Gang Bangs?!

[WolfRamNHard]

I've been involved in a few threesomes. I've also been lucky enough to participate in foursomes on two separate occasions. With a couple of notable exceptions, the threesomes were generally a mixed bag and often awkward because of "asymmetric chemistry" so that one person often felt like a third wheel (sometimes that was me). So while threesomes might seem like fun in theory, the reality may not necessarily match that expectation.

 

Both the foursomes on the other hand were totally awesome, but I think it was just luck both times.

 

The first foursome - I ended up in a room with three other guys. As it turns out the other three were strict tops and I was the only one who was versatile enough, so I became the center of attention for the entire event While flip-flops would have been nice for me too, that just wasn't going to happen this time, but I was ok with that!

 

The second foursome - there was strong chemistry between two of us and also between the other two guys, so that we ended up just pairing up into two couples on the same bed (although there was some "cross-interaction" from time to time). Overall very positive experience with no awkwardness whatsoever.

 

But I still strongly prefer the intimacy and emotional connection that comes with a one-on-one interaction.

[Nvr2Thick]

I like one-on-one attention. I've been part of less than ten three-ways. Two were great and the others were annoying. If a three-way was annoying it was because:

 

• I was very attracted to one guy, and the other guy was compromising the intimacy.
  
• One guy would be doing something great and the other guy was distracting me from it.
  
• The two guys were more into each other than me.
  
• They'd keep switching up activities and positions too quickly.
  

 

The two three-ways that worked well did so for different reasons. The first was with an escort who invited his boyfriend along. I was the center of attention, and they shared me well. One would provide a great deal of intimacy while the other would be in a more supporting role. They took their time switching off. From time to time I still think back on that scene; especially when one handsome guy was lying on his back with me on top of him kissing and talking while his huge hung boyfriend was giving it to me rough from behind. The guy on the bottom was coaching me and kissing and talking dirty while holding me, while his boyfriend was very detached from the scene and just cutting loose and pounding me.

 

The second great three-way was with two rough trade tops who were both relentless. I was in way over my head, but they were having a great time and were talking to and laughing with each other as if I wasn't there.

 

I can't imagine either of those scenes working with more guys than just a threesome.

[liubit]

I have done my share (or even more than my share) of threesomes. Some have been awkward, most have been hot. What I enjoy about them is that you can engage in very hot activities that are impossible in one-on-one scenes, such as passionately kissing and getting a good blowjob at the sane time or, perhaps my favorite, fucking and getting fucked simultaneously in a sandwich.

 

On the other hand, I am not very much into foursomes or more. I find that they very often turn into just several one-on-ones. No real added value there....

[+ glennnn]

Thanks to all of you for sharing your thoughts and experiences. Realistically, I know I'll never be in an orgy or a gang bang....too dangerous medically and too difficult logistically. However, I would love to try a three way and be, what I think is called "spitted". Is that the right term for receiving anal and giving oral at the same time. Does one just pay double the fee for the two escorts?

[+ WmClarke]

I call it "spit-roasted"

 

You pay both escorts their normal fee. It seems like double when you're withdrawing the money from your bank, but seems a bargain afterward because it's one of those 1+1+1 > 3 situations in the afterglow (when it goes well).

[LADoug1]

I like one-on-one attention. I've been part of less than ten three-ways. Two were great and the others were annoying. If a three-way was annoying it was because:

 

• I was very attracted to one guy, and the other guy was compromising the intimacy.
  
• One guy would be doing something great and the other guy was distracting me from it.
  
• The two guys were more into each other than me.
  
• They'd keep switching up activities and positions too quickly.
  

 

The two three-ways that worked well did so for different reasons. The first was with an escort who invited his boyfriend along. I was the center of attention, and they shared me well. One would provide a great deal of intimacy while the other would be in a more supporting role. They took their time switching off. From time to time I still think back on that scene; especially when one handsome guy was lying on his back with me on top of him kissing and talking while his huge hung boyfriend was giving it to me rough from behind. The guy on the bottom was coaching me and kissing and talking dirty while holding me, while his boyfriend was very detached from the scene and just cutting loose and pounding me.

 

The second great three-way was with two rough trade tops who were both relentless. I was in way over my head, but they were having a great time and were talking to and laughing with each other as if I wasn't there.

 

I can't imagine either of those scenes working with more guys than just a threesome.

The first three way you describe is a definite fantasy of mine!