Getting serious about safety and money upfront:

[East2West]

Out of nowhere, almost immediately, a series of arguments and accusations (including the 1st one he made up of someone stealing $3,000 from one of the "tenants" rooms on the other side of the house) against me over the course of less than an hour ended with him threatening to kill my cat and slash my throat.

 

You brought your cat?

[Bearofdistinction]

Just one more post from you confirming you are not on my short list to hire, although your posts put you on that list long ago. And if client friends ask about you? Well....a couple links to posts like this.

 

Good luck with your plan. Pay close attention to @josh282282 post, he's got it right.

 

Just one more post that reinforces what many of us have already thought that Mocha would benefit from a course of ongoing treatment from qualified mental health professionals

 

This is not a slight - rather an evaluation of many of his post which demonstrate his sense of

disparate treatment, disrespect, depression, and paranoia. He may be a very nice person and a good escort but instead of venting hete and disparging his own brand, professional help and medication may help him be the escort extraordinaire he could be

[YoungAD]

I'm realizing I've been too nice

 

I just spilled my coffee.

[Beancounter]

I just spilled my coffee.

 

Best comment of the year!

[MiamiLooker]

Please be aware that I've read every post and response on this website including yours.

How long did that take?

[LADoug1]

Following up to this thread...matter has been solved, punishment has been executed.

 

Since I only read the last post as I can't be arsed to argue, some people seem quite defensive about the right to put things in writing and knowing who they are meeting. However, Outside of the male escort business I've had photographers (who were doing free photo shoots) ask me to sign papers and show I.D. as well. Female escorts have been doing it for years. It's called "screening". So I really don't think it's some kind of race to the end here. You sign a paper and show I.D. when ever you swipe your credit card. You sign waivers and show I.D. at a gym (Some places even keep your I.D. Until you're done) when you use a free day pass at a gym because they don't know who you are. Just because I'm not working under some corporate name doesn't mean it's any less of a requirement.

 

However, regardless of that I decided on my own that its easier to just get the money up front...but ESPECIALLY for every adam4adam client. What I left out was, this was an adam4adam client. The site has always been known for stiffers.

 

Now, one can say whatever about Adam...but just a couple months ago I used it in 2 different states and met some really good clients. Non of them threatened to slit my throat and all paid my fee. Thats been the case for years, but when one slips thru the crack, one can find themselves in bad situations.

 

That was a case of a client who became very jealous of me, was mentally unstable, and red flags were everywhere. I should have known when in his early communication he said he "bought a ticket on the ferry for me to travel to Ptown from Boston". Using my escort alias. Yet, I said nothing about not having transportation to get there. He also was jealous of me, saying things like he wishes he could do what I'm doing. The whole "someone broke into his home and stole $3,000 from housemate" story he made up was an elaborate plan to get out of paying me by creating a false flag story to get me out the house.

 

And for anyone who imagines all this was going down in some cheap rundown Provincetown hotel, to ensure I was contacting the right parties, I had to pull info from Public records. Both homes were appraised at over $1,000,000. So this was like a bad episode of Housewives of Hollwood.

 

Last thing: anyone who sounds even remotely crazy, ESPECIALLY from adam4adam, will be cut off. I had someone contact me yesterday off a4a. Everything sounded normal, he was going to be on his way, full profile, etc. But then the crazy came out, talking about his phone might be tapped because he hired a masseur/prosititute and had the police involved. Block/Delete, went back to bed. Got to weed the crazies out before they even say, "I'm on my way."

@Mocha, if you're not going to read the responses (so many deep and thoughtful) then why post this thread?