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seeker630 Community Regular

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What happen to Xander, I have not seen him around. I also checked his Ad on Rentboy and it is no longer there. Has he moved away and quit to business?

 

IIRC, he 'temporarily retired' from escorting for the summer because of his internship.

 

He's currently on 'time out' here - not sure if he will bother to return or not.

TruHart1 Grand Master

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Xander is an intelligent and engaging young man. I wish him good luck in a life far, far away from paranoia and bitterness.

 

+2

 

TruHart1:cool:

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-1 because of the thread

 

Ridiculous and immature.

 

"in a life far, far away from paranoia and bitterness" speaking of! less silly drama would be appreciated

 

Excuse me but I started the thread, I don’t see how it’s Ridiculous and Immature. Could you please explain?

instudiocity Mentor

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-1 because of the thread

 

Ridiculous and immature.

 

"in a life far, far away from paranoia and bitterness" speaking of! less silly drama would be appreciated

At least with Xander, we can blame his age. While with you? Maybe it's age, as well.
hornytwells Veteran

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Doesnt he mean the thread in which Xander suggested illegal practices with helix studios?/ I assumed that was the meaning. and not this thread? In other words, the poster thought Xander deserved his time out? Thats what i took it to mean?

McLeanspider Community Regular

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IIRC, he 'temporarily retired' from escorting for the summer because of his internship.

 

He's currently on 'time out' here - not sure if he will bother to return or not.

 

I think escorting while studying is a good way to get by, internships are good for experience but the pay is terrible.

McLeanspider Community Regular

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Xander is an intelligent and engaging young man. I wish him good luck in a life far, far away from paranoia and bitterness.

 

is he becoming straight? I've heard in the straight world issues are deeper.

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Doesnt he mean the thread in which Xander suggested illegal practices with helix studios?/ I assumed that was the meaning. and not this thread? In other words, the poster thought Xander deserved his time out? Thats what i took it to mean?

 

May I say that Xander always spoke up his mind unlike some escorts on here who don't get into catfight, they simply try to promote themselves while advertising on here.

 

I do recall the thread about Helix Studios but I think the most blunt contribution he made was about Jason Sparks business practices.

 

His posting is number 4.

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/showthread.php?93916-Watch-out-DC-Jason-Sparks-is-back-in-town-Buyers-beware!-Highly-un-recommendable!&highlight=xander

leigh.bess.toad Mentor

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I haven't looked for the thread, but I know that Xander announced when he started his internship that he was "semi-retiring" from the biz during that time. His absence is completely anticipated. I find it highly likely that he is becoming straight. I've seen his interactions with his bf and they were very genuine. No, he stopped "working it" to focus on his internship. Whether he comes back or not wasn't announced. But as for now, this isn't a surprise at all.

seeker630 Community Regular

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I haven't looked for the thread, but I know that Xander announced when he started his internship that he was "semi-retiring" from the biz during that time. His absence is completely anticipated. I find it highly likely that he is becoming straight. I've seen his interactions with his bf and they were very genuine. No, he stopped "working it" to focus on his internship. Whether he comes back or not wasn't announced. But as for now, this isn't a surprise at all.

 

I think you meant 'I find it highly unlikely that he is becoming straight. :)

leigh.bess.toad Mentor

leigh.bess.toad

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I think you meant 'I find it highly unlikely that he is becoming straight. :)

 

Whoa, did I screw that up. My bad. You are quite right. But it was about 3 AM. I need a good flogging.

 

Any volunteer floggers?

 

Anyone? Anyone? Bueller? Bueller?

jameswonderful Newbie

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Hi everyone,

 

I hijacked James' account momentarily to respond to this thread. While my account is on time-out, I do still hop on once in a while.

 

Yes - I have been on time-out for the thread linked earlier in this discussion. I am on time-out until January 2014. No qualms there ... Daddy and associates always do what is best for the longevity of the community.

 

The original plan was for me to complete my internship and then hop right back into escorting and continue school. As we all know - plans sometimes change. My Summer internship is currently over, and it was fairly successful.

 

About five weeks ago I received word that a large multinational was looking for a co-op with the exact skill-set and experience that I have. A co-op is kind of link an internship, but they pay is better, and its a much longer commitment: 3 semesters. I work for them for a semester, go back to school for a semester, work for them for a semester etc. etc. For all intents and purposes I am treated as a full-time employee according to the books. I just get zero benefits ;).

 

The pay is really good for an internship. The experience is more important to me, though. I'm giving the corporate world another shot ... I really do believe in my mind though that I just am not cut out to work for other people ... Other people should work for me ;]

 

My website, ads, etc. have been down - I simply cannot risk my employer finding out that I am ... eh ... "self-employed" on the side. At this point I have a contractual obligation with both my school, and my employer. Anything that goes wrong with my employer will automatically create a big headache for me with my school.

 

Chances are that I will be returning back to escorting at the end of Winter. The only way I won't be returning is if, for some ungodly reason, I happen to enjoy the corporate world more than escorting and do not want to take any risk in losing my job. And believe me ... I really enjoy escorting. Its the labor of love. When I do return I will have to be much more discrete and start blurring out my face. This is unfortunate, because my pretty face and the only thing I've got goin' for me ;).

 

Speaking of which - the ads are down, but I'm still seeing clients (albeit, not as often). I am in this weirdish-gray-in-between of being retired and not being retired. Its more of a publicity thing than anything - I just simply can't have my face out there. I'm alright with still being seen on Daddy's, though.

 

If anyone is headed to burning man, come and find me at Comfort and Joy - 7:30 & E. I'll be helping run the largest circle jerk in the US! https://soundcloud.com/aoxfordca/blackrockcirclejerk2

 

You can always email me at [email protected] if you'd like to get ahold of me.

 

admins - I won't be responding to this thread again or using James' account ... your time-out is okay with me... I just felt the need to clear up a bit of the mystery

 

Xander

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