Are You Just A Fantasy-Can You Live A Fantasy Life?

[+ Gar1eth]

A little background theme music for this post which those Forum Members from the USA in their 50's and possibly early 60's will likely remember (although I'm not sure I remember the video).

 

 

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City nights, summer breeze makes you feel alright

Neon lights, shining brightly make your brain ignite

See the girls with the dresses so tight

Give you love if the price is right

Black or white, in the streets there's no wrong and no right, no

 

Outta site, buy your kicks from the man in the white

Feels alright, powder pleasure in your nose tonight

See the men paint their faces and cry

Like some girl it makes you wonder why

City life, sure is cool but it cuts like a knife, it's your life

 

So forget all that you see

It's not reality

It's just a fantasy

 

Can't you see what this crazy life is doing to me

Life is just a fantasy, can you live this fantasy life

Life is just a fantasy, can you live this fantasy life

 

So forget all that you see

It's not reality

It's just a fantasy

 

Can't you see what this crazy life is doing to me, yeah

Life is just a fantasy, can you live this fantasy life

Life is just a fantasy, can you live this fantasy life

Life is just a fantasy, can you live this fantasy life

Life is just a fantasy, can you live this fantasy life

I know

I know

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So after that introduction, now to the meat of the post. As background I'll say that I've had fantasies about meeting guys/and escorts. But they aren't usually too elaborate-maybe they were a bit more elaborate when I was a teenager going through puberty or while I was still a (whisper it) virgin.

 

When I'm with an escort though the main fantasy I want to indulge in is that the escort is enjoying being intimate with me. It would be disturbing if I thought they hated it. However, I have an occasional f-buddy(just as a note: f-buddies don't happen too often for me-this is a fluke) that I met through a site that caters to bears. We've probably met up about 7 times over the last 4 months.

 

Wilberforce (not his real name) is in his 40's-he's not bearish but he's not a passive cub either. I'm not sure what to call him. His profile states he's versatile. But I doubt he ever bottoms. The one time we tried he was too tight for me. While we don't do a lot of talking when we meet;):D:rolleyes:, I've learned that he's definitely not interested in effeminate guys.

 

The interesting thing about Wilber is that apparently I've turned into a Daddy fantasy for him. What's weird about that is from the way he talks, he's not usually attracted to bears. Guy always try to contact him (he's reasonably cute with a great tallywacker), and he's not interested in them if he's to be believed. So who knows why he is on a site catering to Bears and Bear-lovers although to be fair he doesn't seem to be on it very often anymore.

 

He says and his attitude is consistent with it that he's usually the dominant one in relationships-and I'm guessing also brief encounters.

 

But the guy loves servicing my tallywacker. He considers it a real 'man-stick'. He also thinks I'm very masculine and dominant.

 

As an example-here's are a few of Wilber's statements about me from a (texting) conversation we had-

 

Nobody makes me worship but you.

 

Masculine guys make me worship you're so fuckin masculine it's hot.

 

 

 

The interesting thing is that while I'm not the most effeminate guy around. I'm nowhere near the most masculine guy on the block either. I doubt Wilber would actually be that fond of me sexually if he actually knew me. Socially is another matter as I'm a fairly nice guy. I play it up a bit when I'm with him. But you can't turn an ear into a silk purse as they say. It's a good thing he loves my 'manly' tallywacker.

 

As it doesn't seem that Wilber and I are ever going to have a relationship outside being F-buddies, I've pretty much given up trying to introduce him to the real me.

 

But my question for this post is-are you now or have you ever been a Communi...-oh wait that wasn't it:confused:-

 

So once again my question-Are you now or have you ever been someone's fantasy-especially when the fantasy you isn't really reflective of the actual you? Escorts, if you chime in here, I'd prefer it if you were talking about your private and not professional life since I know y'all fulfill fantasies all the time.

