Incall/Outcall fee - Ask me vs. N/A

[+ Keith30309]

I'm trying to figure out exactly what "ask me" means on an incall vs. outcall fee (for example, on RB).

I've noticed that some guys will list a dollar figure for outcall and 'ask me' for incall.

Some list 'ask me' for both incall and outcall.

Some list 'n/a' for either incall or outcall.

 

I get that 'ask me' on both fees means exactly that - "Just ask me what my fee is and I'll tell you" - people have various reactions to that and it's been discussed in other threads.

 

But if someone lists a number for one and 'ask me' for the other then does that mean they MIGHT be willing to incall/outcall under the right circumstance? Or is it just another way of saying "No incalls (or out)".

 

My suspicion is that it could mean either - "No" or "Maybe".

 

Has anyone found there to be a consistent interpretation of this?

[Kevin Slater]

I'd guess "ask me" means you should ask him. It may be that his roommate is sometimes home, sometimes not, or he can sometimes rent a room from a buddy for $50.

 

Kevin Slater

[+ Keith30309]

That makes sense. I've only engaged one guy who was "ask me/ask me" and it turns out his incall was a cheap hotel room.

[+ Keith30309]

I'm thinking about the opposite since outcall-only seems much more prevalent than incall-only.

If someone lists $x for out and 'ask me' for incall then is it likely that they are open to the possibility of an incall? Or is it that it's simply the web site default for 'no'.

[aaronpierce]

Kevin is correct in my case as well. It sometimes costs me more to get my roommate to leave my place for a little while.

Sometimes its Starbucks and other times he wants dinner and a movie..lol

[Kevin Slater]

other times he wants dinner and a movie..

 

Eating my ass while I watch porn?

 

Kevin Slater