Both in Oral, Neither in Anal

[12is12]

Hi Guys,

 

In responding to the "Are you a top or a bottom?" thread, Travis69 gave the above answer. I'm the same, but apparently unlike him - I still haven't come to terms with this situation. I feel that I'm missing out a lot of fun, and that perhaps something is wrong with me that can be fixed. I tried both, and just didn't enjoy the feelings...

Also, one can't get a lot of action (not talking about escorts here) if you're honest and disclose in advance there won't be any anal activity.

:-(

 

Any thoughts?

 

Thanks

[maninsoma]

My thoughts are that you shouldn't worry about "missing out" as long as you're enjoying what you're doing. Not everyone has to like everything. The only caveat I'd add is that sometimes one finds oneself open to new experiences simply because of inexplicable chemistry with another person (and, no, I'm not referring to drugs), so I wouldn't necessarily assume that you're never going to enjoy anal sex. I rarely enjoy topping yet have found myself with a few guys who just "flipped my switch" in the right way that I really enjoyed fucking them.