Thank Yous

[bigvalboy]

When an escort treats you disrespectfully in a variety of ways they need to be told. Even after expressing myself in person, I felt the need to express myself in a well crafted email that spelled things out specifically. I only have done this twice. One guy thanked me for the advice as he had no clue he was going anything wrong... like bring late, having coffee breath, thinking of only HIS pleasure. The other guy was an obnoxious SOB... and we argued via email for a day or so. BOTH are now retired.

 

Thank you for the information. I tried that once, and it didn't go so well. Going forward, I decided that it's often best just to move on without saying anything....

[whipped guy]

Thank you for the information. I tried that once, and it didn't go so well. Going forward, I decided that it's often best just to move on without saying anything....

Well... normally that would be the case... One guy really needed some constructive criticism as there was potential there. He knew it and he took my advice. As for the other bozo... he was so pigheaded, obnoxious, and thought that he knew it all that I was not going to take any more BS from him. We had quite a fight during our session and the last thing that I did when I left was slap his butt with my backpack of tricks. I needed to go one step further, plus he had pulled the same crap with others from what I had heard. The bozo needed to be put in his place as others usually walked away timidly and gave in to him. I did it as much for the other guys as for myself... It simply had to be done... Furthermore, I never intended to see him again... Plus, he retired shortly thereafter. That was a few years ago... though perhaps today I most likely would just walk away and move on.

 

Still, I must emphasize that this is and was NOT MY NORMAL STYLE!! (See my posting above where I thank escorts even if they did not totally satisfy when I knew that they were sincere and were indeed trying their best.) However, there are exceptions to every rule.

 

I always treat escorts with the utmost respect... However respect is a two way street...

[bigvalboy]

I always treat escorts with the utmost respect... However respect is a two way street...

 

Precisely.....And I totally understand your situation at the time, and I agree 100% with how you handled it.

[down_to_business]

(1.) approximately what percentage of the time you receive a THANK YOU call, text or email from an escort you've just seen -- OR --

 

Also about 20%

 

(2.) get a RECIPROCAL THANK YOU if you've called, texted or emailed to thank them for a nice time together -- AND --

 

N/A

 

(3.) does hearing or not hearing from them after-the-fact influence your interest in hiring the same guy again?

 

If it was for a 1 hour appointment, not so much. If it were for an overnight, weekend, or longer- absolutely. I would not rehire someone who did not send some kind of acknowledgement in that situation again. In most all cases, an email from the escort to the email address I contacted him from is appreciated. If the escort texts and/or calls me without first getting my advanced ok, I would find it invasive and a negative. I would simply ask him not to contact me by any other method but email at that point and wouldn't stop hiring him because of it- unless he continued doing it against my express wishes.

 

In general I consider contact after by the escort acknowledgment that he wants my repeat business and no contact after to indicate he could care less whether or not I contact him again.

[ncc1701d]

I like this thread because I've wondered about the same thing...for me

1) 50-60%

2) always: I think if he took the time to thank me afterwards, the least I can do is reciprocate the effort/thought

3) IT depends; I am with DTB on this one. If it was an "quickie" and the interaction went so so, it may add some "brownie" points and I'll reconsider the next time; if it was for longer, then I would not again or be less likely to.

 

To qualify my answers, there are many who didn't, and only responded after I initiated the contact (for those really great experiences). So I guess for #1 it is probably as low as 20%, for which I'm glad I'm not the only one!