Three red flags to avoid bad escorts

[Bosguy]

I agree BVB! However, sometimes doing those searches takes ya to some interesting places. Much like your drinking

 

Anyone searching any sites for companionship in a serious manner should realize that they are looking for a comporable person and expending hard earned money for this arrangement. As such, it should be done with a clear head to prevent problems for either party.

 

Boston Bill

[instudiocity]

Ssssshhhh, I will plead the 5th on that one......

BVB, I don't believe you're an alcoholic. Alcoholics attend meetings. Do you attend meetings?

[bigvalboy]

BVB, I don't believe you're an alcoholic. Alcoholics attend meetings. Do you attend meetings?

 

lol lol...Dear God no, meetings would cut into "Happy Hour"....Seriously though, Jaker27 and I were just joking, however I will on occasion have my "Mint Julep"..... perfect for those warm and humid South Florida nights. Speaking of which, "will you look at the time".......

[Bosguy]

lol lol...Dear God no, meetings would cut into "Happy Hour"....Seriously though, Jaker27 and I were just joking, however I will on occasion have my "Mint Julep"..... perfect for those warm and humid South Florida nights. Speaking of which, "will you look at the time".......

 

Alcoholism is not a subject to "joke" about and I didn't get the impression that Jake27 was joking. In addition, all alcoholics do not attend meetings--only those who admit they have a problem seeking help through meetings and other resources. This is so offensive---a very close relative of mine is going through a drinking problem and it is devastating my family. Keep your "JOKES" somewhere that don't insult people trying to deal with this issue on those that are near and dear to them

 

Boston Bill

[bigvalboy]

Keep your "JOKES" somewhere that don't insult people trying to deal with this issue on those that are near and dear to them

 

Congratulations on your promotion to moderator....feel free to PM me an let me know where my jokes would be more appropriate.......

[Bosguy]

Congratulations on your promotion to moderator....feel free to PM me an let me know where my jokes would be more appropriate.......

 

Didn't get my notification of the promotion, but I think we have enough qualified moderators. Guess you forgot. Only select people can PM you. Quality, fun, positive, real jokes are available on Jack Hammer's wonderful thread "Friday Funnies"

 

Boston Bill

[instudiocity]

Alcoholism is not a subject to "joke" about and I didn't get the impression that Jake27 was joking. In addition, all alcoholics do not attend meetings--only those who admit they have a problem seeking help through meetings and other resources. This is so offensive---a very close relative of mine is going through a drinking problem and it is devastating my family. Keep your "JOKES" somewhere that don't insult people trying to deal with this issue on those that are near and dear to them

 

Boston Bill

Alcoholism is a horrible disease. Many people suffer from the consequences of their behavior which has become an addiction and ultimately a death sentence. My neighbor just lost her sister to complications of alcoholism at age 42, leaving behind a 10 year old son. It's horrible.

 

Having said that, jokes in a anonymous public forum do not deserve your judgement nor banishment. Everyone on this forum knows someone suffering from the addictive consequences of their behavior. You've added nothing more than to number yourself among us.

 

Using a declarative statement virtually ordering us to "Keep your "JOKES" somewhere that don't insult people trying to deal with this issue on those that are near and dear to them" borders on the insane. When you overhear a conversation of which you disapprove do you yell, SHUT-UP at the participants?

 

YOU ARE NOT REQUIRED TO READ THESE POSTS. This is after all an ADULT forum. If you offended by jokes, God Himself only knows what we could post here that would satisfy you.

[tanman4u]

Of all the things I've learned in Daddy's forums (and there've been quite a few--I'm thinking of starting a separate thread about it) the Google Picture Search has been one of the better ones. I just used it for the picture of an escort that I have given positive reviews to (twice I think) here and just discovered that the picture he uses isn't him. His doesn't have a face pic, just body and dick. The ones I found online actually have face pics. Too funny. Still had a good time with him.

[instudiocity]

Of all the things I've learned in Daddy's forums (and there've been quite a few--I'm thinking of starting a separate thread about it) the Google Picture Search has been one of the better ones.

tanman4u, you are quite welcome. I'm glad to know someone found my post useful.

[N13]

 

Make that two someones. Thanks.

[Glenn1441]

All good points... a red flag for me is when an escort asks me for photos. Some escorts may defend that practice, claiming that they wish to see the person they will be meeting. And some are up front and let you know that they want to make sure there is chemistry or an attraction (in that case, the forthright honesty has to be appreciated). But the notion that clients may be partnered, married, shy/nervous, or discreet for other reasons should be fairly obvious... My best experiences have been with escorts who are very sexual and can get turned on by most if not all clients.

[instudiocity]

All good points... a red flag for me is when an escort asks me for photos. Some escorts may defend that practice, claiming that they wish to see the person they will be meeting. And some are up front and let you know that they want to make sure there is chemistry or an attraction (in that case, the forthright honesty has to be appreciated). But the notion that clients may be partnered, married, shy/nervous, or discreet for other reasons should be fairly obvious... My best experiences have been with escorts who are very sexual and can get turned on by most if not all clients.

Glenn1441, I believe you should immediately go out and have photos made of you in each of the five standard "Village People" costumes... then you could send the most appropriate one to the escort with whom you'd like to engage in business. The more paranoid they are, the further down the dance line you should go, winding up ultimately at the Policeman - just because you wanted them to know handcuffs might be necessary! LOL!

[Becket]

I have enjoyed digging around on old threads and have found one consistent "thread" in the threads. Many of us can go from reasonable to bitchy in three posts or less. (It takes me four) {Pause for sly smile.} Many of you guys are wicked funny. I am still laughing at some of the gems. Other posts are more subtle or clever in their humor.

