Porn. Professionally good for an escort or bad? Would you/do you hire porn stars?

[jimboivyo]

Sorry if you felt I was bitching and moaning, just meant to share the experience.

 

wasn't pointing fingers at you at all. it was more a general comment for folks who keep making the same mistakes and come here to vent

 

it sounds like you learned by the seat of your pants and now are making more informed decision. good on you!

[tom1980]

Yeah, that's just not as obvious when you first start out, especially when the reviews that are posted on Daddy's are uniformly positive, promotional crap like the Hookies suggest that these are decent guys, and the folks who had crap experiences don't post.

 

I hope you have submitted reviews to cure this problem. I also wouldn't give up on all porn escorts. However, I would suggest asking people you trust on here about specific individuals before hiring them. For example, I try to comment in 411 threads whenever I have info to share, and guys on here PM me months later to ask about guys I have commented on. If someone has commented about a porn performer you are interested in hiring, PM him. You often get more fulsome answers through PMs than in posts for public consumption (especially since reviews are not permitted in the Forum).

[+ WhamIAm]

I hope you have submitted reviews to cure this problem. I also wouldn't give up on all porn escorts. However, I would suggest asking people you trust on here about specific individuals before hiring them. For example, I try to comment in 411 threads whenever I have info to share, and guys on here PM me months later to ask about guys I have commented on. If someone has commented about a porn performer you are interested in hiring, PM him. You often get more fulsome answers through PMs than in posts for public consumption (especially since reviews are not permitted in the Forum).

 

Thanks, Tom. I've reviewed one. Not going to on the other as he has a habit of tweeting the phone numbers and email addresses of people who have wronged or annoyed him and encouraged his 50k followers to harass them. Not gonna go there. I'd like to, but I don't need any more crazy in my life.

 

Thanks again for the PM advice. I'll use it. Cheers

[Gramos]

I have hired one guy who I saw in porn. It was a disaster, because he was very bored and distracted. He left me feeling embarrassed that I had bothered (and paid) him. I won't generalize one experience. I hired another guy several times, who I LATER saw in porn. He was better in bed than on the screen, but not a star either way. I didn't call him again. I was a little turned off by his performance in the film.

[Gramos]

Self aware?

 

"Sorry for the play-by-play, and I'm not really a sensitive snowflake. But their absolute disregard for the guy they'd agreed to spend time with (at premium rates) really blew my mind."

 

It's important for providers to understand that clients are often very sensitive to the provider's mood and attitude. Small throw-away remarks have more impact than they should. I tend to like narcissistic guys (who knows why?), and I enjoy hearing them talk about how smart, skilled, whatever they are. I DO NOT like listening to them complain. And any negative remark about my performance or appearance would probably put me off hiring for a very long time. Thank goodness that hasn't ever happened, even in the lousy contacts.

 

It seems that if a guy thinks he's really some celebrity, he should probably stop taking clients...