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Pretty simple question. If an escort has any bb videos on their ad does it turn you off to them? I'm not talking about the porn stars who do bb, just the everyday non (porn star) famous escort with homemade bb videos? I know the saying take every precaution with every escort but for me if I see an ad with a bb video I just turn the other way.

MikeyGMin Experienced

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Doesn't phase me. I don't hire for penetration, but if I were to go there I would take responsibility for myself. In no way does it taint the escort in my mind, becsuse I'm way past the All-or-Nothing perspective on condoms.

Nvr2Thick Grand Master

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My opinion changed on this matter years ago. It used to be that pictures, videos, and profile responses of "anything goes" or "ask me" were the damning evidence of barebackers - to be avoided at all costs. I've since met a few escorts and hookups who had squeaky clean pictures, profiles and porn histories that suggested diligent safer sex practices, but these guys still tried to penetrate me unprotected and/or eventually developed a reputation for condomless sex (unprotected sex in the age before PrEP). For me there's no significant difference between having confirmation that a man participates in condomless sex and not having that confirmation.

marylander1940 Grand Master

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Pretty simple question. If an escort has any bb videos on their ad does it turn you off to them? I'm not talking about the porn stars who do bb, just the everyday non (porn star) famous escort with homemade bb videos? I know the saying take every precaution with every escort but for me if I see an ad with a bb video I just turn the other way.

 

it turns me off and I wonder with how many guys a week he has unprotected anal sex: 5, 10, 15?

marylander1940 Grand Master

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It depends on context for me. If their ad says they're on PrEP, get tested regularly, and exercise safer sex, then no a BB video doesn't turn me off.

 

What if they aren't telling the truth? Many of them lie about their age, why not about other things like skipping the pill or a doctor's appointment.

LivingnLA Veteran

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What if they aren't telling the truth? Many of them lie about their age, why not about other things like skipping the pill or a doctor's appointment.

 

Exactly. But as @Nvr2Thick mentions above, there are plenty of guys who display squeaky-clean condom-only profiles online who try to go condom-less when getting down and dirty. This reads as much riskier to me because this person has actively created an online profile with the intent to deceive about their safer sex practices.

 

For me, it's about trusting my gut, reading the person, and taking all of it together to reach my opinion about them. I'm generally a very good judge of character, but we all make mistakes. So, this kind of situation would be one of those that varies from person to person.

 

I strongly prefer to suck cock without condoms and swallow cum, so I tend to be very careful about who I hire simply because I'm already taking a risk with my favorite activity. I would much rather hire an escort who talks about SAFER SEX (there's no such thing as SAFE SEX involving more than one person), PrEP, current vaccinations, symptom awareness, regular testing, etc. then an escort who says they only use condoms but is fine with BB cocksucking and talks about safe sex or testing months ago, etc. In other words, for me, it's the total brand presentation around STDs and STIs. If an escort knows what he's talking about and is upfront and seemingly honest, that reads well to me.

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It depends on context for me. If their ad says they're on PrEP, get tested regularly, and exercise safer sex, then no a BB video doesn't turn me off.

 

and good on you if you believe everything a stranger says

 

folks lie. especially when the lie can generate profit in their pocket. use some sense.

LivingnLA Veteran

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and good on you if you believe everything a stranger says

 

folks lie. especially when the lie can generate profit in their pocket. use some sense.

 

Thanks for the snide judgement. Did you read my post? I didn't say I "believe everything a stranger says."

 

I'm well aware "folks lie" when money is on the line. I said I do my research. I ask questions. I judge the replies, read the reviews, look at the total picture, and I make an informed decision. Am I wrong sometimes? Sure. As many on the forum know, my first ever hiring experience was a disaster, but I'm still alive and still completely clean of all STDs and STIs. I will continue to be very careful and take the risks I'm willing to take.

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Actually, it makes me much more likely to hire them.

 

I concur. I prefer a guy that is honest about his sexual activities and upfront about them. It's up to both parties to not only discuss sexual practices but also to take the precautions that are right for them. It's unfortunate there is so much BB shaming in the community. Yes people bb I don't get why people are so judge jusgy about it.

