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Ok, folks. Though I've been out here for some time, enjoying the discussions, advice, pictures, and other joys of this site, for various reasons (mainly financial) I have not really ever taken the plunge and hired an escort. (Well, I did have one experience last summer, but he was dreadful, and we'll leave it at that.)

 

This afternoon that all changes - I am meeting an escort who has been well-reviewed on this site, and someone in fact that I thought may have been out of the biz and was afraid that I had missed my chance with. I took my chances and emailed him last week to find out that he was still very much in the game, and available. It's someone I've been fantasizing about for a few years now, and I'm very excited to finally make those fantasies come true.

 

I'm nervous, but in a good way - I feel like this is someone I can really trust, and who really gets what it is that I want - we've exchanged some detailed messages about how I would like to spend our time (including details of fetishes, kinks, and fantasies), and he has been both gracious and supportive of everything - including gladly going out of his way to prepare for one of my fetish desires. So I have no doubt that this will be a wonderful session - still, understandably, I'm nervous. Hopefully I will get some sleep tonight, lol, and I have already planned to make good use of my nervous energy in the morning by doing some cleaning/straightening up around the apartment. (Hell, I have to do it anyway, why not take advantage of the fact that I'm going to want to keep active instead of thinking about things too much, lol?)

 

I do plan on posting a review, but I'm sure I'll hint out here as well if indeed this turns out to be the experience I've hoped for, as I tend to imagine it will be. (If not, I'll take it in stride, but I'm betting it will be good, lol.) At least after this I won't be so hesitant to consider hiring (I already have my eye on one or two other Boston escorts, lol), even if I know that I can't afford to do it TOO much, lol.

 

So - just wanted to share this with everyone out here, and I actually want to thank this community in general for helping get me comfortable with the idea of hiring. I don't know that I'd feel nearly as excited and guilt-free about it if this community of escorts and clients hadn't been here to say, in many ways, that it's all ok. ;-)

 

I'll be sure to let you all know how it goes...if indeed I survive what could be a very intense hour, lol...;-)

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I hope you were able to sleep last night and that you will enjoy a great session later today. I hope it meets (even exceeds) your expectations, which I hope are realistic. In many ways, you are fortunate as you will likely remember this as the first of many (excluding the past bad experience). I am such a slut that I honestly can't remember my first hire or even how it went so many years ago. I do remember how nervous I was though.

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UPDATE:

 

It seems that, unfortunately, paradise is going to have to wait. The escort just called me to apologize that he can't meet today due to a back injury he seems to have gotten from moving furniture yesterday. We talked - he seemed very apologetic and did reassure me that he still wants to meet and that the scenario I proposed to him is "right up his alley." I have no reason not to believe him, especially given that I tend to believe he's an honest guy. Though I have to admit a little part of me is wondering. But he did say we should keep in touch and plan for a future meeting. So we'll see.

 

In the meantime, all the emotional prep I went through for this meeting is all still good, as far as I'm concerned - whether I meet this guy first, or at all, is yet to be seen - but I feel now that I'm ready to explore hiring in general. So, it's all good. I'm bummed not to have my fantasy session with my hot, sweaty all-star baseball stud today (that was the gist of it, lol), but hopefully he's just on the DL for a short time, and we'll play ball soon. ;-)

 

And at least I got some stuff done around the apartment, lol.

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UPDATE:

 

It seems that, unfortunately, paradise is going to have to wait. The escort just called me to apologize that he can't meet today due to a back injury he seems to have gotten from moving furniture yesterday. We talked - he seemed very apologetic and did reassure me that he still wants to meet and that the scenario I proposed to him is "right up his alley." I have no reason not to believe him, especially given that I tend to believe he's an honest guy. Though I have to admit a little part of me is wondering. But he did say we should keep in touch and plan for a future meeting. So we'll see.

 

In the meantime, all the emotional prep I went through for this meeting is all still good, as far as I'm concerned - whether I meet this guy first, or at all, is yet to be seen - but I feel now that I'm ready to explore hiring in general. So, it's all good. I'm bummed not to have my fantasy session with my hot, sweaty all-star baseball stud today (that was the gist of it, lol), but hopefully he's just on the DL for a short time, and we'll play ball soon. ;-)

 

And at least I got some stuff done around the apartment, lol.

 

Have you thought about hiring someone else on the fly, since you have the bee in your britches?

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Have you thought about hiring someone else on the fly, since you have the bee in your britches?

 

The easy answer is, yes I have. ;-)

 

The better answer is, to borrow (and revise) a quote from the musical Company - "you have to want to hire SOMEbody, not just someBODY." (Originally, of course, the verb was "marry" not "hire" lol.) Yeah, I'm horny, and yeah, there are a few people (one of whom frequents this board) that I'm interested in, but I don't think I'm going to jump on this right this second, despite the urge. But soon, I predict...;-)

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The easy answer is, yes I have. ;-)

 

The better answer is, to borrow (and revise) a quote from the musical Company - "you have to want to hire SOMEbody, not just someBODY." (Originally, of course, the verb was "marry" not "hire" lol.) Yeah, I'm horny, and yeah, there are a few people (one of whom frequents this board) that I'm interested in, but I don't think I'm going to jump on this right this second, despite the urge. But soon, I predict...;-)

 

Well don't overthink it—but spend wisely. You don't want to be another three years down the road posting that you found someone else to book.

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Well don't overthink it—but spend wisely. You don't want to be another three years down the road posting that you found someone else to book.

 

Indeed. I've already decided that this summer, as I have more free time than usual, and don't have to be in a rush over anything, I want to try hiring a few times. So it'll happen...;-)

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Hmmmmm, I suspect "Moving Furniture" has now become a code ???

 

Well, of course, there's a part of me that suspects that as well - it wouldn't be surprising in general. But even without really knowing this guy, I find it tough to believe that he would have used a cheap excuse instead of being more honest if indeed he suddenly felt he just couldn't meet me, period. Maybe I'm too trusting - maybe not. We'll have to see...

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Well, of course, there's a part of me that suspects that as well - it wouldn't be surprising in general. But even without really knowing this guy, I find it tough to believe that he would have used a cheap excuse instead of being more honest if indeed he suddenly felt he just couldn't meet me, period. Maybe I'm too trusting - maybe not. We'll have to see...

 

Never ASSUME or discount anything.... Most of the time there is no rhyme or reason as to WHY people do and say what they do, especially when its NOT face to face. Time will tell.

One thing is fer sure: EVERYTHJING is a learning experience !

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I will admit to my curiosity being piqued though.

 

And you're not the only one, lol. I've gotten several messages from Boston-area guys curious to know who I was going to be meeting with. I didn't really have a reason to not say who it was from the start, except that i thought discretion was classier, lol. But I'm willing to tell, if people feel it's appropriate...;-)

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And you're not the only one, lol. I've gotten several messages from Boston-area guys curious to know who I was going to be meeting with. I didn't really have a reason to not say who it was from the start, except that i thought discretion was classier, lol. But I'm willing to tell, if people feel it's appropriate...;-)

 

since it was Fathers Day, he coulda just said he spent the day with his dad, and hurt his back playing softball..... :D

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