When is it too late to cancel appointment with escort visiting my city?

[+ Axiom2001]

Yes...In my opinion it's too late to cancel. The escort has already incurred expenses and is most likely counting on bookings to pay for his travel. Your reasons for wanting to cancel are not good ones. There is a good chance you would be impacting the escort financially, and that's unfair. If you have the resources to do whatever you want, then do the massage, pay the fee, and next time just be more sure of your choices...chalk it up to a learning experience.

 

I wholeheartedly agree with bigvalboy because six months back I had to cancel my appointment with a popular escort who had captured the interest of many of us here. At the time he had traveled to San Francisco. When I rang him, I apologetically cancelled, and during our brief conversation he relayed to me that far too many men who had scheduled an appointment had cancelled; thus it had NOT been financially worthwhile for him to have traveled to the "City-by-the-Bay"

 

I truly felt sorry for him and had definitely wanted to have met him, but during our brief conversation he mentioned that he probably would not be returning to this fantastic city anytime soon.

 

As it turns out, he's in graduate school now, and his escorting has been curtailed a great deal! I'm hoping that as the months go, he'll be back on the West Coast!

 

Since you have the funds, go ahead and keep the appointment and make the better of it. Your thoughts about "type" might change drastically!

[doitb4ugo]

Just a thought, pehaps it would work better for you if you suggested a 3-way with someone who really turns you on. The whole thing might be wicked hot!

[gallahadesquire]

It was one of Mrs. Slocomb's (not sure if I spelled that right) catch phrases.

 

Mr. Humphries (the obviously gay one, with a high tenor normal speaking voice, and a basso for the phone); Mr. Lucas (just a regular guy);

Mr. Peacock (The floor walker, ex-Army). The others probably aren't worth mentioning.

[instudiocity]

Most clients are concerned about whether the escort will satisfy them sexually. Instead, what I am hearing under your question is worry that you will not satisfy the escort sexually, because he is so fabulous and you can't perform because you are not sexually attracted to him. Believe me, fabulous professional escorts do not need to be sexually satisfied by their clients, and are accustomed to clients who can't perform, because of nerves or physical problems. Your kind of self-consciousness about your own performance is not unusual for men who are new to hiring. If he is coming to your city to keep an appointment that you have initiated, you should go through with it, and do whatever you are comfortable doing sexually when the time comes. Consider it part of your education as a client--and as a person.

Where's the damn TRIPLE LIKE button?

[curiousnomore]

Speaking for myself only: I wouldn't cancel this late. Go in with the attitude that you are trying something new. I've intentionally hired several different types of men; looks, body type, preferences (top/vers/bottom), etc. I found all of them to be attractive and fun, in their own way. Don't pigeonhole yourself. You just may find something else you like and expand your options. Good luck.

[Guest countryboywny]

You should keep the appointment. If you don't want to be intimate with him, pay him his fee and take him to lunch. Done.

[+ Italiano]

Is today the day?...

[Phil_musc]

Since $$ are clearly no concern here, I really like doitb4ugo's stylish solution. Best idea presented on this thread, IMHO.

[Indigo]

Is he flying out expressly to see you? If not, then 3 days notice is perfectly fine. Otherwise it is bad form.

[Steven_Draker]

It's better to think and weigh on these things BEFORE trying to attempt to schedule an appointment.

 

Don't go if you're only half sure you'll have a good time ... You won't !

[+ Funguy]

Doit's 3-way sounds dynamite IF you are into that - and get someone you have been with previously.

Barring that idea, it just might be possible that a "fabulous" guy might just BE fabulous and full of surprises. These gentlemen are professionals, they will know just how to put you at ease as well as show you a good time, esp. if it is who I am thinking of. (I guess a number of us are on the same wavelength. If it's not, then it should be him - a glorious time will be had!)

[Michael Wayne]

I wish everyone was as thoughtful as you are! to actually consider our feelings as escorts and consider our circumstances is appreciated. I think you should be honest with the guy. if he is a nice guy then he will certainly understand as 3 days is plenty of notice. The very last minutes cancellations are the ones that really hurt us in the biz....... @ www.rentboy.com/magicmikey