 

 

Gman

[+ glennnn]

Not much experience, really. But I am happy for you that you have found a fuck buddy to worship your cock. I had another married guy who liked my larger than average dick because it was (at the time) straight cock, but wouldn't let me touch him much. Highly unsatisfactory and we discontinued after 3 meetings. So, I guess I was his fantasy as long as I was "straight", which we now see, I wasn't. Lol. Confusing.

[jjkrkwood]

Your post is interetsing Gman, because Wilbur seems to be seeing an entirely different guy than you've allowed us to see. The way he describes you is not how I would describe you from the picture you've painted of yourself over the years.

 

Good for you. I guess that saying "there's a cover for Every pot" holds true ? Continued good sex!

[+ Gar1eth]

Your post is interetsing Gman, because Wilbur seems to be seeing an entirely different guy than you've allowed us to see. The way he describes you is not how I would describe you from the picture you've painted of yourself over the years.

 

Good for you. I guess that saying "there's a cover for Every pot" holds true ? Continued good sex!

 

Thanks Glenn. To some extent this guy is bisexual-I know he's been with women in the past. But he is mainly gay. At first he didn't seem to be into kissing as much as I was although not disliking it. But I told him it makes me hard-which it does. Plus sometimes I need a break from his worshipping my tallywacker. He definitely seemed to enjoy kissing last time we were together though.

 

Your post is interetsing Gman, because Wilbur seems to be seeing an entirely different guy than you've allowed us to see. The way he describes you is not how I would describe you from the picture you've painted of yourself over the years.

 

Good for you. I guess that saying "there's a cover for Every pot" holds true ? Continued good sex!

 

That's what is so interesting, JJK. I don't think the me he sees is the real me. I don't mean that in reality I'm a pushover or a subservient type. But no one is going to accuse me of being anywhere close to Randy 'Macho Man' Savage. I don't even live in the same zip code.

 

Wilbur likes my tallywacker. I know many of you might be thinking-but Gman is always saying how underendowed he is. That part is true. In fact Wilber is much larger than I am. He's probably at least 7+ inches. But I've always admitted to being on the thick side of the equation. (I'm no Boomer Banks;) obviously). And Wilber likes thick tallywackers. He thinks they are manly. So he might to some extent be committing the Fallacy of Composition, i.e. taking the part for the whole.

 

I had another experience recently during a recent sojourn in Dallas-it was about a month ago when if anyone noticed, I wasn't really posting much. I was there due to a family illness. I was horny, and I met a guy from Growlr who wanted a dominant Daddy. I played way more dominant than I usually am. But even while doing it, I'm thinking, "This is weird." Not my role-playing. But what the sub wanted to be made to do especially since this was not a youngster. He is a few years older than I am.

 

So while I wanted to share my experience, I also wanted to hear from others about their possible experiences like the one @glennnn shared.

 

Gman

[+ quoththeraven]

Maybe he sees something in you that you don't see yourself. I'm not saying it's natural to you, but our behavior and personalities are not static and fixed. As Walt Whitman wrote, "I contain multitudes" (Song of Myself).

[+ Gar1eth]

Maybe he sees something in you that you don't see yourself. I'm not saying it's natural to you, but our behavior and personalities are not static and fixed. As Walt Whitman wrote, "I contain multitudes" (Song of Myself).

 

I think Joanne Woodward said the same in The Three Faces of Eve.

Gman

[+ quoththeraven]

I think Joanne Woodward said the same in The Three Faces of Eve.

Gman

 

Different kind of multitudes. But you knew that.

[+ purplekow]

So all this time, when I read that Jesus was feeding the multitudes, he was really only taking a Gar!eth out to lunch?

[+ Gar1eth]

So all this time, when I read that Jesus was feeding the multitudes, he was really only taking a Gar!eth out to lunch?

 

The brisket sandwiches were delicious!!

 

 

Gman

[+ purplekow]

To drag this back to the original question (after I sidetracked it) I do not believe I have ever been anyone's fantasy before I got into bed with them. Afterwards, well....modesty prevents me from finishing this thought.

[+ purplekow]

Of course this question was raised in recent hit music: