Backpage is getting very scary

[JDXXX]

I used the "N" word once, when I was in my early 20's, intentionally, when speaking to a black woman I worked with, and she practically slapped me in the face and said, "Don't you ever use that word again!" She was right, and so now I only refer to the word "n-----" as the "N" word, but I think it might actually be for the best if most people just stopped using it. I'd never think of using it describe any black I know, except in this way to make this point.

 

No Offense, sweetheart, but how did her slapping to a point of no return feel to you at the time? LOL. Did she leave a handprint across the face as a reminder piece?

 

Seriously, did the impact of her response make you wake up to reality on how a negative word such as being called a "N" affects "ethnic" people?

 

Do you think her reaction, babe was a good one considering what was said at the time, and how such a word offended her as an African-American women living in today's society? You have to admit, the slap in the face did shut you up, and made you realize where she was coming from in making her point in a strong, but valuable way you'll never forget for which did happen. .

 

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I think the word needs to be eliminated, and non-existed from the English vocabulary, PERIOD without question seeing how it degrades, and stereotypes black or ethnic people in an negative light. Just a horrible word, and hate it still exist in today's society. Someday such a word will be hopefully soon in our lifetime as extinct - possibly.

[JDXXX]

Perfect timing. I had an appointment tonight to have the word "WHORE" tattooed on my forehead.

 

Oh no, baby! Just when I was hoping you'd give me a "special" surprise when I come to visit you in Palm Springs with this......

 

http://images.sodahead.com/polls/002548105/5413739648_Whore_Stop_8602_answer_2_xlarge.png

[JDXXX]

Now I don't think I'll actually be contacting them as I seriously doubt that a young ripped black guy advertising on BP is likely to be into an older white guy like me but there is a lot of eye candy on there.

 

I don't know about that, Tanman as there are us "sophisticated" black men who like to meet all men of all types and racial backgrounds. Sorry, that's just me as I'm completely colorblind to regarding one's race. Beauty is Beauty regardless the color of one's skin. I recall you being a witness to my colorblindness during our amazing interaction together a couple of weeks ago. .

 

 

Isn't this cute???

[tanman4u]

I don't know about that, Tanman as there are us "sophisticated" black men who like to meet all men of all types and racial backgrounds. Sorry, that's just me as I'm completely colorblind to regarding one's race. Beauty is Beauty regardless the color of one's skin. I recall you being a witness to my colorblindness during our amazing interaction together a couple of weeks ago. .

 

 

Isn't this cute???

[+ stevenkesslar]

 

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I think the word needs to be eliminated, and non-existed from the English vocabulary, PERIOD without question seeing how it degrades, and stereotypes black or ethnic people in an negative light. Just a horrible word, and hate it still exist in today's society.

 

Well, you, me and Don Lemon agree on getting rid of the "N" word. Chris Rock may have a difference of opinion, so I'll leave it up to you if you want to go bitch slap him.

 

Speaking of being bitchy, didn't I tell you to cut it out with these cheap home made videos? Frankly, even if you look fabulous in that blond wig, I just really don't think it's anybody's god damn business that you like to cross dress.

[tanman4u]

Witness is a pretty tame term for what went on between us;). I on the other hand am not colorblind and make it pretty clear that my preferences are way more toward black guys. You, JD, are at a level far and above when it comes to any escorts anywhere and you're in the stratosphere when it comes to nuclear hot black escorts. From my many communications with you and reading your posts and reviews here it was very clear to me that we'd get along awesomely (and did). I knew that I didn't have to ask you what I ask most guys I'm thinking of hiring, "can you get it up and keep it up for an older white guy"? I don't know why I bother to ask it of them because the answer is always "yea" (seldom more than a one word answer BTW). A ""sophisticated" black man who likes to meet all men of all types and racial backgrounds" would be a very very very rare find on BP. Hell I'm heading to Tampa soon and between RentBoy and RentMen there's only one black escort. Hot looking? True dat! But he's 25 and his ad just appeared recently and the one pic of him in appears in 52 different blog/twitter/other instances including one that has the text "Fulfill the Faggots Destiny: Take your time. Enjoy that Slut fuck-hole. Use it. Breed it. Fill it. POZ it. " Soooooo, either this guy is using fake pics, or his have been stolen and are being used, or it is actually him and he's out of his fucking mind Oh, and his rates are "Ask Me".

 

But who knows maybe I'll hit PowerBall before then and fly JD in to meet me for another incredible overnight.

[bostonman]

Well, you, me and Don Lemmon agree on getting rid of the "N" word.