 

I need to laugh more. So I come here with high hopes that the funny guys will not offend the powers that be and be banished to time-out island. And that when my turn to be needled comes around I'll take it knowing that nobody is trying to disembowel me or steal what's left of my manhood.

 

Guess the banter here is like being a bottom: An enjoyable experience that is sometimes a bit uncomfortable, depending upon the size of the needle.

[Glenn1441]

That's a good idea! LOL

[William]

(hot) giovanni's room: Classic example of an ad screaming red flags

 

There is a thread today about "Hot Giovanni" from Miami, who turned out to be a fake. Surprise? Not at all. Read the ad, below, which has many red flags flying:

 

1. Too good to be true: very hott photos of an unknown guy (no reviews from repeat players), for reasonable rates

2. Combined with promises that are both vague (MAKE SURE YOU ARE HAVING FUN) and extravagant

3. Poor command of English (not always a red flag, but usually is in combo with these other features)

4. TOO MANY CAPITAL LETTERS, touting an anything goes set of assurances

5. Promises: Oh no, I'm NOT ONE OF THOSE GUYS you've heard about. I'M THE REAL DEAL.

 

Sure . . . . .

 

http://www.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=305476&scid=92494233&sp=1&pos=19&locid=1442&iid=154763

[want2bwrestled]

Just stumbled onto this thread and love what I am reading. I've definitely had my share of bad experiences and now I know how to avoid some of them in the future. Keep up the posts fellas - I really appreciate it.

[MPF_1966]

For me, a huge red flag is when an escort starts asking for pictures of a potential client.

[BallerBoy]

What I simply cannot understand is why do over half of male escorts use Stolen pics, Lies and deception?

I think many of them are hoping to use the bait and switch tactic on the client. They use alluring stolen pics to book the clients, then once they meet they believe the client will be too horned up and/or intoxicated to notice fake pics were used. Either that or they believe clients will be too nice or afraid to call them out on the deception.

 

I was on a 3 day trip in Houston Tx. 2 yrs ago. I had never hired an escort before, so I was somewhat nervous yet excited. I hired a guy from Rentboy. His photos were sexy and I was interested. Instead of meeting at my hotel, I asked him to meet me at the starbucks nearby. The moment I saw him, I knew he had lied about the photos being his. I was pissed for having being lied to.. He was non responsive to my anger. Instead, he asked "what would you do to me if i were in your room right now?" I paused in shock and just looked at him silently. He then asked "don't you wanna f*ck me?" Honestly, my D*ck jumped to an immediate erection after hearing him say that. lol

 

After assessing the situation that night, I concluded that I was left with few options. He was still a 20 something with a decent body (despite using someone else's photos). So I offered him half of what we initially agreed upon and had him follow me back to the hotel. Looking back, I think he was just a club kid looking for quick cash to party and buy trendy clothes. I banged his back out that night, but i was still upset about the deceit.

 

Sorry for the long post. I'm new here, and I've found these threads invaluable! Thanks

[+ Gar1eth]

What I simply cannot understand is why do over half of male escorts use Stolen pics, Lies and deception?

I think many of them are hoping to use the bait and switch tactic on the client. They use alluring stolen pics to book the clients, then once they meet they believe the client will be too horned up and/or intoxicated to notice fake pics were used. Either that or they believe clients will be too nice or afraid to call them out on the deception.

 

I was on a 3 day trip in Houston Tx. 2 yrs ago. I had never hired an escort before, so I was somewhat nervous yet excited. I hired a guy from Rentboy. His photos were sexy and I was interested. Instead of meeting at my hotel, I asked him to meet me at the starbucks nearby. The moment I saw him, I knew he had lied about the photos being his. I was pissed for having being lied to.. He was non responsive to my anger. Instead, he asked "what would you do to me if i were in your room right now?" I paused in shock and just looked at him silently. He then asked "don't you wanna f*ck me?" Honestly, my D*ck jumped to an immediate erection after hearing him say that. lol

 

After assessing the situation that night, I concluded that I was left with few options. He was still a 20 something with a decent body (despite using someone else's photos). So I offered him half of what we initially agreed upon and had him follow me back to the hotel. Looking back, I think he was just a club kid looking for quick cash to party and buy trendy clothes. I banged his back out that night, but i was still upset about the deceit.

 

Sorry for the long post. I'm new here, and I've found these threads invaluable! Thanks

 

I haven't found it's that many in my hiring. But then I don't usually go with unknown guys. I have- but in most of those cases, they've had clear pictures including facial pictures. Earlier in my hiring career I hired a few guys who wouldn't show their face- and I was usually disappointed. So in general unless the guy is well-reviewed, I won't hire a guy who doesn't have clear pictures.

 

Gman

[discreet]

I've had a recent case on pictures. So I know a lot of escorts use fake photos, well, for various reasons, but I think you can summarize it into two: "bait&switch" because it's kinda like one time thing and they are expecting you to go on once you meet (we can, as a collective group change it if you reject those cases and review). The second one is being discreet. Not every escort is comfortable with sharing their face pictures with random guys from online. I understand that probably because my main reason to hire someone is exactly this. (on this note, I never hire anyone who actually asked for my photos, just an instant no). So recently, contacted an escort who claimed he cannot share face pictures. Now what do I do? Which one is better: Fake photos vs potentially honest no photos? Either way there is a high chance of disappointment in the end because I have to travel to him just to realize he was not my type or have someone to my place and have to deal with "oh hey I am not hiring you because you are not my type or you are fake"