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Ask Whipped Guy for advice.

 

This is who I went to when i just got into it and he gave me quite a bit of very good information.

 

Remember, tho many do - it does not have to do with pain but, if you are the sub, simply submitting and letting the Dom take over. Discuss all that you will do ahead of time, make sure you have a safe word to use to stop the action. Trust is the most important issue. Don't just dive in but move into different things at your own pace.

 

Also, Raul G. Manzo is tremendous with this and PM or email him also for suggestions.

 

That's what makes me,

Funguy

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Ask Whipped Guy for advice.

 

This is who I went to when i just got into it and he gave me quite a bit of very good information.

 

Remember, tho many do - it does not have to do with pain but, if you are the sub, simply submitting and letting the Dom take over. Discuss all that you will do ahead of time, make sure you have a safe word to use to stop the action. Trust is the most important issue. Don't just dive in but move into different things at your own pace.

 

Also, Raul G. Manzo is tremendous with this and PM or email him also for suggestions.

 

That's what makes me,

Funguy

 

+1...Funguy has given excellent advice. Whipped Guy is extremely knowledgeable. He travels to NYC quite often and knows the ropes. (no pun intended)

 

AND +1 to Funguy's suggestion in contacting Raul. Both are excellent suggestions.

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To initially learn about BDSM I would suggest that you and your escort visit the NY Bondage Club for starters. A number of years ago I saw a now retired escort there with a client. The escort was learning the trade... and actually went on to do videos for Bound Gods. However at the time the escort was a newbie to the scene. I subsequently saw him there with a client a few years later and he was quite the pro.

 

I myself have gone there with a couple of escorts who were interested in learning more about such a scene. Granted both were already gaining knowledge but it is always interesting to be able to observe and learn from others. Depending on the particular night you might see a variety of scenes and can pick and choose what might interest you the most.

 

And yes! Raul G Manzo is quite knowledgable...

 

I will send a PM with some other thoughts.

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I have an escort I see regularly here in Manhattan. He is interested in S&M. I have no experience in this. I have agreed to find an S&M "specialist" to show us the ropes. Any suggestions? Thanks.

 

Doe Be Doe, this is a very belated response, but in case you are still looking for the right guy to teach you and your preferred escort the BDSM ropes (so to speak), you might consider Sir Kirk ( http://rentmen.com/WhosNext). He is based in Florida now, but is often back in NYC (including right now, according to his Rentmen ad). He is an entirely trustworthy guy with a serious depth of knowledge and experience in this arena. I was going to mention that he has also taught classes at The Leather Man and, when I went to get a link for that, I discovered that he is teaching a fisting class there next week (http://www.brownpapertickets.com/profile/340293). Even if fisting is not your particular interest, attending the program could be a good way to meet and talk in advance of any hiring.

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I am glad that Starbuck bumped this thread up as I completely had forgotten about it. Well let's just say that seeing Starbuck's link about Kirk triggered something in my memory banks and allowed me to put two and two together.

 

I mentioned the NYBC in my posting earlier in this thread. A while back I met Kirk there... From speaking with him it was obvious that he was quite knowledgeable regarding all aspects of BDSM. He also gave me some information regarding websites that sold various BDSM accoutrements. In addition, he had a clever setup where he was able to have his various floggers at his fingertips when doing an S&M scene. I was able to replicate that setup and am grateful for his advice. He also mentioned that he spends time in both Florida and New York City.

 

At the time I did not realze that he also gave seminars for the Leatherman in NYC. We had simply discussed the fact that we both had purchased a number of items there. However, from seeing him in action at the club and speaking with him I can attest to the fact he is a total professional and consequently I would feel quite comfortable recommending him to anyone who might be interested in exploring the various aspects of BDSM. I can also speak to the fact that he looks more buff than than the photo in the link posted above. In fact if I were able to get to NYC I would probably attend the seminar simply to met with him again even though fisting is decisively not an activity I would ever consider exploring. I certainly hope that our paths cross again in the future.

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Clearly Whipped Guy was in Dom mode with that last post or he would have said SIR Kirk ... or maybe he was trying to incite some consequences ... hard to know.

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Clearly Whipped Guy was in Dom mode with that last post or he would have said SIR Kirk ... or maybe he was trying to incite some consequences ... hard to know.

When I met him he was simply a nice guy named Kirk... I had absolutely no clue that he went by Sir Kirk. Also, I was not intimidated at all by his accoutrements as I had a few of my own at the time as well... and for the record when I go to the NYBC it's always as a DOM... ;) ;)

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Haha Bill! I've been teased (and congratulated) about this before . . . 'breadcrumbs' is my way of finding the thread again. I guess I could just put a 'watch' on it, which I've done before but still can't figure out how to do it easily . . .

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Borger, do you mean that you enter "breadcrumbs" into the search field to find any posts/threads that have interested you? Let us know ... because then, knowing you're a guy with an interest in S&M, the rest of us are going to spill a lot of "breadcrumbs" all over the Forum just to torture you. :D

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Haha Bill! I've been teased (and congratulated) about this before . . . 'breadcrumbs' is my way of finding the thread again. I guess I could just put a 'watch' on it, which I've done before but still can't figure out how to do it easily . . .

 

Thanks. I thought it was some kinky phrase I didn't know about or had not tried. Heaven forbid

 

Boston Bill

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Well I was confused as well... Or make that more confused than I normally am!!! I get it now. I think... Though I liked the idea that it might be a kinky reference! :D

 

I actually thought that it was jocular reference to the fact that the thread had taken a somewhat lighthearted small detour. :)

 

In any event, in my posting above I failed to mention that when I first met Kirk I had no clue that he also was a sometime escort. In fact, that was the furthest thing on my mind at the time and the subject never even entered into our discussion.

 

At any rate, to get this thread back on track for the OP and any others who might be interested, the guy really knows his stuff and was decked out in a black leather outfit with red trim as noted in the pics from Starbuck's links. It seems that he likes that color combo and it indeed totally works (as in looks hot) for him.

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Borger, do you mean that you enter "breadcrumbs" into the search field to find any posts/threads that have interested you? Let us know ... because then, knowing you're a guy with an interest in S&M, the rest of us are going to spill a lot of "breadcrumbs" all over the Forum just to torture you. :D

 

But, fortunately, it won't be MY breadcrumbs . . . I don't search for the word, I search my posts . . . :)

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I bumped this thread up once before and I'm doing it again -- and for the same reason -- to acknowledge Sir Kirk, an intelligent and trustworthy man, a dependable communicator and a Master at what he does.

 

Whipped Guy and I talked about him in posts 5 and 6 of this thread. Today (July 10, 2015) his first (long overdue) review is posted. It's a modest write-up, a mere suggestion of the vivid and memorable experience he can provide. Whether you're just exploring this aspect of your sexuality, or regularly tend to the needs of your inner sub, Sir Kirk will not disappoint.

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Yes, I was pleased to see the Kirk review this morning. Having met him, albeit in the non-hire situation referenced above, the pic is also quite accurate and more so than in the Leatherman link also referenced above. Having seen him in action and having spoken with him he is indeed a paragon of BDSM knowledge.

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I didn't mention this above, but when I met Kirk he was the reigning Mr. Ramrod Ft. Lauderdale, the Ramrod being the local leather bar in FTL. He subsequently competeted for the overall title of Mr. International Leather at IML in Chicago. Just another feather in his cap.

 

I mention this for the benefit of any FTL residents who might be interested hiring him! I happen to know that there are more than a few fans of BDSM who live in that fair town, a town with lots of really tough dudes from what I have heard!

 

I hope to get there some day and check things out for myself!

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