Cruising on Kapiolani park Honolulu...? Would you go?

[JayCeeKy]

" should read "Be discreet," not "discrete."

You are correct - I did not catch that boo boo.

 

One way to recall the difference between discrete and discreet is to use this mnemonic:

 

Discrete is about separating into distinct parts: notice how the two e’s are separated. Discreet, on the other hand, is about keeping information contained and under wraps: notice how the e’s are closed up within the boundaries of the word. Keeping this in mind may help you remember which of these words is which.

[AdamSmith]

@JayCeeKy offers excellent (and encyclopedic!) guidance.

 

I can only add one more marker that the guy wants you:

 

When you are both out on the smoking balcony behind the club and his first gesture of introduction is to offer you a little Ecstasy pill.

[+ glennnn]

@JayCeeKy

 

Thank you. I'll probably never cruise a public park or restroom at this point in my life, but I'd love to try a bar or club. Even so, this was great info for many of us who are new to gay life. It was so good of you to dig it up and post it! Thank you.

[BigK]

The second bullet point after "If you're cruising in a public place" should read "Be discreet," not "discrete."

 

Sorry. That is one of my biggest "words frequently confused" pet peeves.

 

discrete is slang for disparaging a Greek Island