Give Him a Hand !

[jjkrkwood]

I noticed recently when going to various group sex parties that "Hand jobs" are becoming more and more popular and prevalent.

 

While I never underestimate the power of a good hand job, it seems the popularity of this act is overtaking anal and oral in some circles....

 

Several guys have also said to me, "just jerk it off".....

 

Maybe its just me, but I gotta get my mouth on the thing, but I am trying to be open minded here....

 

Whats your thought on hand-jobs, giving and receiving ?

 

Are they the wave of the future, or just SAFE sex ????? Would you Hire an escort for mutual Handjobs ?

 

:confused:

[Michael Wayne]

some of my , "Straight....." , clients prefer a nice nude erotic massage and a hand job or two and they are totally satisfied. Sometimes they dont even touch my cock. Sometimes they do comment on it though something like, "Damn, my wife would like that thing!" Usually, though, as they get to know me they experiment more and more. Handjobs kind of remind me of freshman year High School though and can be kind of exciting. But I have to admit after I recieved my first blow job in 10th grade the handjobs were less and less exciting.

[gallahadesquire]

 

Maybe its just me, but I gotta get my mouth on the thing, but I am trying to be open minded here....

 

Whats your thought on hand-jobs, giving and receiving ?

 

Are they the wave of the future, or just SAFE sex ????? Would you Hire an escort for mutual Handjobs ?

 

:confused:

 

Try to wrap your mind around it instead of your hand. Maybe that will help.

[jjkrkwood]

Try to wrap your mind around it instead of your hand. Maybe that will help.

 

Well, I have heard of "Mind-Fucks"...... but..........:o

[maxwellissmart]

I noticed recently when going to various group sex parties that "Hand jobs" are becoming more and more popular and prevalent.

 

While I never underestimate the power of a good hand job, it seems the popularity of this act is overtaking anal and oral in some circles....

 

Several guys have also said to me, "just jerk it off".....

 

Maybe its just me, but I gotta get my mouth on the thing, but I am trying to be open minded here....

 

Whats your thought on hand-jobs, giving and receiving ?

 

Are they the wave of the future, or just SAFE sex ????? Would you Hire an escort for mutual Handjobs ?

 

:confused:

 

This can be one of the hottest things imaginable if you... well... use your imagination. Too often guys just go on autopilot and think "one speed fits all" and that speed is set on "high."

[unsub2O17]

It's all I knew for years and years. Kind of got imprinted.

[seeker630]

I'm in agreement here, JJ - I don't get much pleasure out of giving them (my arm gets tired!) and it's very rare that someone ELSE's hand can get me off.

 

And most people have their own technique. (One of today's reviews mentions that the escort found the client's technique 'interesting'.)

[Sparky12]

My absolute favorite thing is to get a long, slow teasing handjob. Especially if the guy is into giving it!

[Phlmuscle]

A hand job with edging when in bondage is a very hot experience. If you haven't tried it, I suggest you do so. It's a whole new experience.

[Bosguy]

Combine a handjob with oral from or to a guy who knows what it's all about is amazing. I think the trick is knowing when to use the varying speeds and stroke lengths.

 

Boston Bill

[corndog]

I don't do group sex parties, but, like jj, that doesn't mean I don't have an opinion. I am not sure why everything needs to be so subversive, as I have said before. You can usually tell by the kind of ad placed, the location of the ad, the photos used and the description by the party planner "what they are truly down for".... If there is still some question or Doubt about whether it's going to be mostly hand jobs, just ASK. Its a conversation between ADULTS and better to clear things up from the start on the phone than to have awkward moments face to face. If the party planner is not ON BOARD with what you are looking for, he will most certainly tell you. I cant believe that even the most naive person isnt able to figure this out. And if its the oral aspect that is the most driving force of your request, just go with an Escort instead. YES you may pay a bit more, but you wont be left jerking off at the party "wondering" for an hour....

[jjkrkwood]

I don't do group sex parties, but, like jj, that doesn't mean I don't have an opinion. I am not sure why everything needs to be so subversive, as I have said before. You can usually tell by the kind of ad placed, the location of the ad, the photos used and the description by the party planner "what they are truly down for".... If there is still some question or Doubt about whether it's going to be mostly hand jobs, just ASK. Its a conversation between ADULTS and better to clear things up from the start on the phone than to have awkward moments face to face. If the party planner is not ON BOARD with what you are looking for, he will most certainly tell you. I cant believe that even the most naive person isnt able to figure this out. And if its the oral aspect that is the most driving force of your request, just go with an Escort instead. YES you may pay a bit more, but you wont be left jerking off at the party "wondering" for an hour....

 

corn, maybe I'm extra confused today, or maybe its the weather, but I dont understand YOUR reply. I see that you quote a previous comment I made, but I dont get the connection to THIS thread? . I am not talking about anything subversive. I am talking about the act of "hand-jobs" which are communicated between participants.... Yes you do have an opinion, and its valued, just not understood in this post.

