"I just assumed you BB, don't we all do it. That's not going to work out for us."

[marylander1940]

"I just assumed you BB, that's not going to work out for us".

 

That conversation just happened to a local DC escort.

 

A gentleman just called him and complimented his last review from an obese young man who lost his virginity to him in his last trip to Honolulu... Immediately after he started talking about a 3some with this young man he sees, who is also partnered to someone else (they're both cheating on each other, I guess) do their partners cheat on them too?

 

After all this talk:

 

_ Client"Are you clean?"

_Escort"Yes, because I use condoms all the time for anal, that's why I'm still clean."

_Client"I just assumed you BB, don't we all do it. That's not going to work out for us".

 

Among other things, shouldn't that have been the first question he asked the escort?

[jimboivyo]

"I just assumed you BB, that's not going to work out for us".

 

That conversation just happened to a local DC escort.

 

A gentleman just called him and complimented his last review from an obese young man who lost his virginity to him in his last trip to Honolulu... Immediately after he started talking about a 3some with this young man he sees, who is also partnered to someone else (they're both cheating on each other, I guess) do their partners cheat on them too?

 

After all this talk:

 

_ Client"Are you clean?"

_Escort"Yes, because I use condoms all the time for anal, that's why I'm still clean."

_Client"I just assumed you BB, don't we all do it. That's not going to work out for us".

 

Among other things, shouldn't that have been the first question he asked the escort?

 

 

this exchange disgusts me. folks are so fucking dumb sometimes

[Diverdan]

I agree with you jimboivyo... some things are just to bizzare to explain away...he is likely to have a very short life span, and not just because of HIV...

[marylander1940]

I agree with you jimboivyo... some things are just to bizzare to explain away...he is likely to have a very short life span, and not just because of HIV...

 

I got the same feeling, the client is a mess and not a in good way.

[Michael Wayne]

AS I have posted before BB is now an epidemic.......

[marylander1940]

AS I have posted before BB is now an epidemic.......

 

Let's celebrate Veteran's Day remaining negative, leaving money for non-preventable diseases and not abusing from our healthcare system.

[Steven_Draker]

 

Client: "Are you clean?"

 

 

I think "Are you clean?" is a message that is send to "test the waters".

 

It's wrong to assume that every escort would bareback, except if one has an active profile on BarebackRealTime that is. I wonder what message that sends to the community?

[Guest countryboywny]

this exchange disgusts me. folks are so fucking dumb sometimes

 

Whatever happened to mutual respect and tact in our conversations?? It's like that client is saying to the escort, "Hey, I'm giving you $200, I'm in control and you will do what I want.. remember, it's all about me!"

 

I abhor such attitudes.

[jimboivyo]

Whatever happened to mutual respect and tact in our conversations?? It's like that client is saying to the escort, "Hey, I'm giving you $200, I'm in control and you will do what I want.. remember, it's all about me!"

 

I abhor such attitudes.

 

there are good apples out there, but many have this exact attitude youve mentioned

 

many folks who hire escorts arent comfortable with it. it's their hangdog way of having their cake and eating it too. with that usually comes the want for total control over the situation

[bigvalboy]

Unfortunately that kind of attitude goes both ways.

[BaronArtz]

Whatever happened to mutual respect and tact in our conversations?? It's like that client is saying to the escort, "Hey, I'm giving you $200, I'm in control and you will do what I want.. remember, it's all about me!"

 

I abhor such attitudes.

 

I abhor that too. It is tactless. I have heard some real horror stories from escorts about that. I don't know how they put up with clients sometimes. That's why I don't mind being asked some pertinent questions by escorts when I hire them for the first time. It's totally understandable.

[SteveEscort]

"I just assumed you BB, that's not going to work out for us".

 

That conversation just happened to a local DC escort.

 

A gentleman just called him and complimented his last review from an obese young man who lost his virginity to him in his last trip to Honolulu... Immediately after he started talking about a 3some with this young man he sees, who is also partnered to someone else (they're both cheating on each other, I guess) do their partners cheat on them too?

 

After all this talk:

 

_ Client"Are you clean?"

_Escort"Yes, because I use condoms all the time for anal, that's why I'm still clean."

_Client"I just assumed you BB, don't we all do it. That's not going to work out for us".

 

Among other things, shouldn't that have been the first question he asked the escort?

 

Happens all the time. I am asked for bareback by email, text, phone and face to face at least once a week.

[marylander1940]

Happens all the time. I am asked for bareback by email, text, phone and face to face at least once a week.

 

Damn!

 

let's celebrate Memorial Day using condoms and avoiding getting infected! Let's do that for our country!

[+ Funguy]

November is Movember or Testicular and Prostate cancer - let's pick a month for Condom Month!

[Guest countryboywny]

Unfortunately that kind of attitude goes both ways.

 

You are correct BVB.. and therein lies the heart of the matter. In a perfect world, clients would only hire the "good guy" escort, and escorts would only see the "good guy" client.

[Steven_Draker]

Unfortunately that kind of attitude goes both ways.

 

Which attitude? The one that says: you'll do exactly what I'm telling you because I pay you?

[Steven_Draker]

November is Movember or Testicular and Prostate cancer - let's pick a month for Condom Month!

 

The month of December begins with the World's AIDS Day, raising HIV and AIDS awareness.

[justaguy]

Then December is the month. I know it's the history that's part of my age that's reacting, but I keep waiting for the shoe to drop. The medications used to treat HIV and in Prep are powerful substances. Thinking of taking them without side effects is, IMO, living in a fool's paradise.

[Guest countryboywny]

Which attitude? The one that says: you'll do exactly what I'm telling you because I pay you?

 

Yes, Steven, that is one of the attitudes that BVB was addressing. While I would never put words in BVB's mouth, I guessed that going the other way would be: Give me your money and let's get this over as quickly as possible. Disrespect goes both ways.

[bigvalboy]

Yes, Steven, that is one of the attitudes that BVB was addressing. While I would never put words in BVB's mouth, I guessed that going the other way would be: Give me your money and let's get this over as quickly as possible. Disrespect goes both ways.

 

Precisely CB...thank you for the clarification. "You took the words right out of my mouth"....