 

If we're going to keep talking about the esteemed Mr. Lemon, we should be spelling his name correctly. Only one m.

[+ stevenkesslar]

If we're going to keep talking about the esteemed Mr. Lemon, we should be spelling his name correctly. Only one m.

 

Point taken. One "M." No "N."

 

You can teach an old whore new tricks.

 

Oh, and PK, about that friendship thing .... can you give a guy a hand? There's also that saying about getting an old doc to hire you new tricks. Up for a 3 way?

 

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[HopkinsLad]

I know for money people will sell their soul to the devil but I seriously cannot even imagine these thuggish guys will get 100 feet near a gay man let alone have sex with one unless they're addicts and need the money for drugs or their intentions were to rob them in the first place.

Not only that but why go for a guy that clearly says he's only for female clients? Respect his boundaries and move on. I suspect the reason they put for ladies only is that they have been offered money from men and weren't interested.

[JDXXX]

Well, you, me and Don Lemon agree on getting rid of the "N" word. Chris Rock may have a difference of opinion, so I'll leave it up to you if you want to go bitch slap him.

 

Speaking of being bitchy, didn't I tell you to cut it out with these cheap home made videos? Frankly, even if you look fabulous in that blond wig, I just really don't think it's anybody's god damn business that you like to cross dress.

 

One of these days I'll give Chris Rock a good lecture on "Social Skills" in today's society of what to say, and what not to say amongst "mixed" groups as using the "N" word within the Black community sends a bad message and as were stereotyping ourselves which isn't fair to do.

 

Are you kidding me? I think seeing you get a good dose of a reality slap in the face with my blond wig on was excellent quality. So, shut the fuck up, and enjoy it like the rest of us do.

 

Oh Honey, I've had that damn wig since the dinosaur ages, and look how it's kept up. Just FABLOUS. I only cross dress for weddings and funerals, and even that's hard to pull off with my dick somehow getting in the way. . Boners are hard to hide wearing a short tight knit skirt.

[+ VeryHappyCustomer]

I know a man who advertised on Backpage and said in his ad "Sorry guys, women only." Although we met socially, I eventually became a frequent customer. He told me that all of his other customers were men, too, and the only woman who had ever hired him turned out to be a vice cop.

[bostonman]

I do have to assume that men often try to respond to the "women only" ads anyway, and that some percentage of the escorts not only expect that, but do wind up "making exceptions." On one level, it could be a bit of a game (the escort playing the "straight guy" angle, the client feeling like the lucky one who got him anyway). For others, it could be a way to weed out clients (guys who sound like the "wrong" customers might get the "thanks for trying but really, women only" kind of response).

 

That said, I'm also sure that some of the escorts really do mean "women only" and either say it to clarify, and/or because they get a lot of inquiries from men and are tired of having to respond to them.

[MiamiLooker]

Not only that but why go for a guy that clearly says he's only for female clients? Respect his boundaries and move on. I suspect the reason they put for ladies only is that they have been offered money from men and weren't interested.

It never hurts to ask.

[Nvr2Thick]

I do have to assume that men often try to respond to the "women only" ads anyway, and that some percentage of the escorts not only expect that, but do wind up "making exceptions." On one level, it could be a bit of a game (the escort playing the "straight guy" angle, the client feeling like the lucky one who got him anyway). For others, it could be a way to weed out clients (guys who sound like the "wrong" customers might get the "thanks for trying but really, women only" kind of response).

 

That said, I'm also sure that some of the escorts really do mean "women only" and either say it to clarify, and/or because they get a lot of inquiries from men and are tired of having to respond to them.

 

I often respond to the "women only" ads. When I leave e-mail or voice mail most do not respond though I occasionally get a polite decline or nasty response via e-mail. By phone most decline outright, and about half of those get pretty angry. I'd say that less than 10% express some sort of interest. Of those most are either too tentative, put deal-breaking limits on what they'll do, or add such high premiums to their rates that they're not worth pursuing. These guys don't seem to have M4M in their repertoires, but they're trying to figure out how to get some money without having to do something offensive.

 

There are a few men who were quite prepared to discuss what they'll do with a guy and how much it will cost, or who were willing to negotiate and quite reasonable. I found one of my all-time favorite big dick, rough trade blowjob guys this way.

[Mocha]

I know a man who advertised on Backpage and said in his ad "Sorry guys, women only." Although we met socially, I eventually became a frequent customer. He told me that all of his other customers were men, too, and the only woman who had ever hired him turned out to be a vice cop.

