Unreliability

[dcguy20]

I thought I would address this issue on this particular board. There is a well reviewed escort who visits DC a couple of several times a year and I have seen for 3 years or so. The last 6 months have been very dicey though. I've made appointments with him, and then shortly before making his trip to DC, cancels as he's had a change of travel plans (that happened 3 times). My latest experience was that he finally made it to DC and I had scheduled an appointment a few days before his trip. Well 2 hours before said appointment, he texts me and says he's running behind and wanted to make my appointment for later. Granted he was very apologetic and even acknowledged the previous cancellations, but I couldn't meet with him later. As usual, he promised he'd be back in town and would like to see me. The chemistry with him has been excellent. I realize some things come up, but I am more or less resigned to no longer seeing him. Too much unreliability.

 

My question to escorts: Have you done this thing to any of your clients in the past, and if so, what do you do to make it right?

 

Thanks.

[+ Cash4Trash]

Often a visit to a city depends upon an anchor client who has scheduled a 2 day or more appointment. If that falls through then the trip does not make any economic sense and the escort fears losing money.

[MiamiLooker]

I thought I would address this issue on this particular board. There is a well reviewed escort who visits DC a couple of several times a year and I have seen for 3 years or so. The last 6 months have been very dicey though. I've made appointments with him, and then shortly before making his trip to DC, cancels as he's had a change of travel plans (that happened 3 times). My latest experience was that he finally made it to DC and I had scheduled an appointment a few days before his trip. Well 2 hours before said appointment, he texts me and says he's running behind and wanted to make my appointment for later. Granted he was very apologetic and even acknowledged the previous cancellations, but I couldn't meet with him later. As usual, he promised he'd be back in town and would like to see me. The chemistry with him has been excellent. I realize some things come up, but I am more or less resigned to no longer seeing him. Too much unreliability.

 

My question to escorts: Have you done this thing to any of your clients in the past, and if so, what do you do to make it right?

 

Thanks.

 

 

Do you really think you’re going to get responses from escorts admitting to cancelling several appointments (at least one cancellation at the 11th hour) with the same client and then wanting to negotiate with the client to reschedule?

[Juan Vancouver]

Do you really think you’re going to get responses from escorts admitting to cancelling several appointments (at least one cancellation at the 11th hour) with the same client and then wanting to negotiate with the client to reschedule?

 

I was wondering the same. =)

[jawjateck]

A great first meeting is no guarantee that the second or third meet (or attempted meet) will be equally great. When a provider is no longer fun or it's too much work or trouble to set up meetings, I move on. It's not difficult to do, because while I am on friendly terms with most escorts I meet, I'm not hung up on any of them. I wonder if a client's unwillingness to cut ties when things just aren't good anymore is because lust turned into feelings for the provider that the client has trouble exorcising.

 

It sounds like you have come to the wise conclusion, so start looking for the next great hire.

[+ ArVaGuy]

This happened to me with a guy I'd seen several times in the past. We scheduled another session on his next visit and he cancelled again the morning of our appointment. Rather than be upset about the two cancellations, I look on the situation as the escort just saved me several hundred dollars. No use fretting over an encounter that may not have lived up to past experiences. However, I've made no effort to see him again.

[Steven_Draker]

Cancellations come from both sides: clients and escorts. A professional escort would offer a compensation or an offer to make it up if he has wronged the client. But really, after three times, I'd drop it, dcguy.

 

Now if you're telling me that you're masochist, you can try and go for #4 ...

 

A great first meeting is no guarantee that the second or third meet (or attempted meet) will be equally great.

 

It depends on one's own attitude. In many cases the second or third time with a sexual partner are much greater (in my experience).

[ErieBear]

Cancellations come from both sides: clients and escorts. A professional escort would offer a compensation or an offer to make it up if he has wronged the client. But really, after three times, I'd drop it, dcguy.

 

Now if you're telling me that you're masochist, you can try and go for #4 ...

 

 

What kind of compensation do you think an escort should offer if they cancel?

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

I wonder if a client's unwillingness to cut ties when things just aren't good anymore is because lust turned into feelings for the provider that the client has trouble exorcising.

 

Fortunately, I've not run into this situation, so I thought how I would handle such a situation. I'm sure there are times when someone is shy and it takes a while to build up to calling the new guy (yes, I'm raising my hand), so staying with the unreliable is the easy thing to do.

[RockCreekRunr]

Peculiarly, I've had a strikingly similar experience with an escort that regularly visits here. He didn't seem like a flake at all the first couple of times we met. The chemistry was there, the sparks flew, the sex was incredible. Fast-forward six months and I reserved time in advance with him the next time he's in town and he canceled at the last minute with a plausible explanation. I agreed to re-schedule two days later (his last day in town). And he cancelled again! I really liked this man and we totally clicked in bed, but ultimately I decided the drama (and his lack of respect for my time/schedule) wasn't worth it. So, I didn't bother scheduling with him the next time, despite his multiple email messages and texts reminding me he was returning to DC. I've moved on other more reliable hotties now and have no plans to re-hire him, but I still hope he gets his act together since he originally seemed like a very nice, sincere, quality guy.

[+ dupontversDC]

Peculiarly, I've had a strikingly similar experience with an escort that regularly visits here. He didn't seem like a flake at all the first couple of times we met. The chemistry was there, the sparks flew, the sex was incredible. Fast-forward six months and I reserved time in advance with him the next time he's in town and he canceled at the last minute with a plausible explanation. I agreed to re-schedule two days later (his last day in town). And he cancelled again! I really liked this man and we totally clicked in bed, but ultimately I decided the drama (and his lack of respect for my time/schedule) wasn't worth it. So, I didn't bother scheduling with him the next time, despite his multiple email messages and texts reminding me he was returning to DC. I've moved on other more reliable hotties now and have no plans to re-hire him, but I still hope he gets his act together since he originally seemed like a very nice, sincere, quality guy.

 

 

PM me with details, i'm wondering if this isn't a guy I've had a similar experience with in DC.