NYC: Any one ever hire 'PAUL?'

[Glenn1441]

Any direct experience with him, anyone?

 

http://www.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=309156&scid=73248188&sp=1&pos=1&locid=1569&iid=157243

[citylaw1]

Paul has posted Rentboy ads over the past couple of years, intermittently, and I've exchanged texts with him. Each time I contact him via his newly posted ad, he asks for my stats and photos. I reply that not only is discretion of the utmost importance for many if not most clients (some married, in relationships, others well-known, etc.), but, as an escort, he seems to be approaching the business as if he's searching for dates on Match.com. In response, he replies that he merely wishes to 'see' who it is he will be dealing with.

Well, while screening clients to some extent is necessary, asking for photos sends a distinct message, at least to me, a seasoned client of escorts.

His texts regarding sexual interests also support the idea that he perhaps feels being an escort is glamorous, or that he is desirable and 'wanted' as the focus is on his sexual interests, not mine.

Finally, I saw his general profile on bbrt.com (not as an escort, but a member), a bareback site. That's fine. But he seems confused regarding his interest in 'piggy' sex... He lists himself as 'versatile,' and his status as 'negative,' and requires any partner to be negative.

Well, difficult for me to respect that since anyone who engages in bareback sex cannot trust a partner's negative status as certain. Screening potential partners for bb sex based on the fact he tells you he's negative? Really?

Kid seems confused, in general. Shame too, as I find him sexy, and apparently, he lives in my neighborhood.

Any direct experience with him, anyone?

 

After all of this you're interested in "direct experience?" I think you know everything that you need to know. Fish=Sea.

[Glenn1441]

Rarely does my intuition let me down, but I have had discussions with several escorts, in the past, that left me 'cold,' only to find they've received several excellent reviews, etc. No harm in 'checking' one self.

[jjkrkwood]

Rarely does my intuition let me down, but I have had discussions with several escorts, in the past, that left me 'cold,' only to find they've received several excellent reviews, etc. No harm in 'checking' one self.

 

The Escort / Client Handbook will tell you that even "glowing" reviews WILL NOT guarantee a successful and satisfactory session for YOU. The session will actually be based on the chemistry between the partners, and while one client may have had Great chemistry with the hire, you may NOT. Reviews should be used as guides only. Your gut feeling is a way better

source.

[Glenn1441]

My original post asks whether or not any men here have hired Paul. I'm not looking for admonishments.

[jjkrkwood]

My original post asks whether or not any men here have hired Paul. I'm not looking for admonishments.

 

OH! you'll do well here !

[Glenn1441]

LOL... True, that. Just edited the original post down to the bare-bones

[citylaw1]

My original post asks whether or not any men here have hired Paul. I'm not looking for admonishments.

 

Rarely are questions answered here. This forum is reserved for bitching, admonishing and escort worship

[Glenn1441]

Yes, I can see that. For my part, I admit that, in spite of many years experience hiring escorts, I sometimes become overly intrigued with a particular escort, with the hope my gut reaction to any initial interaction is wrong. Rare I become overly intrigued, but, I admit that's the case here.

[jjkrkwood]

Thats untrue and unfair, however the people asking the questions often dont like the answers they receive and dismiss them. It would be way easier, and save all the bitching if the person asking the question TOLD us the answer they WANTED and be done with it. But if you kiss alot of asses, you'll do just fine here.

[jjkrkwood]

Yes, I can see that. For my part, I admit that, in spite of many years experience hiring escorts, I sometimes become overly intrigued with a particular escort, with the hope my gut reaction to any initial interaction is wrong. Rare I become overly intrigued, but, I admit that's the case here.

 

Rarely is client "intrigue" satisfied by member input. Just spend the money and see for yourself.

[citylaw1]

Any direct experience with him, anyone?

 

http://www.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=309156&scid=73248188&sp=1&pos=1&locid=1569&iid=157243

 

I never met him personally, but I remember some guy named Glenn1441 dishing some dirt that steered me away form the hire. He mentioned:

 

1. He was indiscreet.

2. He treated his business as if he was on http://www.match.com .

3. He asked for client photos, as if he was arranging a date. This seemed a little self serving to Glenn.

4. He was focused on himself, and self interests, rather than the client. Too much so for Glenn's taste.

5. He practiced bareback sex, yet insisted on his clients being HIV negative. This seemed odd to Glenn, and he wondered "how could this be?"

6. Glenn was very confused over this escort's apparent interest in "piggy sex," and nearly floored to find that this guy wasn't interested at all??

7. Glenn found it "difficult to respect him" based on his all around irresponsible behavior and bi polar outlook on his profession, so much so that Glenn even suggested that this guy was in it for himself, not the client.

[Glenn1441]

Lesson learned. No more forum participation for me. Bitter queens.

[citylaw1]

Lesson learned. No more forum participation for me. Bitter queens.

 

Don't give up Glenn. It grows on you after a bit.

[instudiocity]

http://www.companyofmen.org/images/misc/quote_icon.png Originally Posted by Glenn1441 http://www.companyofmen.org/images/buttons/viewpost-right.png

Paul has posted Rentboy ads over the past couple of years, intermittently, and I've exchanged texts with him. Each time I contact him via his newly posted ad, he asks for my stats and photos. I reply that not only is discretion of the utmost importance for many if not most clients (some married, in relationships, others well-known, etc.), but, as an escort, he seems to be approaching the business as if he's searching for dates on Match.com. In response, he replies that he merely wishes to 'see' who it is he will be dealing with.

Well, while screening clients to some extent is necessary, asking for photos sends a distinct message, at least to me, a seasoned client of escorts.

His texts regarding sexual interests also support the idea that he perhaps feels being an escort is glamorous, or that he is desirable and 'wanted' as the focus is on his sexual interests, not mine.

Finally, I saw his general profile on bbrt.com (not as an escort, but a member), a bareback site. That's fine. But he seems confused regarding his interest in 'piggy' sex... He lists himself as 'versatile,' and his status as 'negative,' and requires any partner to be negative.

Well, difficult for me to respect that since anyone who engages in bareback sex cannot trust a partner's negative status as certain. Screening potential partners for bb sex based on the fact he tells you he's negative? Really?

Kid seems confused, in general. Shame too, as I find him sexy, and apparently, he lives in my neighborhood.

Any direct experience with him, anyone?

 

After all of this you're interested in "direct experience?" I think you know everything that you need to know. Fish=Sea.

 

I never met him personally, but I remember some guy named Glenn1441 dishing some dirt that steered me away form the hire. He mentioned:

 

1. He was indiscreet.

2. He treated his business as if he was on www.match.com .

3. He asked for client photos, as if he was arranging a date. This seemed a little self serving to Glenn.

4. He was focused on himself, and self interests, rather than the client. Too much so for Glenn's taste.

5. He practiced bareback sex, yet insisted on his clients being HIV negative. This seemed odd to Glenn, and he wondered "how could this be?"

6. Glenn was very confused over this escort's apparent interest in "piggy sex," and nearly floored to find that this guy wasn't interested at all??

7. Glenn found it "difficult to respect him" based on his all around irresponsible behavior and bi polar outlook on his profession, so much so that Glenn even suggested that this guy was in it for himself, not the client.

Damn, citylaw1, even I wait more than an hour before turning into repetitious bitch!

 

Glenn1441, you need to forgive citylaw1, he just hasn't been the same since his dream fuck wouldn't fly to him. LOL! (Damn, I'm starting to feel like glutes)

[jjkrkwood]

Lesson learned. No more forum participation for me. Bitter queens.

 

Elephants NEVER forget

[Phil_musc]

I can't believe that grown men are having this discussion. Too much leisure time on the one hand, and Glenn: don't know you at all but your post is only 3 hours old and already you're swearing off the board presumably because you didn't get the information you wanted or no one echoed your enthusiasm. Might I counsel a little bit of patience - at least give your thread a little more time for others to respond. Perhaps someone will chime in with something nice to say about the guy you're interested in. Give it time (at least more than 3 hours).

On the other hand, if you just wanted your high opinion of the guy corroborated by this august body (which kinda seems to be the case) you may be outta luck on this. People have responded albeit unfavorably. That doesn't mean that you have to gather up your marbles, hitch up your hoop skirts and flounce on outta here. It's just possible that everything that has been written so far is all that will be forthcoming. OK, so no one had anything good to say about your guy. Deal with it. Pick another one and see if the other critics on here will find something good to say about gentlemen number 2.

[maxwellissmart]

Lesson learned. No more forum participation for me. Bitter queens.

 

In all honesty, your post comes across less as "Does anyone know about Paul?" and more like "Will someone give me permission to see Paul, an escort who I've just about convinced myself is wrong for me in every way possible?"

 

Surely there's another escort out there who does what Paul does, and won't ask for your pic up front "just so he can see what you look like."

[citylaw1]

I can't believe that grown men are having this discussion. Too much leisure time on the one hand, and Glenn: don't know you at all but your post is only 3 hours old and already you're swearing off the board presumably because you didn't get the information you wanted or no one echoed your enthusiasm. Might I counsel a little bit of patience - at least give your thread a little more time for others to respond. Perhaps someone will chime in with something nice to say about the guy you're interested in. Give it time (at least more than 3 hours).

On the other hand, if you just wanted your high opinion of the guy corroborated by this august body (which kinda seems to be the case) you may be outta luck on this. People have responded albeit unfavorably. That doesn't mean that you have to gather up your marbles, hitch up your hoop skirts and flounce on outta here. It's just possible that everything that has been written so far is all that will be forthcoming. OK, so no one had anything good to say about your guy. Deal with it. Pick another one and see if the other critics on here will find something good to say about gentlemen number 2.

 

Very well said. It feels like an adult has entered the room. "I can't believe grown men are having this discussion" is downright hilarious! I'm literally laughing out loud.

[jjkrkwood]

Very well said. It feels like an adult has entered the room. "I can't believe grown men are having this discussion" is downright hilarious! I'm literally laughing out loud.

 

Ya gotta admit, 19 pages of your Post on Sean was pretty funny too.... I am still on the floor !

[Nvr2Thick]

Lesson learned. No more forum participation for me. Bitter queens.

 

With all due respect,

 

1) It's common for original posts for questions such as "Anyone ever tried...?" to be immediately answered by many of the most active participants regardless of their lack of experience with the escort in question. They'll jump to the escort's ads and past reviews, suggest that you do the same even though there's a good chance you've already done so, and they'll offer an opinion based on the information at hand. As Philmusc noted, you'll need to wait out the relevant feedback, if any is available. Some feedback may come through PMs. There are some great guys on this forum who choose not to have their input picked apart. If you provide a lot of back and forth critiquing the non-productive feedback someone will usually step in and try to close the thread by suggesting the obvious -- that you obviously have your own opinion and you should pursue it by hiring the escort and posting a review to share your experience with the <ahem> community.

 

2) You did stack the deck against yourself, as you've discovered, by listing your substantial reservations about this guy up front.

 

Public discussion requires thick skin, selective hearing, and patience.

[+ Gar1eth]

With all due respect,

 

1) It's common for original posts for questions such as "Anyone ever tried...?" to be immediately answered by many of the most active participants regardless of their lack of experience with the escort in question. They'll jump to the escort's ads and past reviews, suggest that you do the same even though there's a good chance you've already done so, and they'll offer an opinion based on the information at hand. As Philmusc noted, you'll need to wait out the relevant feedback, if any is available. Some feedback may come through PMs. There are some great guys on this forum who choose not to have their input picked apart. If you provide a lot of back and forth critiquing the non-productive feedback someone will usually step in and try to close the thread by suggesting the obvious -- that you obviously have your own opinion and you should pursue it by hiring the escort and posting a review to share your experience with the <ahem> community.

 

2) You did stack the deck against yourself, as you've discovered, by listing your substantial reservations about this guy up front.

 

Public discussion requires thick skin, selective hearing, and patience.

 

Just wondering if you saw that the OP started this thread back in May 2012 and is probably not around anymore as he didnt get the answers he wanted.

 

And if anyone else is interested in Paul- I think I answered a question about him a long time ago. I cant remember everything I wrote back then, but it was a less than thrilling overnight.

 

Gman

[Nvr2Thick]

Just wondering if you saw that the OP started this thread back in May 2012 and is probably not around anymore as he didnt get the answers he wanted.

 

And if anyone else is interested in Paul- I think I answered a question about him a long time ago. I cant remember everything I wrote back then, but it was a less than thrilling overnight.

 

Gman

 

Nope, thanks. I saw this thread jump to the top and assumed it was a new one. "If you haven't seen it it's new to you" doesn't apply here. Sorry folks.

[Guest thewillowsmokesweed]

He's still on there. Hot, kinky fuck.

[geoffk]

link doesnt work, guess paul pulled his ad bc of all this to do. ha ha.