Escort gives cold shoulder in real life? Typical

[marylander1940]

Wow! I must confess that I was really grossed out reading your posts.

 

I guess slut-shaming, hooker-shaming and client-shaming is the order of the day. In a single elegant swoop you managed to reduce most of the people of this board into money hungry despicable automatons or old, ugly, otherwise unfuckable drones.

 

I hardly think it's the best idea to confront someone in public with such offensive vitriol, especially when the victim is a pair of young, strong, ostensibly volatile men.

 

You're right about this, the client should have texted them that.

 

It might escape you that using your logic you are reducing yourself to the bottom of the pile. According to your logic, nobody in the gay community would be friends with the whores, and the whores would not be friends with you, when in reality nobody really gives a shit what anyone does for a living or who they fuck; what people mostly give a shit about is what kind of person you are, how you relate to others and yourself, and how you make them feel.

 

Reading your post made me feel really sad and a little sick. =( At this moment, this is what defines my relationship and opinion of you, not the fact that you are client, not your age, not your sex appeal.

 

Being an escort, being a client, being a homosexual man, being a sexually active person is beautiful. Nobody should ever feel ashamed of that. There are hideously worse things to do or be.

 

And a lot of people know what I do for a living. many want to be my friends. Some don't. I think it's exactly the same for everyone.

 

Why would you turn a line into an essay about this subject?

 

You're basing your whole reply in just one phrase of what I wrote (and my funny gifs) unfortunately you're completely missing the point that my statements where simply anti-attitude:

 

Answering the OP's question/post:

 

"No it's not normal, but I guess when escorts live together or share a room while on the road, they do talk about the clients they see.

Certainly it's bad for business, I understand gossiping/sharing information as something inevitable: "do you know the guy who lives on x St and has a fat cat?" but why in hell did one of them told you (directed to the OP who was a regular client of this couple) he knows you also see his bf in his place. Not pretty!"

 

There's still a negative perception of escorts (I never said the word whore that you brought into this conversation) in the gay community, am I wrong? I'm glad you have a lot of friends who know about you and accept you. I'm also aware in Canada there's no risk of police involvement like there is in the States. Please let me know if I'm wrong. Maybe Canadians who don't escort would love to date an escort, just like here fire fighters, military personnel, flight attendants, cops, etc are considered gay icons.

 

I guess you're just barking at the wrong tree, instead of criticizing those escorts because of the attitude they showed at their repeated client. They not only gossiped with each other about it (which I guess is inevitable when you live together) but they had the bad idea of telling him they've been doing it, and talking to him about the drama in their relationship.

 

They should have just keep saying hello at social gatherings and getting hired by him (if they like having sex with him) but they simply turn a cold shoulder on him...

 

Btw, you need to remove the link to your rentboy ad from your signature, that website it's no longer up.

[nyblkguy]

So,

 

Thanks for all the feedback. I think I have my head on straight about the whole situation. It looks like it could be a few factors. But my approach / social etiquette was fine.

 

As for the speculatation on identities, there's a reason I didn 't use names. Because I would hate for an escort to post mine! So don't be offended that I won't be responding to all the private messages asking for names.

 

As someone said in the thread, we all have bad days and misunderstandings. And sometimes thats not anyone fault it's just Life.

[marylander1940]

You take a shower. You light a few candles. You envision a passionate sexual encounter with a muscular sexy man. You take a Viagra (just to be sure) You get an earful of "he doesn't understand me" and a cold shower. Yeah, even for free, that gets a bad review. If you were married and he came home in the same situation and all he did was complain about the job, he would be sleeping on the couch and I might be considering calling a lawyer.

 

Bingo!

 

Only John Boehner gets away crying his issues at his job!

I'm retired now but I've always left my own issues at home while I was working.

 

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