Orange County Escorts who bareback

[calrichmond]

First of all, I realize for many this is controversial. However, I am HIV - and on PrEP. I have been responsible until PrEP drugs were available.

 

I like to top and not wear a condom. During the times before PrEP medications, I did wear condoms and was responsible.

 

Does anyone have recommendations for Orange County escorts who bottom bareback?

[tennisjock]

I am sure there are some. Just go on rentmen or adam4adam or men4rentnow and search away and if thats important to you... ask. Of course the ones who may might not be your "type" as it were and visa versa.

[adventurous old guy]

My experience: This is really changing, I'm guessing because of prep. I'm old school and always play safe, but have been surprised by how often my partners (all bottoms with me) suggest or signal their willingness to go bare. 5 out of the 7 I've seen this year. Of those 5, all but one advertised as safe only. Very different pattern in years past.

[tennisjock]

All in the OC?

[adventurous old guy]

Hi, no none in OC. Good point -- maybe this is regional? Most of my brief sharing experiences this year have been on the East Coast. The 2 out of 7 who made clear they only played safely were in SF and Phx.

 

This is just one person's experience of course, but as I said its been striking. With two of the guys I've been with who were willing to bareback, we talked about it. One took a position pretty much like Calrichmond's. He said he was negative, on prep, therefor protected. Barebacking felt better for the client and for him, and he felt it was part of being a professional escort to offer the protection to his client of being on prep. I thought, but didn't say that since I was not on prep, I really wouldn't feel protected because of course I don't know if he is negative. I don't mean to say he was lying, I just didn't know. We proceeded, used a condom and a good time was had by all. The other guy and i had an even more interesting conversation. He shared that he would have a harder time getting into it if we used a condom. This was in the heat of a very enthusiastic date. I interpreted this as his telling me he was positive and probing whether I was, because when I responded that I was negative, he quickly adjusted and said we should use it. Again, we proceeded and had a great time. Both great guys who delivered very satisfying experiences btw.

[marylander1940]

First of all, I realize for many this is controversial. However, I am HIV - and on PrEP. I have been responsible until PrEP drugs were available.

 

I like to top and not wear a condom. During the times before PrEP medications, I did wear condoms and was responsible.

 

Does anyone have recommendations for Orange County escorts who bottom bareback?

 

Make sure you get tested for chlamydia, gonorrhea, etc now because of PrEP they're on the rise, almost at epidemic levels.

[marylander1940]

Hi, no none in OC. Good point -- maybe this is regional? Most of my brief sharing experiences this year have been on the East Coast. The 2 out of 7 who made clear they only played safely were in SF and Phx.

 

This is just one person's experience of course, but as I said its been striking. With two of the guys I've been with who were willing to bareback, we talked about it. One took a position pretty much like Calrichmond's. He said he was negative, on prep, therefor protected. Barebacking felt better for the client and for him, and he felt it was part of being a professional escort to offer the protection to his client of being on prep. I thought, but didn't say that since I was not on prep, I really wouldn't feel protected because of course I don't know if he is negative. I don't mean to say he was lying, I just didn't know. We proceeded, used a condom and a good time was had by all. The other guy and i had an even more interesting conversation. He shared that he would have a harder time getting into it if we used a condom. This was in the heat of a very enthusiastic date. I interpreted this as his telling me he was positive and probing whether I was, because when I responded that I was negative, he quickly adjusted and said we should use it. Again, we proceeded and had a great time. Both great guys who delivered very satisfying experiences btw.

 

Do you realized he BB with sometimes 10 guys a week, maybe 40 a month, hundreds per year.

 

Do you want to play that Russian roulette?

 

You pretty much "put your life in the hands" of the "other guy".

[adventurous old guy]

Yes, Marylander this is what i assume. Its why I always, without exception, play safe. And why I'm so surprised by the change I am seeing. I posted this question a few months ago: when an ad states that the service provider is on prep, is that an indirect message that he will bareback? I've been kicking the tires on that hypothesis, and in my experience its truthy. That's why I posted again here.

[marylander1940]

Yes, Marylander this is what i assume. Its why I always, without exception, play safe. And why I'm so surprised by the change I am seeing. I posted this question a few months ago: when an add states that the service provider is on prep, is that an indirect message that he will bareback? I've been kicking the tires on that hypothesis, and in my experience its truthy. That's why I posted again here.

 

I'm sure you'll find what you want, maybe you'll need to go to LA or SD.

If I was an escort I don't know if I would like to be mentioned on this thread and if that would be good or bad publicity...

 

hold on...

 

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[MikeBiDude]

My experience: This is really changing, I'm guessing because of prep. I'm old school and always play safe, but have been surprised by how often my partners (all bottoms with me) suggest or signal their willingness to go bare. 5 out of the 7 I've seen this year. Of those 5, all but one advertised as safe only. Very different pattern in years past.

It's so so common, but not talked about on a semi public forum such as this. Both client/escort usually keep it to themselves, for any number of reasons.

[adventurous old guy]

I'm going to say this, then back away from this thread. We are all consenting adults. Every situation I've been in has been successfully managed by straight forward and respectful communication. I don't intend to or feel that I am criticizing any poster or service provider here. I weighed in this AM just to offer thoughts on what, in my experience, is a changing pattern that as Mike BiD observes is common -- I think increasingly so.

 

Thanks all & have a great day!

AOG

[jimboivyo]

Do you realized he BB with sometimes 10 guys a week, maybe 40 a month, hundreds per year.

 

Do you want to play that Russian roulette?

 

You pretty much "put your life in the hands" of the "other guy".

 

 

this. +100

[marylander1940]

this. +100

 

You've stated a similar point a few other times!

 

Good to know someone consistent and with principles!

[marylander1940]

I'm going to say this, then back away from this thread. We are all consenting adults. Every situation I've been in has been successfully managed by straight forward and respectful communication. I don't intend to or feel that I am criticizing any poster or service provider here. I weighed in this AM just to offer thoughts on what, in my experience, is a changing pattern that as Mike BiD observes is common -- I think increasingly so.

 

Thanks all & have a great day!

AOG

 

Yes, but as more older men like you demand/preferred to do it BB more escorts would have to consider doing it after all you have the power of $.

 

One more time the end of this Russian roulette won't be pretty.

 

Btw how long would you commute to BB? Does it have to be in Orange County?

[jimboivyo]

You've stated a similar point a few other times!

 

Good to know someone consistent and with principles!

 

how do you think I survived the aids crisis in the 80s? certainly wasn't risking life and limb on bare backing