Why do people lie...

[caliguy]

Didn't wanna have to start the year off like this, but Why? And why so many? This mainly applies to new clients especially incall types...The biggest culprit: adam4adam. But it applies to all sites including RM.

 

People say they're going to come and then they don't come. Even after some screening and insuring they're legit. Love the ones who ask for my availability, you tell them, give the run down, then they say they can come over "now" or in 15 minutes. Then dead silence. It's like I'm getting tired of Blacklisting people. Not. I don't give out my actual address anymore, I've resorted to giving out a closest block address and/or hotel until they actually call saying they are there, since there's usually apartments/hotels along my street...in case someone tries to post dirty pictures of me on the mailboxes or something. Atleast that's what comes to mind when giving out an address and someone doesn't turn up when they say they will.

 

Is it laziness, fear, or passive aggression? The discontenting part of it is it turns a relatively happy or complacent mood into something more sinister.

 

Passive-aggressive behavior is the indirect expression of hostility, such as through procrastination, stubbornness, sullen behavior, or deliberate or repeated failure to accomplish requested tasks for which one is (often explicitly) responsible.

Didn't wanna have to start the year off like this, but Why? And why so many? This mainly applies to new clients especially incall types...The biggest culprit: adam4adam. But it applies to all sites including RM.

 

People say they're going to come and then they don't come. Even after some screening and insuring they're legit. Love the ones who ask for my availability, you tell them, give the run down, then they say they can come over "now" or in 15 minutes. Then dead silence. It's like I'm getting tired of Blacklisting people. Not. I don't give out my actual address anymore, I've resorted to giving out a closest block address and/or hotel until they actually call saying they are there, since there's usually apartments/hotels along my street...in case someone tries to post dirty pictures of me on the mailboxes or something. Atleast that's what comes to mind when giving out an address and someone doesn't turn up when they say they will.

 

Is it laziness, fear, or passive aggression? The discontenting part of it is it turns a relatively happy or complacent mood into something more sinister.

 

Passive-aggressive behavior is the indirect expression of hostility, such as through procrastination, stubbornness, sullen behavior, or deliberate or repeated failure to accomplish requested tasks for which one is (often explicitly) responsible.

I say get even. Troll them from another number. Set up a time and do the same to them. That or write them up in all the phone apps so when you google their number it will post their dirty dark secret as well. You don't have to specify the exact nature of it. Just call to attention their fake/flakiness. I use the white pages app myself.

[Mocha]

Hopefully when I move to a new city this year, it'll be better than this hillbilly dump off I'm living in now and these conversations will be a thing of the past.

 

Please don't come to Dallas.

 

Oh I'm in no hurry. The lone star state is nowhere in my travel or relocation forecast this year. Only for the occasional visit, which I usually regret each time. Not to mention cricket season in Dallas gives me the heeby jeebies.

 

I say get even. Troll them from another number. Set up a time and do the same to them. That or write them up in all the phone apps so when you google their number it will post their dirty dark secret as well. You don't have to specify the exact nature of it. Just call to attention their fake/flakiness. I use the white pages app myself.

 

Oh honey, best believe I'm going all the way. I might even need to take this to Twitter and see what remedies they have. Along with whatever information I can conjure up based on public information.

 

I know that sounds mean, and no I wouldn't do this to my "clients". I would do it to random strangers who think it's funny to mess me around. These people don't give a goddamn truck about me, or my business. It's bad, bad behavior...almost like stalkers of sorts. They're tactics have become brazen. And so will mine. I don't give F***.

[Mocha]

You won't ever 100 percent know if someones a flake or not, but you have a good idea by asking to meet them someone close to your home like a starbucks, that way if they they don't show up they don't know your apt. You could take it one step further and ask them to take a picture or something of where they are currently, but you know the more you demand the more your going to scare someone away, but then you further the chances they are real if they do agree to do it.

 

P.S is it just me, or are the number of escorts who posts on this forum dwindling

I remember when I first join last year, that they were so much more escorts posting

 

To answer your last question first: either they have stopped posting or they are posting under alias. But like someone already explained, the mean girls here do a good job keeping escorts at bay. They think they're messing up somebodies business, they ain't affecting sh*t.

 

That said...these smart allick idiots. They know what I was talking about, as you explained. I don't give out the wrong address to someone. I (not even all the time) give an approximate landmark nearby and have them contact upon arrival for the actual address. Something like 5th and Washingon street. If they want the exact address, they can call. It also helps me cut texting time, as you suggested last year...so once they have the address...if they keep asking questions and dithering around, I know they aren't serious.

 

The other thing: People need to stop saying a person should know when someone is a flake. Or as my thread specifically states, people who lie. I mean hell, we had 65 million people vote for someone who another 62 million people claimed was a liar. So you can't blame 65 million people for getting fooled. Can't blame the other 62 million if they too get fooled. We will see in 4 years or less.

 

I do a good job filtering people out, most correspondence I don't reply because it's either vague one word texts, off hours of the night, or instructions aren't followed. So it just becomes white noise and matter. And then, even serious clients can turn into tricks too. Case in point:

 

Around Christmas time, I had a client (regular) who texted me early in the morning Christmas Eve. He wanted me to come to him 70 miles away, as I've done a couple times. But, he offered me a measly $120 this time. In the shitty rain. In the morning. Because he was "strapped" for the holidays. I reminded him, that by the time I see him and come back...3 hours of my time minimum will have elapsed. His response was, "oh shoot my roommate just came home, blah blah blah". I suggested he come to me. He had me waiting around, only to say he couldn't make it. Which I knew he wouldn't because he was full of crap.

