Butt Plug or Dildo to step up my game?

[Juan Vancouver]

Yes a lot of folks do a lot of things for money but my personal experience using Anal Eze (Ease) was a good experience and the only way for 2 ex-bf or mine to do what they wanted to do: bottoming and they loved it.

 

To each his own. What works for you may not work for others.

 

I am glad you and your exes dodged that bullet. Anal injuries are terrible.

 

That, however, doesn't give you the right to suggest other people to take such irresponsible risks.

 

This is comparable to the guy who has barebacked a lot and is still negative recommending others to bareback.

 

People, never numb your asshole. If you have questions about this, don't trust Marylander or myself; ask a Proctologist.

[marylander1940]

I am glad you and your exes dodged that bullet. Anal injuries are terrible.

 

That, however, doesn't give you the right to suggest other people to take such irresponsible risks.

 

This is comparable to the guy who has barebacked a lot and is still negative recommending others to bareback.

 

People, never numb your asshole. If you have questions about this, don't trust Marylander or myself; ask a Proctologist.

 

It was just an advice, just the same way you're giving an advice on here... Some guys like to get fisted and they recommend others to try it too, I never done it and I don't want to do it either.

 

"This is comparable to the guy who has barebacked a lot and is still negative recommending others to bareback." I won't fall defending safe sex again...

 

I agree a proctologist knows more about this subject than the 2 of us, no doubt!

[docred]

I would agree with Juan that it is a huge mistake to numb your ass in order to take a big cock...that is just asking for anal tears and injuries. I do think, however, that there is a place for Anal Eze and that is AFTER a long session with a well endowed top and your ass feels a little sore. It does help ease the soreness. Far more important however is to use a little hydrocortisone cream. The hydrocortisone will help speed the healing of any (micro) abrasions that may be causing the soreness.

[+ DERRIK]

Several threads have discussed "my doctor dissed me" and similar discussions about failing to be able to communicate with your care provider

 

This thread reinforces how important it is to be free to talk to your doctor about your personal health. If talking frankly to him/her is not possible -- then dump the doctor.

[Juan Vancouver]

Marylander,

 

I think we might be talking about different things here. I am not doubting your ability to give out advice, and I am sure that you must have advice that is relevant and important. If this were a matter of personal opinion, then I would have absolutely no problem saying that. I often agree that it takes all types and there's something for everyone. When it comes to variety or personal taste let's all agree to disagree!

 

In this case, however, perhaps unbeknownst to you, the recommendation you are making could have potentially disastrous consequences.

 

If someone came here and recommended to use vaseline in conjunction with condoms, it would be perfectly ok to say that that is not good advise. Condoms break down with oil based lubricants. This recommendation -however well-intentioned it might have been- would be dangerous and erroneous. If I point out this fact, I am not attacking the person who recommended it, I am just stating medical facts.

 

In the same way, I am sure you are a great guy with great intentions, and I am happy to read that your ass was not destroyed by Analeze. However, in this instance, the recommendation you are making is dangerous. It's not an attack on you. It's a medical fact.

 

Pain is your friend. Numbing pain while being penetrated leaves you open for injury.

 

Nobody should use Analeze before penetration.

 

Docred rightfully suggests to use Analeze after, if there is pain. However, if you are careful and mindful of your own ass, there is absolutely no reason for which you should feel pain after sex. (And my partner has a ten incher).

 

This is sadly not one of those issues about which two people with opposing opinions can be right.

 

If you are an inexperienced bottom learning about your body and how to take care of it, write this on your eyelids: Never numb. You need all your senses to be able to take care of your body.

[+ glutes]

Researchers have discovered a serious security flaw with a Bluetooth-enabled butt plug that allows hackers to remotely take control of the vibrating sex toy.

 

Italian security researcher Giovanni Mellini published his findings in a blogpost on Tuesday, October 18, describing how he was able to send a vibrate command to a Hush butt plug from his laptop.

 

The Hush device, manufactured by Lovense, is designed to be a “long-distance love toy” and is described by the sex toy startup as “the world’s first teledildonic butt plug” that can be "controlled from anywhere."

 

http://www.newsweek.com/hacked-butt-plug-controlled-anywhere-lovense-sex-toy-687719