When an escort states he is Dom.

[wisconsinguy]

So, an escort states he is dominant. I get the idea there are are degrees to this? And, does this often mean he does not like to take a sub role?

I know what I want to ask, don't know if it came out right?

[+ Funguy]

Can't answer your question, Wisconsinguy, but it sounds like you are "stepping out"! Are you asking from a BDSM point of view or just "aggressive" v. "mild"? if BDSM, ask Whipped Guy. I'm just entering that arena very slowly but deliberately.

 

I do ENVY your 2 weekends with Raul, can't wait for the review!

 

Funguy

[Juan Vancouver]

So, an escort states he is dominant. I get the idea there are are degrees to this? And, does this often mean he does not like to take a sub role?

I know what I want to ask, don't know if it came out right?

 

As it has been said before many times in this forum answering the hypothetical question of what "the escort" might mean by this or that will only bring general answers that might be right or might be wrong depending on what every single individual escort might mean when they say this or that.

 

The only way to know for sure what a specific escort means by saying a specific thing you don't understand is to ask him directly.

 

We all understand and interpret things in very different ways. Even when the things we are talking about are things that are commonly accepted as a commonly agreed terms i.e. tops, bottoms, kissing, fetish... etc.

 

For example, the question "What does it mean when the escort does vanilla only?" will have thousands of valid answers depending on whom you ask.

 

Ask him.

 

If his answer is not clear enough for you, ask him again. If he is deliberately vague or doesn't want to explain, move on to someone who will...

 

Rinse, repeat, enjoy.