Threats?

[dixietony]

I just got a text message sort if threatening me about a negative review I wrote. He said, "We will see where this goes." Maybe not a direct threat. But threatening in it's implication. Oh well, this isn't the Better Business Bureau. You stank at escorting. I told the truth. Live with it. And I don't think it's appropriate to text me a 3 page text telling me why you disagree. I didn't ask.

[Kuriousity]

I just got a text message sort if threatening me about a negative review I wrote. He said, "We will see where this goes." Maybe not a direct threat. But threatening in it's implication. Oh well, this is the Better Business Bureau. You stank at escorting. I told the truth. Live with it. And I don't think it's appropriate to text me a 3 page text telling me why you disagree. I didn't ask.

 

Does Daddy have any rules regarding publicizing the handle of escorts who engage in threatening actions regarding a review?

[dixietony]

I'm not sure. I definitely think it was inappropriate and ineffective. I feel like I wasted that money. My review will stand as is.

[Kuriousity]

Hey Daddy...if you see this thread, can you give us a line call on this? Personally, I think DT should be allowed to say the escort name in the spirit of good market intelligence for for renters.

[Nvr2Thick]

My advice would be to address it with Daddy or the admins privately first.

[mike carey]

If it was on Daddy's Reviews, the escort should be aware that the escort has the right of reply and rebuttal, and if taken, what the escort says is final. If the threats were not in the forum I'm not sure it's appropriate to move the slanging match into here. I agree with Nvr2Thick, take it up with the Deej and Cooper first (Daddy is still on vacation).

[+ ArVaGuy]

The practice here is that the escort gets the opportunity to respond to the negative review. Once posted that's the last word on the issue. Everyone can then draw conclusions from the review.

 

Often times there are posts about the review and what occurred. This can lead to a lot of "it's the client's fault" or "it's the escort's fault" discussions. These tend to degenerate into testy exchanges that ultimately result in the thread being locked down. And someone gets banned for a while for bad behavior.

 

My advice to you is don't escalate the situation by posting details and names here on the forum. Let the review stand as you wrote it. The escort has his opportunity to reply. He may or may not acknowledge the situation in a forthright manner. If you are accused of all kinds of faults, try not to get upset. An escort's reply says more about his character.

 

As long as you were honest in your judgements and truthful in your review, don't sweat the situation. Take a step back and let this play out.

 

However, if the escort continues to threaten or harass you, then take the issue to Daddy. If blackmail is threatened, contact the authorities if it's really bad.

 

I would also add, again, don't mention any name in the forum. But private messages would be another matter entirely. Word usually gets out about the bad actors, both clients and escorts, over time through the grapevine anyway.

[Kuriousity]

The practice here is that the escort gets the opportunity to respond to the negative review. Once posted that's the last word on the issue. Everyone can then draw conclusions from the review.

 

Often times there are posts about the review and what occurred. This can lead to a lot of "it's the client's fault" or "it's the escort's fault" discussions. These tend to degenerate into testy exchanges that ultimately result in the thread being locked down. And someone gets banned for a while for bad behavior.

 

My advice to you is don't escalate the situation by posting details and names here on the forum. Let the review stand as you wrote it. The escort has his opportunity to reply. He may or may not acknowledge the situation in a forthright manner. If you are accused of all kinds of faults, try not to get upset. An escort's reply says more about his character.

 

As long as you were honest in your judgements and truthful in your review, don't sweat the situation. Take a step back and let this play out.

 

However, if the escort continues to threaten or harass you, then take the issue to Daddy. If blackmail is threatened, contact the authorities if it's really bad.

 

I would also add, again, don't mention any name in the forum. But private messages would be another matter entirely. Word usually gets out about the bad actors, both clients and escorts, over time through the grapevine anyway.

 

 

Fair enough.

 

Moving on...

[jawjateck]

Arvaguy....always so measured and reasonable. A voice of calm and wisdom.

 

To the OP: if the escort responds and calls you unwashed, unclean, smelly, bad breath, etc, then he usually just hurts himself. Because every client with a little bit of experience knows that is the BS response of a crappy companion. So don't fret it, if he pulls that line out.

[Frequentflier]

I'm not sure. I definitely think it was inappropriate and ineffective. I feel like I wasted that money. My review will stand as is.

 

Good for you to not let his texts dissuade you from following the review process. Too often many (myself sometimes included) forget that unless we found the money on the ground we should get good value for it and complain when we don't. Your review is likely to save another client from a fleecing.

[+ bigjoey]

Fair enough.

 

Moving on...

 

I only wrote one mildly negative years ago on the original site. Since the escort knew my name and all contact information I was fearful of retaliation. I waited about six weeks or so and changed the meeting time, length of the meeting and a few other details to mask which client I was but kept the facts about the experience accurate. True to form, the escort exploded in anger; after that several other posters came forward with similar experiences and received the same angry treatment.

 

I felt good that I had warned others here of the escort and protected my identity.

[dixietony]

He texted me. I think he got an email from either here or rentmen about an upcoming published review. I just didn't answer. I think texting me was totally inappropriate. And totally ineffective.

 

I won't mention names on here. I just think it says a lot about him that he thinks mildly threatening me will change my mind.

 

No worries. I can't wait to see his response. I really don't care.

[Irtwo]

This can lead to a lot of "it's the client's fault" or "it's the escort's fault" discussions. These tend to degenerate into testy exchanges that ultimately result in the thread being locked down. And someone gets banned for a while for bad behavior.

 

But those are the best threads!!