411 on Jason NYC

[jitalianjay]

Anyone seen him lately? Thanks

http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/jasonstafford.shtml

[+ WestGuy]

I have never seen him but I think he has been discussed here under another of his various names, which he seems to change pretty frequently.

[+ beethoven]

I've seen Jason twice. As for his name, he was Dmitryi when he came to America from Ukraine, but he's changed it to Jason because he hopes to stay here and to become a citizen. He's learning English quickly, and is interested in

learning about American history, and to become as American as he can.. He was delighted when I gave him some books on American history. I'm not aware that he had any other name than Dmitryi before he became known as Jason, and no longer refers to himself as Dmitryi.

He's got a killer body and a sparkling personality; he's impossible not to like. He gives a pretty good massage, but I can tell that he's not comfortable going beyond the obligatory happy ending. I never asked him, but I think he's straight.

Feel free to PM me for details.

[tsgarp]

I've seen Jason twice. As for his name, he was Dmitryi when he came to America from Ukraine, but he's changed it to Jason because he hopes to stay here and to become a citizen. He's learning English quickly, and is interested in

learning about American history, and to become as American as he can.. He was delighted when I gave him some books on American history. I'm not aware that he had any other name than Dmitryi before he became known as Jason, and no longer refers to himself as Dmitryi.

He's got a killer body and a sparkling personality; he's impossible not to like. He gives a pretty good massage, but I can tell that he's not comfortable going beyond the obligatory happy ending. I never asked him, but I think he's straight.

Feel free to PM me for details.

Good assessment. I concur!

[LookingAround]

Tried to make an appointment with him today but when I asked about the HE he said he doesn't provide that but would be next to me and I could do it to myself. #fail

[Strafe13]

Tried to make an appointment with him today but when I asked about the HE he said he doesn't provide that but would be next to me and I could do it to myself. #fail

 

Not that I don't understand why you sought to get this information outright, but I wouldn't expect a masseur to admit to that during initial contact from a new client, whether he offers HE or not. Perhaps I'm naive on this subject, though.

[LookingAround]

Not that I don't understand why you sought to get this information outright, but I wouldn't expect a masseur to admit to that during initial contact from a new client, whether he offers HE or not. Perhaps I'm naive on this subject, though.

 

i sought it outright because I believe communication is key and I do not want any misunderstanding at the time of the appointment. I ask this routinely and almost always a told "yes nude and HE." Do you have reason to believe he was not being honest with me?

[+ beethoven]

Masseurs have to be very careful about what they say. Some are afraid to be specific, even if it's only a happy ending.

There's been a good masseur in NYC for years, Lysander (ad on M4M) who is paranoid about this -- and he explains why on his ad. Take a look at it. Perhaps Jason is just being careful. Perhaps he knows of someone who had a brush with the law? On the other hand, it's possible that he has enough clients by now who don't expect a HE, and he'd rather not do it, anyway, so he doesn't.

[LookingAround]

He said: "Yes I do it nude and I can stay next to you while you are releasing yourself." And "no sorry I don't do it myself."

[Strafe13]

i sought it outright because I believe communication is key and I do not want any misunderstanding at the time of the appointment. I ask this routinely and almost always a told "yes nude and HE." Do you have reason to believe he was not being honest with me?

 

I don't have any basis to believe he was being honest or dishonest. But as another poster said, many masseurs would have very good reason to be wary of answering that kind of question from an unknown, new client. I'm not a masseur, but if I was, I likely wouldn't answer such a question from some random prospective client, or would probably respond in the negative, irrespective of whether or not I offered that as part of my service. At the least, I understand why a masseur would be suspicious, and seek to protect himself.

[needbodywork]

Some masseurs also don't want to promise anything. I've been promised both more and less than what I ended up getting.

[hornytwells]

I agree with above poster-the very nature of their ad means they have to be very careful about what they advertise. I think if happy endings and interaction are more important than the massage, one should be looking at escort ads. I always go into a meeting with a new masseur prepared to have massage only, and then find if I play my cards right, treat them with respect, then so far, 10 times out of 10 I have had what I wanted. Pushing them in advance to promise things that are outside the boundaries of massage I never found to be the wisest course of action.

[LookingAround]

I agree with above poster-the very nature of their ad means they have to be very careful about what they advertise. I think if happy endings and interaction are more important than the massage, one should be looking at escort ads. I always go into a meeting with a new masseur prepared to have massage only, and then find if I play my cards right, treat them with respect, then so far, 10 times out of 10 I have had what I wanted. Pushing them in advance to promise things that are outside the boundaries of massage I never found to be the wisest course of action.

Thanks for telling me what you think I should do but I'm quite happy making my own choices. Pun intended.

[hornytwells]

Thanks for telling me what you think I should do but I'm quite happy making my own choices. Pun intended.

I would never presume to tell anyone what to do-you asked if there was a reason why he might not be being honest with you and I was offering a response/opinion as to why that might be the case. And am delighted to hear you are happy-that wasn't my impression.

[sulika]

I had a massage with him, which was very good by the way, when I texted him to thank him for the massage I asked him if he offers a more interactive massage and the answer was the same:" I can be next to you and you can touch in time when you do it by yourself".

[+ dutchmuch]

People, Jason ain't gonna touch your pee-pee.

Got it?

[jojo]

People, Jason ain't gonna touch your pee-pee.

Got it?

 

And some guys will keep asking why and hoping for!

[tsgarp]

He seemed to have no problem touching mine. Lucky me!