Why won't you cum in my ass?

[phraughy]

I've sort of given up on an escort cumming inside my "ass". I prefer he comes on my ads chest or in my mouth. Even with my regulars most of the time I'm the one to "cum" due to the escorts calendar more than likely. As for me I always pull out because I don't like cumming in a condom. I like to release in his mouth or on his ass.

Pulling out is so frustrating for the bottom. Curious, does it feel bad to cum in a condom or just not as pleasurable?

[+ Funguy]

Pulling out is so frustrating for the bottom.

 

AMEN!

[phraughy]

You have the wrong escort.

 

Keep looking! This is not a rare or hard-to-fulfill desire.

 

Agreed! I have not found it difficult to find escorts that will cum in my ass inside the condom. Typically this is something I address at the beginning prior to hire. I must seem like a control bottom with all of my requirements.

[MartyB]

Pulling out is so frustrating for the bottom. Curious, does it feel bad to cum in a condom or just not as pleasurable?

Not pleasurable for me in a condom. I'm so used to it from receiving or giving it's become status quo for me and my escorts. If I did BB then I would come in his ass. But I don't.

[phraughy]

Not pleasurable for me in a condom. I'm so used to it from receiving or giving it's become status quo for me and my escorts. If I did BB then I would come in his ass. But I don't.

I just realized I have never worn a condom. I have only fucked once, when I was 17. I am clueless about what tops go through with condoms.

[TruthBTold]

My sexual gratification depends on the tops ability to cum. If you fail to cum then I feel like I did not please you. I do not have sex to get off, I rarely cum. For me it is the intimacy with the top and getting them to cum. It is an incredible feeling to feel the cock pulsing as the top cums.

 

Besides just the failure of sexual gratification, there is also sort of a sense of humiliation in having to beg to have someone cum in me. I guess now that it has been articulated in some way I understand it more but then I guess it is not a good client/escort match. The thought of actually saying "Because I am paying you to do it" is so humiliating - (I am sure for both people). And I have experienced it also in non-condom experiences which I have understood even less. There is probably some explanation but if both are on PrEP and testing negative I do not understand the hesitancy of cumming. Again it is humiliating to beg. However no one must do anything in the heat of the moment.

[phraughy]

Besides just the failure of sexual gratification, there is also sort of a sense of humiliation in having to beg to have someone cum in me. I guess now that it has been articulated in some way I understand it more but then I guess it is not a good client/escort match. The thought of actually saying "Because I am paying you to do it" is so humiliating - (I am sure for both people). And I have experienced it also in non-condom experiences which I have understood even less. There is probably some explanation but if both are on PrEP and testing negative I do not understand the hesitancy of cumming. Again it is humiliating to beg. However no one must do anything in the heat of the moment.

 

Interesting. I find no humiliation for myself in asking the guy to cum in me as I am a submissive bottom. My sexual gratification is psychological and me achieving an orgasm is not necessary. I take medication that makes ejaculation extremely difficult so I have learned to achieve pleasure in other ways. I would never say because I am paying you to do it. That is just disrespectful.

[+ GregM]

When I bottom and the dick is good, I have no issues with begging for his load or encouraging him to bust a nut inside. And if I top I don't pull out. Well unless it's to stuff his other hole and coat the back of his throat.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[MassageAdam]

In my case in order for me to cum while fucking someone it only happens after a LOOOONG time fucking in a very barbaric way. Very, very few bottoms can take it and if a bottom is not relaxed and experienced trying to cum inside him would only be incredibly hurtful.

mmmm, hot... When will you ever come to San Diego. I'm intrigued.. and I LOVE your pics!