Do you have any sexual tips/techniques/ideas you'd like share?

[Decatur Guy]

I like to hear what kinds of things escorts and clients like to do. I'll offer one to get the ball rolling. Try this sometime:

 

You're getting your dick sucked. It's a good blow job. When you're good and hard, tell your cocksucker to pull off just for a second. Ask him to go very, very slowly back down about halfway on your cock. And just hold it there. No sucking. No moving. No tongue-flicking. No swallowing of built-up saliva. Lips wrapped fully around at the halfway point. Just hold your cock stationary in his mouth, until you tell him to move.

 

And then wait.

 

And wait.

 

And wait.

 

Trust me -- it's a very wild feeling. Exquisite and almost tortuously good. It takes great restraint on the part of the guy getting sucked not to move his hips or push the guy's head down. And it gets more and more difficult for the guy who's sucking to hold that cock completely stationary halfway in his mouth. The longer it goes on, the more intense it becomes. If you're the one sucking, it becomes increasingly difficult physically and mentally to just hold the cock in place. It's hard because you have to hold your tongue kind of funny and curled up with half the cock in there. The tongue gets tired. Your mouth literally starts to twitch. And there's just something that works on you mentally about letting a guy's cock just rest there in your mouth. And if you're the one with the cock in the guy's mouth, you just feel like a king.

 

Eventually, the cock will start jumping at the smallest change -- the merest tiny flick, the tiniest bit of suction. And that just feeds on itself. If the cock jumps, it creates another unintentional flick. That may create another jump. Challenge yourselves to make it last five minutes. I bet you can't.

 

Any of the rest of you have any kissing techniques, rimming techniques, fucking techniques, something kinky, etc., that you like?

[bigvalboy]

I like to hear what kinds of things escorts and clients like to do. I'll offer one to get the ball rolling. Try this sometime:

 

You're getting your dick sucked. It's a good blow job. When you're good and hard, tell your cocksucker to pull off just for a second. Ask him to go very, very slowly back down about halfway on your cock. And just hold it there. No sucking. No moving. No tongue-flicking. No swallowing of built-up saliva. Lips wrapped fully around at the halfway point. Just hold your cock stationary in his mouth, until you tell him to move.

 

And then wait.

 

And wait.

 

And wait.

 

Trust me -- it's a very wild feeling. Exquisite and almost tortuously good. It takes great restraint on the part of the guy getting sucked not to move his hips or push the guy's head down. And it gets more and more difficult for the guy who's sucking to hold that cock completely stationary halfway in his mouth. The longer it goes on, the more intense it becomes. If you're the one sucking, it becomes increasingly difficult physically and mentally to just hold the cock in place. It's hard because you have to hold your tongue kind of funny and curled up with half the cock in there. The tongue gets tired. Your mouth literally starts to twitch. And there's just something that works on you mentally about letting a guy's cock just rest there in your mouth. And if you're the one with the cock in the guy's mouth, you just feel like a king.

 

Eventually, the cock will start jumping at the smallest change -- the merest tiny flick, the tiniest bit of suction. And that just feeds on itself. If the cock jumps, it creates another unintentional flick. That may create another jump. Challenge yourselves to make it last five minutes. I bet you can't.

 

Any of the rest of you have any kissing techniques, rimming techniques, fucking techniques, something kinky, etc., that you like?

 

LOL...nothing to share, but I anxiously await the feedback....Great thread that you started here.

[gallahadesquire]

Let the butter or Crisco come to room temperature

[KentuckyBoy]

This is kinky for me, but I always wanted to tell someone.

 

I was with a good friend and former escort who is a total top and who knew thaI liked water sports. He told me that he needed to piss and told me to get on my knees and close my mouth tight around his cock and don't suck. I did as he said. He held my head firmly so I could not back away and then he let go with a warm and long stream of piss as I swallowed rapidly and repeatedly to keep up with the flow. It was very erotic.

[Xander]

99% of the time, deep throating me is painful and I don't enjoy it.

 

Good blowjobs are done with the use of the hands ... the rest is mostly just putting on a good performance (eye contact, slurping, etc)

 

Also, ramming my head down your cock to choke me is a good way for me to start gagging ... not my particular cup of tea.

 

Whenever it comes to intimate contact ... KNOW WHERE YOUR BODY WEIGHT IS. If you're on top of someone, put your weight on your hands, your elbows, your knees -- anywhere but right on the person to squish them and make it hard to breathe. Some guys like being that close, I get that - but I've had a hard time breathing on a few occasions because I'm being smothered.

 

I think you can tell how good an escort is by how well they can unbutton clothings/take off belts of all variety without it phasing them as they passionately kiss you.

 

Oh, and music can make or break the experience. I *always* have music on in the background when I have clients over. It helps me set the mood I go for.

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[bigvalboy]

Outstanding video, and very erotic music...loved it!!

[+ Travis69]

Whenever it comes to intimate contact ... KNOW WHERE YOUR BODY WEIGHT IS. If you're on top of someone, put your weight on your hands, your elbows, your knees -- anywhere but right on the person to squish them and make it hard to breathe. Some guys like being that close, I get that - but I've had a hard time breathing on a few occasions because I'm being smothered.

 

 

So true and also be careful with your partners testicles, especially if in a cock ring. Some positions can put too much pressure and not be good at all!!!!

[+ Travis69]

I think some mild bondage can be very erotic. Perhaps restrain their hands and give them a BJ. When a person is restained they have to mentally enjoy the excitement as they have no choice. Takes away any quilt of receiving pleasure which some people have.

[+ Archer]

99% of the time, deep throating me is painful and I don't enjoy it.

 

Good blowjobs are done with the use of the hands ... the rest is mostly just putting on a good performance (eye contact, slurping, etc)

 

Also, ramming my head down your cock to choke me is a good way for me to start gagging ... not my particular cup of tea.

 

Thank you for saying this, Xander! I too find it very painful when someone tries to deepthroat my cock. Also, a guy ramming my head down on his cock is going to end up badly for him. Either I will vomit all over him or bite his dick off.

[Phil_musc]

Interesting thread - keep those comments coming, guys. Xander, while I kinda liked the video, what exactly is the mood you would seek to create with this music? The percussion track is sort of erotic and sexual, but there is no discernible tune or harmony. To me it would totally recede into th background and be ignored - just wallpaper music (IMHO)

[seeker630]

99% of the time, deep throating me is painful and I don't enjoy it.

 

Good blowjobs are done with the use of the hands ... the rest is mostly just putting on a good performance (eye contact, slurping, etc)

 

Also, ramming my head down your cock to choke me is a good way for me to start gagging ... not my particular cup of tea.

 

 

 

 

Thank you for saying this, Xander! I too find it very painful when someone tries to deepthroat my cock. Also, a guy ramming my head down on his cock is going to end up badly for him. Either I will vomit all over him or bite his dick off.

 

 

All of this demonstrates that what works for one person doesn't necessarily work for others. Being deep-throated is almost a requirement for me - and something I always discuss beforehand, because if the escort isn't comfortable with it, then I'm not either. Luckily, some guys have almost no gag reflex or are even are turned on by a little gagging/choking. With my regular, I like to put my cock ALL the way down his throat and hold it until he's on the verge of choking before pulling out - and he loves it!

 

 

I think some mild bondage can be very erotic. Perhaps restrain their hands and give them a BJ. When a person is restained they have to mentally enjoy the excitement as they have no choice. Takes away any quilt of receiving pleasure which some people have.

 

I have too many control issues to allow myself to be restrained, and tying someone else up hasn't appealed to me since I did a few sessions with a college kid before he let slip that it was his way of dealing with the guilt of having sex with men.

[Sparky12]

I love to rim, and I've never has any complaints about my skills; more like raves. I start licking that area between his balls and inner thighs, and then segue into a nice slow blow job. More teasing than trying to get him to shoot though. Then I help him to get on all fours and lick from his balls up to his ass crack. His hole is right in front of my face and now it's time to take advantage of that, working slowly at first and gradually picking up the pace as his hole relaxes. Key part: Spit on my hand and gently pull his cock back between his legs. Skin is nice and tight, but not far enough to cause any discomfort. Hold the top of his dick with your hand and play with the underside using your thumb, making sure to lightly tease his cock head with your thumb. I've had guys throw their heads into the pillows over this.

[bigvalboy]

I love to rim, and I've never has any complaints about my skills; more like raves. I start licking that area between his balls and inner thighs, and then segue into a nice slow blow job. More teasing than trying to get him to shoot though. Then I help him to get on all fours and lick from his balls up to his ass crack. His hole is right in front of my face and now it's time to take advantage of that, working slowly at first and gradually picking up the pace as his hole relaxes. Key part: Spit on my hand and gently pull his cock back between his legs. Skin is nice and tight, but not far enough to cause any discomfort. Hold the top of his dick with your hand and play with the underside using your thumb, making sure to lightly tease his cock head with your thumb. I've had guys throw their heads into the pillows over this.

 

Damn now that was hot!!! I needed a cigarette after reading that little post.

[robberbaron4u]

Bubblegum.

[bigvalboy]

Bubblegum.

 

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[robberbaron4u]

Miss Bankhead has gone cold and I ain't tellin' but I am working on that memoir. . .

[bigvalboy]

Miss Bankhead has gone cold and I ain't tellin' but I am working on that memoir. . .

 

;)....I shall require a "signed" copy.

[Xander]

Interesting thread - keep those comments coming, guys. Xander, while I kinda liked the video, what exactly is the mood you would seek to create with this music? The percussion track is sort of erotic and sexual, but there is no discernible tune or harmony. To me it would totally recede into th background and be ignored - just wallpaper music (IMHO)

 

Kind of what I'm going for -- its in the background and not intruding. I have a heightened emotional connection to music, so it doesn't fade into the background for me. In fact, on my sound system i turn down the treble so that it will fade into the background more.

 

Oh, and my roommate knows that if he hears that kind of music and for some reason I wasn't able to get a hold of him, it means DON'T COME IN -- its worked perfectly so far for us

 

Mood I'm going for? 5% dark 40% sensual 55% erotic

 

[video=youtube;ohDDxCdm9Oo]

[Phil_musc]

I've had guys throw their heads into the pillows over this.

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Is that a good thing? Maybe it's an attempt at suicide - a self-smothering kind of response. Think Richard III and the boys he supposedly killed to become king.

[Sparky12]

Yes it's a very good thing. Only problem is that sometimes it would make it HARD to move into the next phase!