The cable guy and, I am a big whimp

[Spida]

My internet connection was down for a few days and the cable guy had to come and fix it this morning. Okay norm, but I wasn't thinking about him having to get to my porn filled PC and where I had been!!! Until he sat down at my computer and turned it on. I couldn't jump in front of him and clear the history or the cache.

 

And what a cutie probably about 28 blond very tight body, straight looking and acting. He sat down and typed in the ip address of the router so far so good. Then typed in a few url's to check them out. fixed what he had to and I thought I had got off scott free! Until he went to get another site and hit the down arrow and HIT THE WRONG SITE> Went to Seancody.com. looked at it a few seconds and then hit the down arrow and WENT TO THIS SITE> I am sure my face was red by now! Said everything looks good, then said hang on I want to get you another splitter I will be right back. Came up and gave me a 3 way splitter and started to talk about one of my paintings in my living room, mentioned he thought I had good taste. Chatted a while then said he was very early for his next appointment was probably going to get a coffee held his hand out for me to shake it. I shook it and said bye, now in my defense I have been working very very very hard for the past 8 months and lost 60 pounds work out 5x a week and I know I am looking good but being that much over weight (still have 35 to go!) my self esteem isn't what it should be now. He was cute I am fairly sure he was coming on to me and if not it doesn't matter cause it made me feel great and I hit the gym for over an hour today and I never go on Saturdays..

[Skyyguy]

Thanks for sharing that! I think your internet connection may be intermittent.. <eg>

[Sparky12]

Funniest thing is that because of how I had my browser window sized when I read this, it looked like you said that when he came back he gave you a 3 way! Had to go to the next line to see.... splitter.

 

I agree though, seems that pretty soon your connection is going to have to get the hiccups again. And we want all the details once you're back online

[Rick Munroe]

>And what a cutie probably about 28 blond very tight body,

>straight looking and acting.

 

In what way was he straight-looking: were his eyebrows waxed? As for straight-acting: was he licking a vagina as he checked your computer? If you want to say he was masculine, why not just say that? All gay men are not limp-wristed lisping fags and all straight men are not macho jocks. And in case anyone is about to say, "Oh, come on, Rick, we've been down that road before and we all know what he meant," well, if you want to say that, go right ahead. I will still continue to try to educate people about the ignorance and bigotry of this term (it's no different than saying an educated black man is "white acting").

[+ deej]

(Waiving arms madly left and right)

 

DANGER WILL ROBINSON! WARNING! WARNING! WARNING!

 

:+

[Rick Munroe]

>(Waiving arms madly left and right)

>

>DANGER WILL ROBINSON! WARNING! WARNING! WARNING!

 

Robot-acting? :+

[Spida]

No your right Rick, I guess the way it should have been put to be more politically and descriptively correct would be that he gave me no signs to that point that he might be gay.

 

I have known many gay guys that most people would not suspect were gay. Thanks Rick for setting me STRAIGHT... I am pretty sure that my first inclination to put that I had no idea that he "Was Might Be A Friend of Dorothy's" would not have been PC either :-)

 

Seriously though you are correct in your assessment, he was very masculine as I think I am and I like that very much...

 

Wh..

 

At..

 

Oh...

 

No..

 

I think that is my intermittent connectio

[+ deej]

>Robot-acting? :+

 

Charlize Theron has nothing on me. :+

[Flower]

Why get the defenses up "in advance" }( YOU are absolutely correct in what you say and I have always hated the term "straight acting" --so keep it up. I told a very good friend I was gay last year and he said something the effect like "wow--I never saw that coming--you're so straight acting." I asked him what he meant by that -- he said, "well, not effeminate--I guess." So keep on being the gad-fly you've come to be on this point. As an Aside, I watched Shrek2 last night and wondered if Prince charming was gay acting or straight action :+

[VaHawk]

> Why get the defenses up "in advance" }(

> YOU are absolutely correct in what you say and I have always

>hated the term "straight acting" --so keep it up. I told a

>very good friend I was gay last year and he said something the

>effect like "wow--I never saw that coming--you're so straight

>acting." I asked him what he meant by that -- he said, "well,

>not effeminate--I guess." So keep on being the gad-fly

>you've come to be on this point. As an Aside, I watched

>Shrek2 last night and wondered if Prince charming was gay

>acting or straight action :+

 

 

WHY does any homosexual feel threatened, or offended by the terms "str8 acting", "faggot", "queer" "go girl", etc? My opinion is that it upsets them, because they are still unsure of their very "own" masculinity, and their very "own" desire to homogonize (not a queer term) and "blend" into society at large.