 

Saying women only in an ad only caters to Bi men with certain fantasies

 

As a clearly posted gay escort on backpage, I get more requests from guys fantasizing about me screwing their wives/girlfriends while they watch. I've never accepted their requests, but backpage is mostly fiction than reality.

[Mocha]

Oh, and back on the topic of tattoos...I recently met a Latin guy like the picture in question: who had a tattoo on his ****....in addition to every other part of his body. We met last week thru a friend, but didn't get to it til this week. He was very mannerly.

 

Now get this: Most clients walk in and put their shoes on my alpaca rug! This tatted "thug" was drinking when we came home from the bar, and still had the courtesy to make sure his shoes didn't touch my furrah. And I got to suck him for as long as I wanted.

 

So whatever thing I said about tattoos can be tossed out the window. Everybody is different.

[+ FreshFluff]

I do have to assume that men often try to respond to the "women only" ads anyway, and that some percentage of the escorts not only expect that, but do wind up "making exceptions." On one level, it could be a bit of a game (the escort playing the "straight guy" angle, the client feeling like the lucky one who got him anyway).

 

Yes, some of them are "making exceptions" and hoping to be seen as straight by their male clients.

 

The others are probably random straight guys trying for a hail Mary. Who knows? If they keep their ad up long enough, a woman may actually call and pay them for sex. For them, that's like being paid to drink beer and watch football.

[bostonman]

And, then there's this ad...which occasionally appears on Backpage in Boston

 

http://boston.backpage.com/MaleEscorts/are-you-snake-charmer/29310387

 

I'm not ever sure what to make of the language in this ad. But my suspicion is, especially with old-world references like "snake charmer," that this guy really speaks better English than this, and is purposely trying to sound foreign. Surely he means this in a playful way, but it seems to me that he's trying to invoke "middle east speak" the same way that some of the so-called "thugs" use their own kind of slang. Which to me somehow seems more racially insulting than playful. I dunno.

[+ FreshFluff]

And just in case you missed the reference in the text of the ad, here's the title.

 

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Too bad the snake isn't on offer. He's real cute.

[BabyBoomer]

And just in case you missed the reference in the text of the ad, here's the title.

 

http://s5.postimg.org/yag9nwe93/Screen_Shot_2015_06_21_at_11_27_08_PM.png

Too bad the snake isn't on offer. He's real cute.

 

AND NO TATTOOS!

 

~ Boomer ~

[+ FreshFluff]

AND NO TATTOOS!

 

~ Boomer ~

 

Well, he has a little body art. But he's an ultra high-end snake, and he claims to have his own private entrance at Gieves & Hawkes.

 

[RSully94]

Unless you're Britney Spears, you shouldn't trust the snake charmer.

[BaronArtz]

Well, he has a little body art. But he's an ultra high-end snake, and he claims to have his own private entrance at Gieves & Hawkes.

 

 

Gieves & Hawkes make great suits - timeless elegance and quality. I wish I could buy them in the U.S. This guy has good taste.

[JDXXX]

Witness is a pretty tame term for what went on between us;). I on the other hand am not colorblind and make it pretty clear that my preferences are way more toward black guys. You, JD, are at a level far and above when it comes to any escorts anywhere and you're in the stratosphere when it comes to nuclear hot black escorts. From my many communications with you and reading your posts and reviews here it was very clear to me that we'd get along awesomely (and did). I knew that I didn't have to ask you what I ask most guys I'm thinking of hiring, "can you get it up and keep it up for an older white guy"? I don't know why I bother to ask it of them because the answer is always "yea" (seldom more than a one word answer BTW). A ""sophisticated" black man who likes to meet all men of all types and racial backgrounds" would be a very very very rare find on BP.

But who knows maybe I'll hit PowerBall before then and fly JD in to meet me for another incredible overnight.

 

Hey Tanman,

 

Everything you posted here was right on the money knowing I had a BLAST with you too during our overnight meeting, and looking forward to meet with you again soon for another overnight session together for sure.

 

Thanks for the compliments and kind words as I feel the same about you too as you do have a strong passion for life, and live your life it seems to the fullest with such enthusiasm.

 

Hate your going through havoc on BP. Sounds like to me these guys who reject you or give you problems in hooking up on there don't know what they're missing. .

 

Keep in mind, if you ever need me, just call me. Here for you whenever you need me.

 

Hopefully we can do a weekend trip on the next visit. That'll be a lot fun.

[+ dutchmuch]

That's why I use Craigslist. It's Magic, not scary!

 

http://miami.craigslist.org/brw/cas/5091460026.html