 

My response was putting him on nationalblacklist.com. And I TOLD HIM I would put him there. How dare he? Offer me less than my rate the day before Christmas and then give some bullish lie when I say that's ridiculous? The cheek of these people...

 

I've been dealing with these lies and bad behavior every since the election/holidays started and especially into the end of last year.

[MiamiLooker]

To answer your last question first: either they have stopped posting or they are posting under alias. But like someone already explained, the mean girls here do a good job keeping escorts at bay. They think they're messing up somebodies business, they ain't affecting sh*t.

 

That said...these smart allick idiots. They know what I was talking about, as you explained. I don't give out the wrong address to someone. I (not even all the time) give an approximate landmark nearby and have them contact upon arrival for the actual address. Something like 5th and Washingon street. If they want the exact address, they can call. It also helps me cut texting time, as you suggested last year...so once they have the address...if they keep asking questions and dithering around, I know they aren't serious.

 

The other thing: People need to stop saying a person should know when someone is a flake. Or as my thread specifically states, people who lie. I mean hell, we had 65 million people vote for someone who another 62 million people claimed was a liar. So you can't blame 65 million people for getting fooled. Can't blame the other 62 million if they too get fooled. We will see in 4 years or less.

 

I do a good job filtering people out, most correspondence I don't reply because it's either vague one word texts, off hours of the night, or instructions aren't followed. So it just becomes white noise and matter. And then, even serious clients can turn into tricks too. Case in point:

 

Around Christmas time, I had a client (regular) who texted me early in the morning Christmas Eve. He wanted me to come to him 70 miles away, as I've done a couple times. But, he offered me a measly $120 this time. In the shitty rain. In the morning. Because he was "strapped" for the holidays. I reminded him, that by the time I see him and come back...3 hours of my time minimum will have elapsed. His response was, "oh shoot my roommate just came home, blah blah blah". I suggested he come to me. He had me waiting around, only to say he couldn't make it. Which I knew he wouldn't because he was full of crap.

 

My response was putting him on nationalblacklist.com. And I TOLD HIM I would put him there. How dare he? Offer me less than my rate the day before Christmas and then give some bullish lie when I say that's ridiculous? The cheek of these people...

 

I've been dealing with these lies and bad behavior every since the election/holidays started and especially into the end of last year.

Sounds like you were going to accept $120 for him to come to you. Is that your normal incall rate?

[jjkrkwood]

To answer your last question first: either they have stopped posting or they are posting under alias. But like someone already explained, the mean girls here do a good job keeping escorts at bay. They think they're messing up somebodies business, they ain't affecting sh*t.

 

That said...these smart allick idiots. They know what I was talking about, as you explained. I don't give out the wrong address to someone. I (not even all the time) give an approximate landmark nearby and have them contact upon arrival for the actual address. Something like 5th and Washingon street. If they want the exact address, they can call. It also helps me cut texting time, as you suggested last year...so once they have the address...if they keep asking questions and dithering around, I know they aren't serious.

 

The other thing: People need to stop saying a person should know when someone is a flake. Or as my thread specifically states, people who lie. I mean hell, we had 65 million people vote for someone who another 62 million people claimed was a liar. So you can't blame 65 million people for getting fooled. Can't blame the other 62 million if they too get fooled. We will see in 4 years or less.

 

I do a good job filtering people out, most correspondence I don't reply because it's either vague one word texts, off hours of the night, or instructions aren't followed. So it just becomes white noise and matter. And then, even serious clients can turn into tricks too. Case in point:

 

Around Christmas time, I had a client (regular) who texted me early in the morning Christmas Eve. He wanted me to come to him 70 miles away, as I've done a couple times. But, he offered me a measly $120 this time. In the shitty rain. In the morning. Because he was "strapped" for the holidays. I reminded him, that by the time I see him and come back...3 hours of my time minimum will have elapsed. His response was, "oh shoot my roommate just came home, blah blah blah". I suggested he come to me. He had me waiting around, only to say he couldn't make it. Which I knew he wouldn't because he was full of crap.

 

My response was putting him on nationalblacklist.com. And I TOLD HIM I would put him there. How dare he? Offer me less than my rate the day before Christmas and then give some bullish lie when I say that's ridiculous? The cheek of these people...

 

I've been dealing with these lies and bad behavior every since the election/holidays started and especially into the end of last year.

 

Those people voted for bigotry and racism in the form of a person. They didnt vote for TRUMP.

[Mocha]

Sounds like you were going to accept $120 for him to come to you. Is that your normal incall rate?

 

No, honey boo boo kitty. Keep up. I said that's what he initially OFFERED to come to him. I rebuffed his offer. He cancelled citing roommate arriving home (that mofo has a big split level home, and when I've parked before, I could walk straight upstairs to his room from the side of the house. So it sounded like horse shit more than anything.)

 

It was then when I said he'd better come to me instead because of his "roommate" arriving. But for $120, I do occasionally offer Incall massages for that amount when I'm at home.