 

I for one, have NO DESIRE to "blend" into a "stepford wife personality", and love to be called homo, fag, queer or ANYTHING other than the popular pablum of "gay"!!!! Any faggot can UNDERSTAND the term "str8 acting" to identify what that means, and understand that that definition is not the LEAST bit denigrating, but is only a conduit of communication between those who are gay, those who like gays, and those who wish to explore their sexuality!

 

Too sad, that so MANY faggots, can't identify themselves in less than heterosexual, "society acceptable" defined terms, and even sadder that they don't recognize that FAGGOT is a badge of HONOR! x(

[Rick Munroe]

Oy. That's really illogical. Do you not see a difference between a black person calling another black person "nigga" and a black person who says that another black person who wears clothes that fit & speaks proper English is "trying to pass for white"? Do you not think that that non-ebonics-speaking person would be offended? Would you say that he/she is "threatened" because they are "unsure of their very own blackness"?

 

I said nothing about the use of the terms "faggot" or "queer." It's not the same topic.

[Trixie]

To me, "straight-acting" means "behaves in a manner consistent with that portrayed by male heterosexuals on the Jerry Springer Show" (God Bless those tickle toy-boys!!!)

What's wrong with that? If heterosexuals can have a word for straight men who act queer (metrosexual), why can't we use straight-acting?

 

 

Trix

[Rick Munroe]

>If heterosexuals can have a word for

>straight men who act queer (metrosexual), why can't we use

>straight-acting?

 

Metrosexual has been defined as "An urban male with a strong aesthetic sense who spends a great deal of time and money on his appearance and lifestyle." It has nothing to do with sexuality. From Salon.com: "The typical metrosexual is a young man with money to spend, living in or within easy reach of a metropolis — because that's where all the best shops, clubs, gyms and hairdressers are. He might be officially gay, straight or bisexual, but this is utterly immaterial because he has clearly taken himself as his own love object and pleasure as his sexual preference."

[VaHawk]

I apologize that my logical, cognizant thoughts were such an anathema to you, that it gave you a headache!

 

Face the facts! MOST of us queer boys don't find anything the LEAST bit offensive about the term "str8 acting", as it is an "accurate, more than acceptable" description!

 

Also face the facts, that there are MANY of us, that would prefer to be called "queer", "homo", or "faggot" than to be lumped into some "sickeningly sweet, androgynous" label of "gay".

 

"Queer" and "Faggot" are terms denoting STRENGTH, unlike "Gay" that is a beautiful, blue ballooned, term! Without all the "queers" and "faggots", the big blue ballooned parade would not exist!

[Flower]

> Correction to late to edit And don't you dare say it's a fruedian slip

 

....if Prince Charming was gay

acting or straight ACTING :+

[jaden]

27 yo hottie....

 

I would have tackled him and see how "straight" he "acted" after that...

 

*I LOOOOVVVVVVEEEEEEE older hotties*

 

=o)

[Spida]

Jaden,

 

I just want to thank you for bringing this thread back to the real subject! That this hottie was coming on to ME! Yes, the Hottie was coming on to ME! I think this post may have got sidetracked by real issues, that disturbs me a bit it was a shallow self indulging, self promoting post that made me feel good. Now isn't that the real issue??

 

:-)

 

God wisely designed the human body so that we can neither pat our own backs nor kick ourselves too easily.

— Anonymous

[eastbayguy]

>27 yo hottie....

>

>I would have tackled him and see how "straight" he "acted"

>after that...

>

>*I LOOOOVVVVVVEEEEEEE older hotties*

 

Pity you don't live in Arizona. You could come tackle me any time.

I might tackle you back.

 

--EBG