Do you ever "skype" before meeting an escort?

[McLeanspider]

I'm just wondering...

[Newly]

Seems like a great idea, but the one time I suggested it when I first started this hobby the well reviewed escort totally flaked and thought (as far as I can tell) that it was a sting or something. The funny thing is I had suggested it as a courtesy to him so that he could take a look at me and see if he was ok with me. I wasn't expecting it to be an x-rated session or a long, drawn out conversation. I didn't really care what he looked like, since I'm not that concerned with an escort's physical appearance. To be honest, with the incredible amount of fraud in escort ads if we as clients had any sense we would require a visual contact prior to the hire, at least for longer engagements. It would help the client AND the escort in avoiding embarrassing and costly mistakes where either party felt that he didn't "click" with the other. And everyone in this day and age has either skype, facetime or google+. Considering the number of out of date and totally fake pictures in ads and some escorts' reluctance to engage with clients of a certain age, ethnicity or weight I for one would consider an escort who suggested or agreed to a visual, short, non-porn meeting during the hiring process to be an escort with nothing to hide.

[+ Gar1eth]

Mark Gordon from Toronto offered it as an option, so I could see that his pictures were current before we met.

 

Gman

[McLeanspider]

Mark Gordon from Toronto offered it as an option, so I could see that his pictures were current before we met.

 

Gman

 

Is he one of your recent hires this year?

[+ Gar1eth]

Mark Gordon from Toronto offered it as an option, so I could see that his pictures were current before we met.

 

Gman

 

Is he one of your recent hires this year?

 

No from 2010. But what difference does it make when I hired him? From the pattern of your statement and questions, I think Steven Draker is very likely right about you being an alternate identity for someone else on the Forum. But whether you are an alias, or you aren't, you don't seem to be a very friendly guy.

 

Gman

[Steven_Draker]

But whether you are an alias, or you aren't, you don't seem to be a very friendly guy.

 

Gman, "unfriendly" would be an understatement. Downright stalkerish, harassing and manipulative coupled with a multiple personalty disorder.

 

Last time I checked the dictionary there was this definition next to his name: loves to proliferate the tension and drama between 2 or more feuding people/groups in public to get a raise of people in hopes of starting a shitstorm of drama and uncomfortable conflict, sometimes for personal gain but oftentimes just for the thrill of confrontation.

 

So my question to McLeanspider a.k.a. Marylander1940 a.k.a. MalcomXpark a.k.a. Frequentflyerdc a.k.a. Curtis2009 a.k.a. Pittstudforyou is why the need of six usernames??

[instudiocity]

So my question to McLeanspider a.k.a. Marylander1940 a.k.a. MalcomXpark a.k.a. Frequentflyerdc a.k.a. Curtis2009 a.k.a. Pittstudforyou is why the need of six usernames??

How do you keep six logins and six passwords handy?

Sheeesh!

[McLeanspider]

How do you keep six logins and six passwords handy?

Sheeesh!

 

Good question! My memory isn't that good.

 

Steven:

 

You seem to have a lot of free time lately? How's business?

[+ azdr0710]

Steven:

 

You seem to have a lot of free time lately? How's business?

 

 

ouch!....that was grouchy, mclean.....whatup??

[McLeanspider]

Gman, "unfriendly" would be an understatement. Downright stalkerish, harassing and manipulative coupled with a multiple personalty disorder....[/color]

 

Stop projecting, you focus on your business.

 

When was the last time you thought it was worth it coming to the USA? Too much competition lately from amateur guys on grindr maybe.

 

Juan Bruno in Vancouver welcomed those guys and you took it personal to attack them, make guys afraid of them. I've hire amateur guys on grindr and I'm glad I did, less bitchy than many escorts on here.

 

Confrontation? double name? Look who's talking...

 

Every time you reply to my postings and others, you are proving my point about you having too much free time lately to read, read again, post, search and speculate on here. BVB and KJ may not contribute again because of passive-aggressive trolls like you.

[+ deej]

It's starting to look like summer vacation may need to come early this year.

[TruthBTold]

Deej, I'm beginning to think we need a good psychologist fund.

[Newly]

For God's sake grow up. The most common complaint about escorts on this forum is that they misstate their age, looks, are flaky or what not and the only way to try to protect against wasting a lot of money is either to stick to the same old group of well known escorts or try to meet them for coffee beforehand...which still wastes a lot of time and money. We can't review non-meetings to point out no shows or flakes. This was actually a good idea of a way that clients could get some idea of who they were paying for, and would also allow escorts to avoid clients that they don't feel comfortable with, for whatever reason. If an escort refuses to Skype for a few minutes prior to setting up an appointment they've probably got something to hide. If clients refused to hire escorts that wouldn't do this, a lot of the fake ads that now exist would only fool clients who think $100 is a lot. Instead of at least discussing the pros and cons (if any) of this it has degenerated to a bunch of insults that have nothing to do with the concept. Maybe too many of us are using testosterone supplements? That or steroids are the only reason I can think of to explain this nonsense.

[Guy Fawkes]

Momma used make me go outside to play sometimes. Now that you mention it, I'm starting to think that you may have a good point. Now of course could choose to go play in the sunshine voluntarily.

 

http://www.milansomani.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/Go-play-outside1.jpg

 

It's starting to look like summer vacation may need to come early this year.

[Frankly Rich]

It's 104 outside. I'm staying in, even if the cute guys are outside.

[kjun]

Every time you reply to my postings and others, you are proving my point about you having too much free time lately to read, read again, post, search and speculate on here. BVB and KJ may not contribute again because of passive-aggressive trolls like you.

I don't know anything about you but I agree that he is a Jerk.

 

Admin note: You've been around here long enough to know better than to post a real name. Consider this your one and only warning.

[+ deej]

As a good friend of mine always says:

 

Things will get better. Or they won't.