Escort wanted to see pics before appointment

[Rey_Phx]

Hi last week I began corresponding with an escort who was brand new. I asked if he would like to meet up for an outcall. He said that he would be interested but he wanted me to send pics first. Nude pics at that. I declined to do so. I told him that I'm very shy and not the kind of person who takes nudes of myself. He insisted on face pics. I went ahead and sent a few selfies and never heard from him for the rest of the day. I kept wondering why he wanted pics and why should it matters how I look as long as I pay his rate. Anyway the next day came when I texted him told him that sent the pics and he never responded. He said he never got them which I was pretty skeptical because we both have iPhones and iMessage showed that he read my messages with the pics. He agreed to go ahead and see me that night and since he had no car asked if I can get him once he's out of work. He worked as a server at a restaurant. I said ok. I got a room and waited for him to text me when he's off. I waited for 3 hours. He said he would be off by 9pm and I waited like an idiot until 12 mid. He wouldn't answer my text nor answer my calls. The next day he text me apologizing saying that he had a migraine and took meds and slept all night. Well it would have been nice to tell me that before I booked the room after he assured me at 6pm that we were on for the night. I forgave him and asked if we can try again. He said yes. The following Tuesday I emailed him about meeting and again he asked for my pics. At that point I gave up. I never had an escort ask me for my pics before making a decision to see me. Is this a norm for some escorts?

http://www.men4rentnow.com/ds/index.asp?cmd=view&id=298505&Login=Tatboy

[Bargara Leatherboy]

Basically he is getting paid to have sex with men he finds attractive.

 

Nice work if you can get it.

[+ poolboy48220]

That's rarely a good sign. Move along. Especially if he's asked again, he probably didn't even make the connection that you were the same person.

[Steven_Draker]

Is this a norm for some escorts?

 

It is NOT the norm for experienced professional escorts.

 

Unexperienced, young escorts or those who're unsure whether they can 'perform' with a client may ask you for self pictures. However, if you're uncomfortable sending one, simply decline and move to the next.

 

 

PS: In case you're concerned about privacy you may want to look into an application called "Snapchat":

 

"Using the application, users can take photos, record videos, add text and drawings, and send them to a controlled list of recipients. These sent photographs and videos are known as "Snaps". Users set a time limit for how long recipients can view their Snaps (as of April 2014, the range is from 1 to 10 seconds), after which they will be hidden from the recipient's device and deleted from Snapchat's servers."

 

Welcome to the Board, Rey_Phx !

 

[scottspearsxxx]

No, it is not normal. Usually I will send a picture if requested, but I never ask a client for a picture. Most guys that hire me have seen me in a film or two or have checked out my website and know most things about me before we meet. Sounds like a very inexperienced guy...

[AdamSmith]

Said it before. If I'm buying, this is my face pic:

 

http://currencyguide.eu/usd-en/100usd_new.png

[marylander1940]

Said it before. If I'm buying, this is my face pic:

 

http://currencyguide.eu/usd-en/100usd_new.png

 

touché!

 

But I think client who are very overweight and want to top or bottom, should warn the escort about it.

 

I know a local escort here in DC, a few months ago someone called him and described himself as "chubby"... He was actually 300 lbs, that ain't chubby!

 

He told me he had several morbidly obese men try to fuck him and couldn't because he had to sit at the edge of the bed lifting the guys bellies and yet there wasn't enough "angle" (space) for them to reach his butt and fuck him.

 

http://janerri.files.wordpress.com/2008/06/t-shirtmission-impossible.jpg

[Atomicshawn]

Said it before. If I'm buying, this is my face pic:

 

http://currencyguide.eu/usd-en/100usd_new.png

 

Hilarious! I love that

I've only had clients volunteer photos and would NEVER ask.

[Rey_Phx]

Said it before. If I'm buying, this is my face pic:

 

http://currencyguide.eu/usd-en/100usd_new.png

 

That's exactly what I told him when he requested pics a second time. I reminded him that I was paying him and not the other way around. He never responded. I believe he is very inexperienced and unprofessional escort I ever contacted.

[JoeyBryant]

Said it before. If I'm buying, this is my face pic:

 

http://currencyguide.eu/usd-en/100usd_new.png

 

you look much better than Ben Frank. I prefer:

 

http://biggeststuff.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/100000-dollar-bill.jpg

[Epigonos]

It would be a cold day in hell when I send my photograph to escort upon his request. That request is all it would take to cause me to lose interest and move on.

[+ azdr0710]

It would be a cold day in hell when I send my photograph to escort upon his request.

 

 

http://media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/40/2b/7f/402b7fefa58824f13b3ea4dfb133f3f1.jpg

[AdamSmith]

Hah! Thank you.

 

You're right -- I was thinking too small.

 

you look much better than Ben Frank. I prefer:

 

http://biggeststuff.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/100000-dollar-bill.jpg

[+ Gar1eth]

you look much better than Ben Frank. I prefer:

 

http://biggeststuff.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/100000-dollar-bill.jpg

 

I don't believe those were ever in actual circulation. They were only for transfers of funds between banks. And now they aren't even printed anymore.

 

Gman

[k9lover]

Just don't take one of this ones...

 

http://www.freakingnews.com/pictures/7000/GEORGE-BUSH-7204.jpg

 

Now back to the issue... Client pics, thanks but I'll hire someone else.

[DannyNYC3]

I have to agree with many of the posts above. One of the main factors for me (and I would hope the escort) is discretion, I presume that is built into the price so I don't feel the need to put my pictures out there. That said, if an escort asks me what I look like or what my stats are, I generally tell them and would never lie.

[SteveEscort]

There was a guy on a local message board I often advertise on, who was looking for clients and put "Your pic gets mine" I can imagine it yielded zero response

 

Escorts should never request pictures.

[AdamSmith]

I don't believe those were ever in actual circulation. They were only for transfers of funds between banks. And now they aren't even printed anymore.

 

Specifically between Federal Reserve Banks.

 

Joey was making a sly allusion to a role-play we had one night. He was Chairman Bernanke and I was Janet Yellen.

 

Doesn't everybody have a fantasy like that?

[zeyfur]

He is a flake. There are plenty of professional escorts who will give you a good time. Don't waste any more time on him.

[BaronArtz]

I have to agree with many of the posts above. One of the main factors for me (and I would hope the escort) is discretion, I presume that is built into the price so I don't feel the need to put my pictures out there. That said, if an escort asks me what I look like or what my stats are, I generally tell them and would never lie.

 

I sort of agree with that. In fact, when hiring a new guy for the first time, I usually give him a sense of my height/weight/age so he knows what to expect. People are not machines and not everybody can 'perform' at all times. It is not a question of being 'professional' vs. 'unprofessional'. Sometimes, two people are just not compatible. It is only fair to disclose anything unusual to new hires. It could be age, a handicap, a specific fetish ... it's a nice courtesy to do that. But a picture - that may be going a bit too far. In 20 years of hiring nobody has ever asked me that, though.

 

As a footnote to this: some escorts offer a prior Skype session to facilitate a hiring decision. Keep in mind that those can be recorded (both ways). If you are concerned about confidentiality don't do it.

[nevercantell]

you look much better than Ben Frank. I prefer:

 

http://biggeststuff.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/100000-dollar-bill.jpg

 

Mmm, Wilson was a good looking guy!

[antelope]

Be wary of snapchat. You may think the image is gone forever however, it has been shown that the deleted images are merely hidden from the operating systems and are easily recoverable.

 

http://www.theguardian.com/media-network/partner-zone-infosecurity/snapchat-photos-not-deleted-hidden