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Ok Guys -- I've held my tongue for about 14 years --and am about to LOSE IT!

 

Gonna take my website down for awhile and figure out how -- or if -- to proceed. Or just to have the courage to admit defeat and move on...

 

Sorry for the rant -- just had to vent...

 

Not to worry -- I always land on my feet -- even after being knocked on my ass...

 

Will touch base when I am able to acquire some clarity.

 

Thanks for listening...

 

Dave

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So sorry to hear that, Dave. I hope everything works out. I was hoping to use your service when I'm in LA late next month (see our recent e-mail communication), but no matter what, I hope you land on your feet. This business, and the world, is indeed changing, and not necessarily for the best. Please take care.

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I think I'm missing something. What happened? Is there some back story I've not seen?

 

I'm thinking that it's just that it's harder and harder to run an agency. Rentboy, and the other major sites, along with Adam4Adam, and the social apps have made it a lot easier for guys who crave anonymity to escort. Look how many ads have faceless escorts. Another death knell to agencies might be cell phones and texting. In the old days when all you might have to rely on is a pager, it was probably easier to have so someone else receive most of the inquiries and handle settling the details. Technology has made a lot of things easier to do yourself these days.

 

If he really quits, I will miss him terribly. When I first founded his website in the nineties or early 2000's, the website was full of really muscular guy next store/N European guys- think of Corbin Fisher guys with about 5 to 8 of added muscle and life experience. I was totally closeted and never thought I would ever be able to hire or ever even have sex ( I was a total virgin). The guys on Dave's site were my goto dream guys- even more than Maximum because Maximum didnt normally show faces. And back then Dave's site did. While I had a few misses using Dave, they weren't usually his fault. And he usually tried to make it right to me. And I can't tell you how much I miss three guys I met through Dave over the years. Two of them were his 'stars' for years- Dirk from Austria and Matt Miller. There was also one other guy who while I can think of his real name, I can't think of his non-de-escort - I'll call him did. Sid and Matthew were the only escorts I remember, aside from AJ Irons, who kissed me almost immediately after meeting me. For Sid it was when we got in by ourselves into the elevator at the airport parking structure to get my car. I don't think I made a love and he basically launched himself on me. I think Matthew waited until we had driven to the hotel. It was a two room 'suite' (an embassy Suites if anyone is familiar with their layouts or is interested in knowing which hotel ). Matthew waited until we wet through the doorway of the bedroom portion, climbed up on the bed and motioned me to him. (And while not a story about non-Dave escorts- AJ - he met me at my hotel, came into the door, may have set down his backpack 1st, and then through his arms around me and we started kissing)

 

Dirk was close to being that affectionate too. And I miss all three Dirk, Matthew, and 'Sid', but especially Dirk. If Dave has to close up shop, I'm sorry he won't be around in the future to help other guys like me.

 

Gman

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Dave I wish you only the best going forward, and I hope that whatever door closes, another one opens for you. You have been nothing but a gentleman over the years, and I will always appreciate your professional and understanding attitude toward your customers. Best to you always.

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Ok Guys -- I've held my tongue for about 14 years --and am about to LOSE IT!

 

 

to me, this suggests something specific happened lately that really upset Dave

 

as the others say, I do know Dave is a good guy.....I'm sure he'll take this day by day and get thru it.....after some sort of cooling down, we'll see what Dave has to say.....

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to me, this suggests something specific happened lately that really upset Dave

 

as the others say, I do know Dave is a good guy.....I'm sure he'll take this day by day and get thru it.....after some sort of cooling down, we'll see what Dave has to say.....

 

Hmm, to me it suggests something's been going on for the PAST 14 YEARS that he's been chompping at the bits to explode about.

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Hmm, to me it suggests something's been going on for the PAST 14 YEARS that he's been chompping at the bits to explode about.

 

yes, irtwo.....you may be correct on that....but this sudden "rant" made me wonder if something specific just happened recently.....thanks

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yes, irtwo.....you may be correct on that....but this sudden "rant" made me wonder if something specific just happened recently.....thanks

 

 

Even though Dave called it a "rant" (Ok Guys -- I've held my tongue for about 14 years --and am about to LOSE IT!

 

Gonna take my website down for awhile and figure out how -- or if -- to proceed. Or just to have the courage to admit defeat and move on...

 

Sorry for the rant -- just had to vent...")

 

I would call it a form of exasperation. Apparently something major has gone wrong with his operation and he is letting us know that his facility will not be available at the present time or, perhaps, at any time in the future.

 

I never like to see a well intended enterprise close down either temporarily or permanently. Not a pretty picture.

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Dave - this would be a final blow, after Maximum, Chelsea, and Campus. You, of course, were miles ahead of them.

 

I've never been able to avail myself of your services. New England / Greater Boston is like that. But

it has always been clear that your service has been excellent!

 

I hope you pull through this period in your life. If you can continue, that would be great. If you decide

to close up shop: God speed in your next endeavors.

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