Newbie good time!!

[Spida]

Okay last night was a first for me, no it wasn't my first encounter with an escort or my first time having sex with a guy. It was my first time at a gay bar! I have during my life gone to many many many female strip clubs basically to be bored and pretend that I wasn't last night I saw cute young guys dancing in their undies, and good looking guys playing pool and dancing on the dance floor without shirts. Could look at guys without having to be embarrassed if they caught my extended gander! I met hugged kissed guys! Was given prudent advice from beautiful women about being gay (I know I thought it odd also!!) Was given advice from great people I met.

 

It is a whole new world that I just explored thanks to two great friends! I will be forever in their debt. It was awesome three different gay clubs in one night! I went home alone and still had a blast (couldn't handle too much for one night!)

 

If anyone is out there hopefully younger than I am having this experience of being hidden and afraid to really be what\who you are! don't be go for it! I just wish I had done this years ago, however, I am still young enough to have fun with this. I am not "out" right now to most people but that will be coming I am sure. Just wanted to share my experiences. I think it was about a year ago, I was going to break out and go to NYC with Jackhammer to meet up with others and hire the best escorts.. I chickened out I wasn't sure what was happening then and I was very confused. I sooo wish I did! But hey at least now I know what is out there and what is happening can't wait to do it again. and Jackhammer if you are reading this.. Next time you are heading to NYC let me know I will meet you there.. Can't to FLA cause I will be in FLA the last two weeks of this month bad timing on my part! I can't wait to go to Montreal and then maybe just maybe who knows what might be next Brazil.. (okay I have high hopes but hey you never know!!)

[marc anthony]

Spida: YOu will love Montreal... one of the most gay friendly places on earth. If you enjoyed the strip clubs you were in last night... you will also love Taboo, Campus, Stock, etc.

 

Have a blast!

[JamesK840]

Congrats!

 

I was in the same position about 6-9 months ago, enjoy it! I also owe it all to a couple people from here, in my case BGP, Funseeker, Tom and Jackhammer too. It's been a hell of a ride!

[jackhammer91406]

SPIDA u da MAN

 

Hey Spida,

Your post makes me smile all over. And you are on for NYC which may be sooner than any of us think. With fares this low, I almost can't resist. I am saving pennies for the FLorida trip and sorry you can't make it cause there's gonna be some great guys there and a few surprises it sounds like.

[Spida]

RE: SPIDA u da MAN

 

jackhammer,

 

I am very upset that I cant make it especially now! Are you going to be online while you are down there at least from time to time cause if things change and you are right with cheap and last minute airfares never know what might happen one weekend :-)

 

Can't wait for NYC weekend have a blast in FLA!!

 

Spida.

[jackhammer91406]

RE: SPIDA u da MAN

 

Yup, plan to take the ol' laptop. Gotta have something to play DVD's on the plane.

You can send me a private if you want more info.

[BARR1965]

It was also Jack, JK, and Beguiled who encouraged me to have a good time and that was about couple of months ago. And Jack was the mediator between me and Carlos (I think that's the escorts' name) :D Without Jack's encouragement I would have never gone with Carlos ... YOU THE MAIN MAN DUDE :9 :9

[jackhammer91406]

I dunno, but I can pretty much say with assurance that I am not the MAN. I have a bunch of guys who helped peel off the layers to get to the real me:

 

The escorts I have been with certainly helped me feel better. }(

 

The guys who welcomed me to NYC (Cooper, Lucky, hiJinx, Foxy) all made me feel comfortable in a social setting with other like minded guys.

 

But I would have to say is was Tomcal who helped me the most. At a time when I wasn't going out much (read, not at all), Tomcal convinced me by phone to meet him sight unseen at Numbers one night. Since then, I have seen, met, and experienced more in 15 months, than at any time in my life.

 

Thanks Tom.

[Chuck50]

Keep it Up jackhammer you are the inspiration to many of us. HUGS Around. Chuck50

[Spida]

Jackhammer you really are a great inspiration I am so sure the others are also great! But you are the man! Come through so much and seem to be in a great place you help us all see the "light at the end of the tunnel".. I know we haven't talked in a while but the phone convsations we had a while ago really helped me to think also..

 

Thanks.

Spida