Phone Sex Seekers Posing as Clients

[Guest ncm2169]

I'm hardly naive enough to think this doesn't happen, but I thought I'd post for what it's worth.

 

I was with an escort recently (off the clock...he asked me to take some pics of him }( ) who received his second review last week. At 6 AM on the day his newest review appeared, he received a call from a guy in NYC (212 area code)who said he would be traveling to Mpls. soon and wanted to hire the escort. All cool so far. :o

 

But the "client" kept the escort on the phone for over a half hour, intermittently weaving into the conversation what amounted to attempts to have phone sex, but also cleverly returning to "business" matters enough times before the escort woke up and realized what was really going on. x( The "client" has called the escort several more times with the same m/o, but the escort has since nicely but firmly told the "client" that when the "client" gets to Mpls., the "client" should call the escort to make arrangements. Until then, the escort will not answer the "client's" calls.

 

It got us both to wondering how many losers out there read the new reviews every day, and then start dialing just for kicks?

 

Probably a whole lot more than we'd all like to believe. x(

[giovoni]

This is probably the exact person I mentioned in another thread. He calls TJ or me everytime we get a new review and you just described what happens; or what happened the first time he called. After that TJ was clever enough to save his phone number in our cell phones as "NY Freak" so every time we get a new review we can just wait for his call and ignore it. After a few more calls he must have caught on and used a different number or blocked his caller ID. Now we have to just watch for his voice and do exactly what you described. Tell him that he's welcome to call when he's in Denver but that right now we don't have time to speak with him or have anything new to say that we haven't already.

 

He's not the only one who tries this though, just the most regular for us. I think it's just something that comes with the territory if you're an escort. A half hour is a REALLY long time to indulge someone who keeps trying to twist the subject to phone sex. If someone is giving firm dates and really trying to set something up then calls often do go that long. I would say that the first time in a call that someone is obviously trying to get off on the conversation it's time to let them know that the call is going to end.

 

Gio in Denver

http://angelfire.com/co3/massagebygio

[Bilbo]

RE: Congratulations, TJ!

 

Since it has been said several times that Gio is the geek of the family, I'd like to congratulate TJ for navigating the phone bells and whistles so adroitly.

 

There is also a service, though you may have to pay extra for it, where you can tell the phone company which exact phone numbers to never answer, BTW.

[Guest jstlooknthx]

RE: Congratulations, TJ!

 

I certainly understand this thing from the escort's angle, but DAMN I find this frustrating personally. I realize there are guys that love phone sex. I'm not one of them, and they seemed to have spoiled things for a guy like me. I can't just get turned on by an escort's pic. My chemistry with someone is much more important. My first phone call is how I find out if the guy has a sexy approach to me or not. Many escorts/masseurs are so suspicious of the 'jerkers' that guys like me can't have a decent phone call that lasts more than a few minutes. I'm not a wealthy man. I got questions! These times are a sweet luxury to me. I find the sexiest organ is the brain. This 'call me when you are ready' reply just doesn't work for me. I'm not a instant gratification, first impulse, pick up Frontiers and start dailing sort of guy. I'm not a tweaker and it's not 420 right now. I like to know who I'm dealing with.

 

This said, I do understand I may be in a very small percentage of guys that call to see if we click. I've not hooked up with many guys just because I can't get a clue who they are on the phone. Oh well like you said, I guess it comes with the territory.;(

[+ Lucky]

RE: Congratulations, TJ!

 

That's a pretty valid point of view, in my experience. I like to talk to someone to get a feel for them as well, but I don't start "sex" talk, just a general conversation for a few minutes. If a guy can't handle that, it's curtains! Once I have made the decision to hire someone for his time and company, I don't bother him with calls before the appointed time. By then, it is either going to work or it isn't!

[Guest ncm2169]

DUH! After my original post earlier today, I remembered that the exact same thing happened to another escort I reviewed last March and who was Coverboy of the Day. The first call he got was at 6 AM (Central) from a guy in NYC...same m/o...kept calling, etc.

 

Sorry, Gio, I missed your earlier thread. Maybe you & TJ (and other escorts who hear from this and similar perverts) should tell 'em that your charge for umm..."extended erotic conversations" is $2.95 per minute. "Your credit card type, number and expiration date, please, Sir?" }(

 

Lemme see...$2.95/minute = over $175/hour, and all from the comfort of your home. Hmmm...not a bad gig. Maybe I'll write myself a fake review and attach a fake pic and go into biz! :+

[giovoni]

RE: Congratulations, TJ!

 

Jstlookin,

 

I don't think you would ever have a problem being on the phone with one of us. There is a difference from having lots of questions, which everyone who is doing there homework should do, and trying to do nothing but talk about what we're wearing, if we're playing with our cocks 'right now' if we're hard, if we could tell them exactly what we want to do to them if we were there right now, if we could stick a finger up our ass while we talk so he could hear us excited, etc. As I said I don't have any problem staying on the phone with someone for 30 minutes or even longer. But when it becomes obvious that someone has no intention of scheduling, and it's really not that hard to tell - you get a feel for it pretty quickly, then it's time to wind down the call. This is quite a different thing from someone who asks plenty of questions, decides that we will not in fact click, and does not schedule. We certainly don't mind that sort of situation happening either.

 

 

Gio in Denver

http://www.angelfire.com/co3/massagebygio

[giovoni]

RE: Congratulations, TJ!

 

Alas though I'm the geek here I'm certainly not the most clever of the family. TJ is 'foxy' in just way too many ways.

 

Gio in Denver

http://www.angelfire.com/co3/massagebygio

[Guest Nashboi4hire]

I too have actually had this happen on occasion. In fact it actually happened to me this morning as I was about to leave Atlanta for home (Nashville). Except this guy actually emailed me while i was offline and left a phone number and all for me to call him, so i did. After the first few minutes of asking business related questions he started asking what i was wearing ?, whats my favorite position, etc. I could tell what he was doing because i could hear muffled heavy breathing and I could tell he was just trying to come up with questions to ask as he would hesitate between questions. Dont get me wrong I love to chat on the phone with past and potential clients as its a great way to get to know some one and to break the ice so to speak. I talk to alot of my regular clients on almost a daily basis as most of them have become very good friends. Since i wasnt in a hurry to be any where I indulged this guy, by the way the conversation ended abruptly with the "Potential" client saying, "Oh sorry I dont think I will be able to schedule any thing today",and hung up before i could say anything. At that point it was 25 minutes, sure it made me mad but I hate to be rude to any body.