"Don't Waste Time Dating" interesting article

[jcmiami1]

http://m.fastcompany.com/3046110/hit-the-ground-running/this-28-year-old-startup-founders-life-hack-dont-waste-time-dating

[+ sync]

My take-away is that Cantlin has a strong aversion to commitment and grabs at any straw she can to justify it. I don't fault her for that; commitment is not for everyone, but she should not discount the positives of commitment for those who seek it.

[+ Gar1eth]

I've found I don't need to waste my time dating or looking for hookups. It's very rarely anyone I'm attracted to is attracted to me.

 

But it has a bright side. I save a fortune in lube and condoms.

 

 

Gman

[jcmiami1]

I've found I don't need to waste my time dating or looking for hookups. It's very rarely anyone I'm attracted to is attracted to me.

 

But it has a bright side. I save a fortune in lube and condoms.

 

 

Gman

Hahaha I can relate

[anotherjohnindupont]

Hahaha I can relate

 

 

Me too...

[+ smara]

Me too certainly. Isn't that the main reason for the success of so many young escorts?

[anotherjohnindupont]

Me too certainly. Isn't that the main reason for the success of so many young escorts?

 

Young escorts make me feel young again, lol

[mike carey]

Young escorts make me feel young again, lol

Indeed they do. And for me, under 40 is really young. But if they are happy to see me, I'm happy. For me, other than for escorts I don't approach young guys, but wait for them to express interest. With escorts I still try to intuit who they prefer to engage with (many or even most don't care). Maybe I'm too defensive, but I'm unlikely to change.

[tedbear]

A man in his 40's is what turns me on first. I'm not into twinks at all. When I was in my 20's, I was into men in their 40's and I still am. That's not to say I won't date someone older or younger, it's just that 40 is my first choice.