[corndog]

JJ, it's common sense. If you want to know whether people at a sex party you're attending are into hand jobs, just ASK THEM. What's so difficult about that?

[Phil_musc]

I guess I'm old fashioned on this one. I've been doing my own hand jobs so long no one else does it quite to my liking. Now that wouldn't get me to wave someone's hand away from my business - I'm always the optimist about these things. But really, as far as hand jobs go, I'm kinda with Carly Simon on this one: Nobody does it better. . . It's also my thinking that since I can do this so well by myself, do I really want somebody else to do it for me? I've had massages that were pretty nice along these lines but even then I kept thinking to myself that I could do this better and I wouldn't have forked over the moola. At a social gathering where I'm only kinda playing, I guess it's okay and you can readily move on to the next guy. It's a little like getting acquainted on a very basic level. But I'd hope that things would progress to something that involved a little saliva at the very least. But at least it's quite safe provided there are no open sores/blisters/what-have-you on the hand in question. Just doesn't fulfill my search for intimacy and connection.

[jjkrkwood]

JJ, it's common sense. If you want to know whether people at a sex party you're attending are into hand jobs, just ASK THEM. What's so difficult about that?

 

Excuse me, that wasnt the thread question nor the issue. I had already said THEY WERE. Reading skill is tantamount to sarcasm. PRACTICE !

[jjkrkwood]

I guess I'm old fashioned on this one. I've been doing my own hand jobs so long no one else does it quite to my liking. Now that wouldn't get me to wave someone's hand away from my business - I'm always the optimist about these things. But really, as far as hand jobs go, I'm kinda with Carly Simon on this one: Nobody does it better. . . It's also my thinking that since I can do this so well by myself, do I really want somebody else to do it for me? I've had massages that were pretty nice along these lines but even then I kept thinking to myself that I could do this better and I wouldn't have forked over the moola. At a social gathering where I'm only kinda playing, I guess it's okay and you can readily move on to the next guy. It's a little like getting acquainted on a very basic level. But I'd hope that things would progress to something that involved a little saliva at the very least. But at least it's quite safe provided there are no open sores/blisters/what-have-you on the hand in question. Just doesn't fulfill my search for intimacy and connection.

 

Funny you should say that Phil. I agree. I kinda liken it to a "Hand shake"....

[Phil_musc]

I think we'd probably travel well together, JJ - have just been reading that other thread.

[corndog]

Excuse me, that wasnt the thread question nor the issue.

Since when has that ever stopped YOU?

[jjkrkwood]

I think we'd probably travel well together, JJ - have just been reading that other thread.

 

OK, pack your bags and lets go somewhere !

[jjkrkwood]

Since when has that ever stopped YOU?

 

I dont allow silly people, or anyone for that matter to stop me. And I havent fared too badly in life with that approach. You may borrow it if you'd like !

 

By the way corn, there is a small, elite group on this site whose slogan is "Squash JJ" or something like that, and they are looking for new supportive members.

 

You may wanna contact them for membership ? and I have now HiJERKED my own Thread. :o

[zeyfur]

To each his own ,but handjobs dont turn me on. Now blow jobs are a different matter altogether

[maxwellissmart]

To each his own ,but handjobs dont turn me on. Now blow jobs are a different matter altogether

 

I like to combine the two, honestly.

[Phil_musc]

All well and good, Max, but once you've added in the BJ, you've taken the proceedings out of the realm of a strict hand job. I like the way you think - I see merit in combination therapy myself.

[unsub2O17]

I guess I'm old fashioned on this one. I've been doing my own hand jobs so long no one else does it quite to my liking. Now that wouldn't get me to wave someone's hand away from my business - I'm always the optimist about these things. But really, as far as hand jobs go, I'm kinda with Carly Simon on this one: Nobody does it better. . . It's also my thinking that since I can do this so well by myself, do I really want somebody else to do it for me? I've had massages that were pretty nice along these lines but even then I kept thinking to myself that I could do this better and I wouldn't have forked over the moola. At a social gathering where I'm only kinda playing, I guess it's okay and you can readily move on to the next guy. It's a little like getting acquainted on a very basic level. But I'd hope that things would progress to something that involved a little saliva at the very least. But at least it's quite safe provided there are no open sores/blisters/what-have-you on the hand in question. Just doesn't fulfill my search for intimacy and connection.

 

Fascinating. Same belief but exactly the opposite conclusion. Because I can do it so well myself, it's the very last thing that I want to do when I'm with an escort. I love jerking or sucking him off, and I also love him doing the same for me. The slight unpredictability of it makes it even more exciting for me. In fact, if the escort can't or won't get me off, then I'd rather not cum at all than have to do it myself (with him just lying there). Now, if I can't get him off, then I certainly want him to finish himself if he wants to (I do so love to see escorts cum). Well, that's my .02.

[Rick Munroe]

 

Several guys have also said to me, "just jerk it off".....

 

Wouldn't it be easier for them to just stay home and j/o to porn?