 

It's up to the individuals to protect themselves and have honest discussions about sex. I can't tell you how many times a guy says safe only in their profile yet they are the first to try to fuck without a rubber. So just because somebody says safe it doesn't mean they actually do At least if somebody is up front about having bb sex you can't take the appropriate precautions if that is not for you.

 

And sorry if your concerned about how many guys they have had sex with that week (either bb or safe) you probably shouldn't be looking for sex with a pro.

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Exactly. But as @Nvr2Thick mentions above, there are plenty of guys who display squeaky-clean condom-only profiles online who try to go condom-less when getting down and dirty. This reads as much riskier to me because this person has actively created an online profile with the intent to deceive about STDs and STIs.

 

For me, it's about trusting my gut, reading the person, and taking all of it together to reach my opinion about them. I'm generally a very good judge of character, but we all make mistakes. So, this kind of situation would be one of those that varies from person to person.

 

I strongly prefer to suck cock without condoms and swallow cum, so I tend to be very careful about who I hire simply because I'm already taking a risk with my favorite activity. I would much rather hire an escort who talks about SAFER SEX (there's no such thing as SAFE SEX involving more than one person), PrEP, current vaccinations, symptom awareness, regular testing, etc. then an escort who says they only use condoms but is fine with BB cocksucking and talks about safe sex or testing months ago, etc. In other words, for me, it's the total brand presentation around STDs and STIs. If an escort knows what he's talking about and is upfront and seemingly honest, that reads well to me.

 

I couldn't agree with you more. I suspect you and I fall on opposite ends of the bb spectrum but it looks like we approach it the same way and I respect that

LivingnLA Veteran

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I couldn't agree with you more. I suspect you and I fall on opposite ends of the bb spectrum but it looks like we approach it the same way and I respect that

 

As a point of clarification, the "bb spectrum" is a continuum from no condoms for any kind of sexual contact all the way to condoms for every kind of sexual contact. People seem to forget that some STIs are contact based, so it's possible to get them just from a hand job. It's all about awareness and making a personal risk assessment of what you're comfortable with and of each person you decide to engage with for sexual activity.

 

For me personally, I don't use condoms for hand jobs or blow jobs, but I do for anal activity. Do I fantasize about BB, sure. I've been BB with my wife for 20 years. Learning to use condoms again was an experience for me. But, I take my safety seriously because it's not just me at risk. I get tested very regularly. Know all the symptoms, risk factors, have all relevant vaccinations, etc.

 

But, your mileage may vary. Do you. Whatever you do, be smart, have fun, and live well.

marylander1940 Grand Master

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Exactly. But as @Nvr2Thick mentions above, there are plenty of guys who display squeaky-clean condom-only profiles online who try to go condom-less when getting down and dirty. This reads as much riskier to me because this person has actively created an online profile with the intent to deceive about their safer sex practices.

 

For me, it's about trusting my gut, reading the person, and taking all of it together to reach my opinion about them. I'm generally a very good judge of character, but we all make mistakes. So, this kind of situation would be one of those that varies from person to person.

 

I strongly prefer to suck cock without condoms and swallow cum, so I tend to be very careful about who I hire simply because I'm already taking a risk with my favorite activity. I would much rather hire an escort who talks about SAFER SEX (there's no such thing as SAFE SEX involving more than one person), PrEP, current vaccinations, symptom awareness, regular testing, etc. then an escort who says they only use condoms but is fine with BB cocksucking and talks about safe sex or testing months ago, etc. In other words, for me, it's the total brand presentation around STDs and STIs. If an escort knows what he's talking about and is upfront and seemingly honest, that reads well to me.

 

I get your point at the end the is up to us to play Russian roulette or not.

 

One more thing, sucking and swallowing are risky but getting HIV from that is almost impossible.

LivingnLA Veteran

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I get your point at the end the is up to us to play Russian roulette or not.

 

One more thing, sucking and swallowing are risky but getting HIV from that is almost impossible.

 

There are documented cases, so it's not impossible. Yes, the risk is considered very low, but plenty of other STDs and STIs are transmitted very easily via oral sex. So, it's not just about HIV. Plenty of other risks to consider.

José Soplanucas Grand Master

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I totally agree, the only safe sex is no sex.

Nowadays, barebacking is not a red flag for me, as it can be a responsible practice. My red flag is parTy drugs, the kind that impair your best judgement and may mislead you into unsafe activities.

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