what is meant by "The Boy Friend Experience"?

[Guy Fawkes]

Note to escorts: tear away pants are popular among the strip club performers: http://www.coolthings.com/tear-away-pants/

 

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[Wolfer]

It was the exact same for me with my first escort and remains so now, after nearly five years of hiring. It actually is exciting to me being able to revel in male beauty and sensuousness. I love the freedom of praising a great and beautiful man, "You are so beautiful, I adore your amazing ass, I love your gorgeous, hard, thick dick, etc." These kinds of statements were something I never felt free about expressing when just hooking up with a man, for some reason! Now, I do tend to gush when I'm with a hot escort and I love the freedom I feel when my compliments are such that the man I'm with may even become a bit embarrassed by my enthusiasm!!! ;)

 

This is another reason I'm addicted to this hobby so much!!!

 

TruHart1

I'm so happy to hear that! I'm a very excitable person and can get really enthousiastic (people often compare me to a giddy puppy) but I've consciously reeled it in with escorts (even though inside I'm bouncing off the walls) cause out of fear of being judged (or whatever) but it does put up a bit of a boundary between me and the other guy, like he'll know subconsciously I'm keeping myself in check (or walking on egg shells with myself). Now I'm gonna try and let loose next time!

 

I too am learning what exactly it is that makes a good encounter for me. I did notice a lot has to do with how relaxed I am and even moreso, how open I am.

 

We shouldn't be ashamed that we're feeling like giddy teenagers! Discovering your sexuality can be a wonderful thing.

 

Glennn: It does pain me a little to hear you feel like you cannot come out of the closet because it's too late. While everyone's situation is different, know that it's never too late to be true to who you are.

I met someone years ago who had been married with a woman and had two children, but decided to come out after being in the closet his whole life. And now he hangs out with fellow gays in the local musical theater group. Chatting about regular things but also hot men.

But coming out does take tremendous courage, so know that whatever you feel is the right thing for you, there is a community of people here with whom you can share your experiences and, yes, even gush about the incredible men you'll meet through this amazing hobby.

Big hug coming up!

[TruHart1]

Oh Yes! My recent session with my marvelous escort in LA was my first romantic interaction with a man in 40 years. After decades of screening every word through a straight filter, I was gushing a little, too. Pun intended.

 

LOL! I didn't even realize I had written a pun (gush!) until I read your comment, glennnn! I have friends who often groan when I try to be punny, but that's why I missed it, I was being serious here! :)

 

TruHart1

[TruHart1]

Note to escorts: tear away pants are popular among the strip club performers: http://www.coolthings.com/tear-away-pants/

 

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I love your recommendation of tear away pants, Daddy, but why must the model (who looks super hot!) be wearing bulky gym shorts underneath the pants instead of something like a tight speedo or even a jock strap?

 

TruHart1

[+ glennnn]

I'm so happy to hear that! I'm a very excitable person and can get really enthousiastic (people often compare me to a giddy puppy) but I've consciously reeled it in with escorts (even though inside I'm bouncing off the walls) cause out of fear of being judged (or whatever) but it does put up a bit of a boundary between me and the other guy, like he'll know subconsciously I'm keeping myself in check (or walking on egg shells with myself). Now I'm gonna try and let loose next time!

 

I too am learning what exactly it is that makes a good encounter for me. I did notice a lot has to do with how relaxed I am and even moreso, how open I am.

 

We shouldn't be ashamed that we're feeling like giddy teenagers! Discovering your sexuality can be a wonderful thing.

 

Glennn: It does pain me a little to hear you feel like you cannot come out of the closet because it's too late. While everyone's situation is different, know that it's never too late to be true to who you are.

I met someone years ago who had been married with a woman and had two children, but decided to come out after being in the closet his whole life. And now he hangs out with fellow gays in the local musical theater group. Chatting about regular things but also hot men.

But coming out does take tremendous courage, so know that whatever you feel is the right thing for you, there is a community of people here with whom you can share your experiences and, yes, even gush about the incredible men you'll meet through this amazing hobby.

Big hug coming up!

 

Gees! Wolfer, you make me cry. Thanks so much, buddy, for the support. I have a great wife that I love very much, kids, and a lifelong career in the public eye. It is hard and frightening to consider coming out knowing the distress it would cause. On the other hand, I've been in this fucking closet, denying myself emotional and physical fulfillment for so long that when I finally booked my first escort, I threw myself into his arms, held on and wept. Poor Nate! He was so gentle and kind, but it did serve to break the ice. For now, I'm seeing a life coach, booking escorts and thinking it all over.

Again, thanks for the kind words and the hug.