Passing of our friend 'Stagger' (Escorts who know him, read please)

[+ tristanbaldwin]

Tragically, 'Stagger' from this forum passed away early this weekend while enjoying strenuous outdoor activity- one of his strongest passions. I've been fortunate to watch this amazing man struggle with weight, with self confidence- and literally transform himself into something to be proud of. It isn't fair that after making such progress, that one's heart would give out...and he had the biggest of anyone I knew.

 

Just went to the zoo with him not even a month ago, after play time in DC...and I swear he never looked better. Life isn't fair.

 

 

Important!

 

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***To the Guys that know him / see him*** Please don't text or call phone, as it is currently in the hands of his friends and family, and being used to notify people saved as contacts. I was fortunate to know him and he/I by real name, so it was his family that notified me personally.****

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I cannot stress enough how much worse off this world is, for no longer having Stagger in it.

[playwrestler]

What a lovely and heartfelt post. I'm sorry I didn't know the man. And I'm sorry for your loss.

[+ tristanbaldwin]

When I say he made changes to himself that were worthy of being on 'the biggest loser' on TV- i mean he put TIME and effort, fueled by tears, starvation, misery into this transformation. Then to pass when he is just becoming able to enjoy it? That's tragedy in the god damnest Greek epic way. Like running a marathon to die within sight of the finish. Its bullshit.

[+ azdr0710]

thanks for posting this, Tristan....had PM'd with him several times and he always had helpful replies....we were on the same page....his contributions here to the forum were helpful to many.....

[bigvalboy]

Very sad news Tristan. Thanks for letting us all know. We had exchanged some very personal and sincere emails, and I had actually looked forward to meeting him someday. May he rest in peace.

[tyro]

Thank you for posting this, Tristan. He always seemed like a good guy.

T

[Diverdan]

Thanks for the post, even though it is sad news indeed. This is one of many guys who I know have died in a similar situation... it is really tragic. So, I guess the message to all of us is to enjoy life, our friend and make the best of every day we have. May he rest in peace, and thanks again for posting

DD