a nice inclusive statement that should put just about anyone at ease.

[DaddyCub]

Hello gents.

 

I am in my mid 50s and presently 20-25 pounds over my ideal weight (and primarily in my gut). I am VERY self conscious about it (but I guess not enough to do something about it). I've held off hiring for a couple of months now but feeling the need for some play time. Wondering if anyone has advice on Chicago escorts who work well with overweight older guys.

 

Thanks

 

I completely understand you manderville. Since I weigh 350 lbs., my weight and body shape is ALWAYS a concern for me when I hire. I especially worry that the escort will be so turned off that he'll express his disgust (happened) or just be unable to function (also happened).

 

Now, I include my weight in the discussion with an escort, encourage them to see my instagram where I track my progress to get healthier, and/or even send them a picture if they wish. I tell them honestly that I'd rather that they be honest and tell me up front if they can work with it or not and so far I haven't been disappointed. I've had a few say they would have difficulty, but I'm OK with it since it's not during the actual appt.

 

One thing I have noticed, and I remember mentioning it in a previous, similar thread, is that I have had more luck with guys who identify as "straight" than I have with gay escorts. I suppose it's because they really aren't focused on whether or not they are attracted as much as they are in just pleasing the client and earning their fee.

[TruthBTold]

My philosophy always is really when we are up close to each other we actually see about 15 inches of each other. So forget about it. Also there is not much passion and a magic tongue won't make people forget or disregard. Just have fun.