San Diego info needed and general feedback appreciated

[clarker]

I'm new to this site and find the feedback pretty cool. I've never hired an escort but I'm looking to take the dive. I read the articles on the homepage here for new people and they have been helpful. I'd like some recommendations on San Diego escorts that are cool with a nervous new 54 year old tall, somewhat overweight but not obese guy. I'm more into the younger lean swimmer twinky type up to athletic looking. Not so much into older or heavily muscled guys. I would be hosting and I'm into someone who has a head on their shoulders who could carry on a conversation before we get into kissing, body contact, oral, possible role play (escort begins by forcing me to service him, but then flips into servicing me, eventually ending in him riding my cock to completion) with some cuddling afterwards. Is this asking for too much? on a first visit, how much time should i book and any recommendations? I know this is long, but I'm new to this and would appreciate any feedback. THANKS

[rvwnsd]

clarker, check your PM

[armadillo]

When he is back in SD, you should check out Logan.

 

http://www.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=338490&type=escort

[clarker]

I read his review and he sounds great, unfortunately there's no ad right now. I'm nervous about overnights as this would be my first time with an escort

[clarker]

He looks like like exactly what I would like. That last pic of him in the chair has me wanting to go to Oslo to plant myself between those legs. Thanks for the info, I hope he comes back to SD soon, I'd certainly give him a call.

[markpaul]

+++Scottie Wade great overnight and equally great for a few hours-very reasonable prices.

[+ Gar1eth]

Just a few thoughts from someone who has been hiring for awhile now (a little over 10 years)- you obviously can disregard them totally. But I hope these give you at least a little to think about. Also it's very common on here for different Forum members to have differing views. I won't be offended if you or anyone else have different opinions than mine.

 

1. It's normal to be nervous. In some ways that anticipatory nervousness is part of the fun. Heck when I'm meeting someone new I still get nervous (although not really happening now due to financial straits). But while I have done a lot of overnights over the years with escorts I've never met before, I didn't do it as my 1st time hiring. I had already been hiring for about a year before I did my 1st overnight. In my opinion it might be better to get over the newbie jitters with a few one hour or two hour appointments before talking the plunge of an overnight or a weekend with a stranger. In fact many people on this Forum would tell you to never meet someone for an extended overnight/weekend that you haven't met before. I wouldn't go that far. But I have to tell you that while I had a good time on my most of my extended visits- I had spectacular times only around 30%.

 

2. I dont know how discreet you need to be- but especially with you being new to hiring and being nervous- why not take some of the pressure off yourself and meet at a neutral hotel. If you need to be discreet, you won't worry so much about the escort seeing things you'd prefer he didn't -and even if that's not the case- you won't have the chores of making everything spotless for your guest beforehand and then cleaning up afterward. Once you've met someone and feel comfortable with him, that would be the point I would invite him into my home. Some clients or escorts never do incalls.

 

Just some thoughts. Whatever you end up doing, my sincere wishes for a great first experience!

 

Gman

[+ Gar1eth]

When he is back in SD, you should check out Logan.

 

http://www.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=338490&type=escort

 

From Logan's ad I doubt he is going to want to end up riding the OP's tallywacker.

[Chance]

Sean is terrific

Have seen him 2x

Handsome smooth hygienic great kisser

Awesome bottom

 

http://www.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=286235&iid=141302&scid=143727915&sp=1&pos=13&locid=1399&type=escort#ath

[+ azdr0710]

welcome to the board, clarker.....

 

when that first meet comes along, have fun and don't move too fast....speak slowly, look the guy in the eye, and take it easy.....beforehand, make sure you tell him what you'd like to do and see how he responds to that....don't ramble on with endless emails/texts before the meet, but, rather, be to-the-point and honest.....don't mention money too much (before and at the meeting) and keep discussion of it separate from everything else.....if you meet with an experienced, well-reviewed guy, you can jokingly mention that you're nervous, but don't wallow in it!.....

 

keep us updated and ask away with questions!

[BigK]

I recommend Taylor. Check out my review here:

 

http://daddysreviews.com/venue/usa/california/south

[clarker]

I appreciate all the feedback from you guys, THANKS. I'll still be looking here, and let you know how it goes.

[Guest boiworship08]

I recommend Taylor. Check out my review here:

 

http://daddysreviews.com/venue/usa/california/south

 

I second that motion.

[Guest boiworship08]

From Logan's ad I doubt he is going to want to end up riding the OP's tallywacker.

 

Logan also has a bit of an attitude.