Seeking Sexy DOM who Can Be Wild and Cuddly

[Bearofdistinction]

I know --- But here we go --- Seeking experienced DOM/TOP/MASTER who is into lots of Kink

But can also be caring and cuddly. There is a BIG DIFFERENCE between a DOM/tOP/MASTER and a SADIST

 

I seek the former, not the later = Lets explore expand and enjoy together -- Erotic Pain is HOT

 

Brutality is NOT!

 

I have lots of exp and lots of gear --- Interested -- In Person Public Meeting is a great way to start -- I will buy the first juice/coffee/smoothie/beer

 

For Professionals -- Your time will be compensated for a public meet or phone interview

[+ glennnn]

What an interesting thread. I agree with all you said. I want to be dominated and controlled, not used and abused. There must be some guys who can fill these needs. If you don't wish to share your resulting adventures with the full forum, I would love a PM conversation with you.

[Brian Kevin]

PM'd you.

[whipped guy]

As I posted recently in two other threads the B, D, S, and M in BDSM can reference a number of different things and as such can be variations on a similar theme.

Actually the letters in BDSM can refer to all of the following. So depending on the context things can get a bit convoluted. Still, JJJ is right. FUCK YEA I'm gonna keep using it!

 

Bondage

 

Bottom

 

Discipline

 

Dom/Dominatrix

 

Dominance

 

Sadism

 

Slave

 

Sub

 

Submission

 

Masochism

 

Master/Mistress

 

...............................

 

Either that or it references Bored and Deprived Soccer Moms!

 

Hopefully never here!

 

I view BDSM simply as a very intense way to make love.

 

In the final analysis, there can be many different variations on the same theme. Some guys need to be humiliated and at least one specialist told me that the stereotypical clients who need such humiliation often have jobs where they are in positions of power over quite a number of individuals. As such it is most likely more of a psychological issue. Others want a sadistic top with a savage desire to be cruel. Still others like a much kinder and more cuddly type of scene.

 

In the acronym thread I referenced BDSM as meaning Bored and Deprived Soccer Moms. So it can mean a lot of things. All kidding aside, I listed all the various meanings associated with BDSM. If only a bit of dominance and submission is what is wanted or needed that takes care of the D and S. Since you agree to some rope that covers the B. Since it all needs to be done by a master there's the M. So no Sadists and Masochistics need apply in your situation! You're in the club!

One can certainly mix, match, and vary each component. As such a vicious sadist does not necessarily need to be involved in the equation. After all, part of the action involves the dom taking care of the the needs of his boy and visa versa! A bottom boy can makes is master just as proud as a master can make his bottom proud. Given that fact a cuddly component is not foreign to the BDSM scene, which is all things considered simply an alternative and at times a more intense way to make love.

 

With any luck the OP will find the guy who embodies the qualities that meet his particular recipe for success.

[mike carey]

WG, sounds like the sort of thing that would draw me in.

[whipped guy]

WG, sounds like the sort of thing that would draw me in.

To be honest at first I didn't get the fact that it was an alternative way to make love. I just enjoyed the pain. Of course the guy from whom I learned all this kept saying that it's an alternative way of making love that was analogous to how some animals do it. However, by the time that I finally understood the concept he retired. I then had the good fortune to hook up with another now retired escort who was exploring the BDSM scene in his private life while his escorting activities where essentially boy friend experience (BFE). That's when I began to consider that there was much more to be garnered from a BDSM experience.

 

What really sealed the deal for me was when I began hiring vanilla escorts due to the lack of S&M specialists in the area. As such I "trained" them to be able to satisfy my S&M needs. However, due to the fact that they were BFE specialists, I over time learned how the two scenes could be seamlessly integrated. Now an S&M scene without any "traditional" aspects such as cuddling and kissing seems like a totally empty and vapid experience. Add to that whatever the B, D, S, and M mean to you and you're good to go!

 

Just to throw out a familiar name of a guy who has paid his dues over the years, that's why someone such as Raul G Manzo is so good at such a scene. He can do just about anything in the vanilla and non-vanilla play book thus offering the best of all worlds.

[Bearofdistinction]

As I posted recently in two other threads the B, D, S, and M in BDSM can reference a number of different things and as such can be variations on a similar theme.

 

 

 

One can certainly mix, match, and vary each component. As such a vicious sadist does not necessarily need to be involved in the equation. After all, part of the action involves the dom taking care of the the needs of his boy and visa versa! A bottom boy can makes is master just as proud as a master can make his bottom proud. Given that fact a cuddly component is not foreign to the BDSM scene, which is all things considered simply an alternative and at times a more intense way to make love.

 

With any luck the OP will find the guy who embodies the qualities that meet his particular recipe for success.

 

 

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr Yeah Daddy!

[Bearofdistinction]

I know --- But here we go --- Seeking experienced DOM/TOP/MASTER who is into lots of Kink

But can also be caring and cuddly. There is a BIG DIFFERENCE between a DOM/tOP/MASTER and a SADIST

 

I seek the former, not the later = Lets explore expand and enjoy together -- Erotic Pain is HOT

 

Brutality is NOT!

 

I have lots of exp and lots of gear --- Interested -- In Person Public Meeting is a great way to start -- I will buy the first juice/coffee/smoothie/beer

 

For Professionals -- Your time will be compensated for a public meet or phone interview

 

Did I mention that I have two fireplaces to fuck in front of - And cum Spring a Sunroom with AC over looking the roses in which to fuck and play?

[+ Lance_Navarro]

"Wild and Cuddly" is completely how I approach my B&D sessions. I can't be a sadist even if I try, entirely too much caring and compassion within me. But it's that nurturing spirit that makes me good at B&D sessions, cause I like to push someone's limits and open them up to new things, but also make them feel safe and comforted throughout and especially at the end.

[Bearofdistinction]

"Wild and Cuddly" is completely how I approach my B&D sessions. I can't be a sadist even if I try, entirely too much caring and compassion within me. But it's that nurturing spirit that makes me good at B&D sessions, cause I like to push someone's limits and open them up to new things, but also make them feel safe and comforted throughout and especially at the end.

 

 

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr SIR ---- Make me lick you dirty deep nd long!

[+ Lance_Navarro]

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr SIR ---- Make me lick you dirty deep nd long!

Woof! Let me know when you're in the "shakey city".

[Hornplatz]

I know --- But here we go --- Seeking experienced DOM/TOP/MASTER who is into lots of Kink

But can also be caring and cuddly. There is a BIG DIFFERENCE between a DOM/tOP/MASTER and a SADIST

 

I seek the former, not the later = Lets explore expand and enjoy together -- Erotic Pain is HOT

 

Brutality is NOT!

 

I have lots of exp and lots of gear --- Interested -- In Person Public Meeting is a great way to start -- I will buy the first juice/coffee/smoothie/beer

 

For Professionals -- Your time will be compensated for a public meet or phone interview

I know --- But here we go --- Seeking experienced DOM/TOP/MASTER who is into lots of Kink

But can also be caring and cuddly. There is a BIG DIFFERENCE between a DOM/tOP/MASTER and a SADIST

 

I seek the former, not the later = Lets explore expand and enjoy together -- Erotic Pain is HOT

 

Brutality is NOT!

 

I have lots of exp and lots of gear --- Interested -- In Person Public Meeting is a great way to start -- I will buy the first juice/coffee/smoothie/beer

 

For Professionals -- Your time will be compensated for a public meet or phone interview

Visit Purple Passion 211 W 20th NYC - Keith Gallant is a Professional Dom. Will supply all needs - not cheap! Good Luck

[Bearofdistinction]

Is there a link for him? Purple Passion just gets you a store website