To foxy

[marc anthony]

Foxy: The post you made is now locked, so I couldn't respond.... and I took the liberty of starting a new thread.

 

I hope you know how much you meant to him.

 

When he was "courting" you, I happened to send him a contribution for the site. In his thank you note, he told me that he had met you, and very excitedly said that he was going to use every cent of my contribution to bring you from your home country to see him.

 

He then proceeded to send me pictures of you guys visiting castles, you guys in Amsterdam, etc etc.

 

He wrote me with breathless excitement when you were going to visit him in Thailand.

 

He considered you his family, and he loved you dearly.

 

In your time of grief, I just wanted you to know how happy you made him. And to remember that there is no greater gift you can give someone than that feeling to love and be loved.

[Boston Guy]

Milan,

 

Please let me echo Marc's thoughts in offering you my deepest condolences. I hope some of the words being offered on these pages today will bring you some small comfort in your grief. Please know that you have a lot of friends here; they may be friends you haven't yet met, but we are here nonetheless.

 

BG

[TotallyOz]

Foxy,

 

My sympathies go out to you! As I was with you and Hooboy less than 24 hours before he died, I witnessed many things. First, the love that he had for you was so apparent. He adored you and cared for you. He said to me many times over the past few months that he wanted to one day turn the site over to you and let you do it as you were the one that had his vision. Watching the two of you together made my heart so happy. I know you enriched his life greatly and vice versa. When you were not with him, all he did was talk about you. When I tried to entice him to the gogo boys or escorts, he simply said he had all he wanted in you. What a compliment that is to you.

 

For those of you that did not get to meet Hooboy, there is perhaps no one that could make me laugh harder, smile bigger or feel better than he could. That is not a small task. He was the ultimate comic and always kept me and others entertained.

 

My fondest memory of him was in Sao Paulo, Brazil when we went to a Louis Vitton store. I found a purse that had jewels and gems all over it. Being the fag I am, I wanted it for myself. Most men would be embarrassed to have a grown man (a bear no less) oogle after a purse. Not Hoo. He not only encouraged me, he enticed me. Needing time to think about such an expensive gift, I left the store and it was sold the next day. I was disappointed. Upon his return to NYC to visit me, I had a nice gift waiting for me. A man of uncompromising integrity and wit, I will miss him immensely.

[JT Brooklyn]

Foxy: Deepest Condolences, at this very sad time. JT Bklyn...

[KY_TOP]

Milan, let me also add my sympathy and thoughts for your loss of Hooboy. Thank you for adding joy to his life. Peace be with you and Take Care.

[HotdadENYC]

Foxy, my deepest and profound sympathies on your loss.

 

Cry tonight, because you lost a good friend, mentor and teacher.

 

BUT

 

Smile tomorrow, because ONLY you can relive, through memories, the wonderful times you and HooBoy had.

 

I don't think he would have had it any othe way.

 

 

Warmest Regards,

 

hd NYC

[FourAces]

Milan, I know you from F4F and have a little idea what a sincere young man you are. I have read how sad you feel at this time and that is OK. Cry, laugh, pound a wall but don't ever surrender to your grief. Continue to remember how Hooboy affected your life and how you affected his life. Happiness, it's something you both shared; Love, it's something you both shared ... treasure it all for your forever.

 

RT

[LovesYng]

Hello Foxy, stay strong. You were loved by a very special man, you have a great family on here that will be here for you. Remember all the good times and the laughs the two of you had, they are things you will never forget.

[happyguy2]

Dear Foxy,

 

We do not know each other.

 

We have never corresponded.\

 

Yet, I knew how much happiness and fulfillment

you brought to Hooboy. And I can only imagine

what the depths of despair and sorrow you must be

reaching at this time.

 

I told you in another post in another thread,

words can mean so little at a time such as this.

But know that so many of us hold you in our hearts

and, even though many may have other ideas,God too,

to quote another poster in another thread, holds you

in the palm of his hand.....

 

with much affection and admiration

 

hg